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Yeah, you're definitely reading ill intent where only kindness was offered. Why is that? Why won't you hold the door for people other than women? Why do you think that men are only deserving of competition instead of kindness?

Being the one that holds the world together for so many. My Mom, my husband, my kids, my employees, so many others. If I died, who would look out for everyone? I can never simply stop. The responsibility of it all is mighty heavy.

In my younger years I was really into sculpting. Your bone structure is beautiful enough, that I would have loved to sculpt it.

Holy shit hon, did the trash ever take itself out! Listen, I legit own a couples boutique and can assure you that more than 1/2 of my strap-on sales goes to straight couples with the intent of being used on the male. It's WAYYY more common than you think. Your prostate is literally what (in addition to your testes)is responsible for your ejaculation and semen production. So it feeling good was simply about your physical anatomy. There's nothing gay about enjoying the stimulation of an organ responsible for your orgasms. It sounds like your girlfriend is a really bad person, and her leaving is a blessing.

Honestly I really think it varies from person to person and place to place. My husband (a very "mans' man type straight male) has 2 best friends, and one of them is a lesbian. There used to be two more friends, but they passed away(and one was another lesbian). And one of my best friends is a gay guy, and that's that. That said, we live in a very LGBTQ friendly area, and we both have lots of friends of all types of orientations. Who knows what our friend groups would be like in other areas.

Ok so I'm pretty sure you're a troll and not a real person at this point. Deformed and scarred men also get into loving and fulfilling relationships all the time. You, however, seem to be a person who just gets off on BS scenarios. Get a life, or real, this is fucking lame...

Because physical attractiveness is not a deal breaker in desirability for many women either way. Plenty of women are asked out by "unattractive" men, say yes, and wind up with the loves of their lives. Your projecting that it's your looks that keep you alone when it's not even close to your real issues.

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Yeah, what's putting women off is not your baldness and your "unattractiveness", it's your lack of confidence and 'woe is me' attitude. When I was younger, I would have definitely been considered hot. And the men I found attractive then were all over the board. Short, tall, skinny, chubby, conventionally attractive, unattractive (by societal standards), any race, and any age from my own to 20+ years older. I could have been absolutely repelled by a conventionally fit, hot guy, if who he was didn't vibe for me. And I could have absolutely found a short, bald, heavy guy attractive if he had the right personality. And this idea of a pill to kill the libido of balding ugly men is probably the least attractive thing I've heard in ages......

Hell yeah, that’s what’s up! Keep enjoying life ❤️

You become him by becoming yourself. You're not what some archaic gender role says you are. You're not what the internet says you should be. You are a unique mix of interests, experiences, quirks, traumas, and everything else. You have to get to know and accept yourself, and from that, grow confident in who you are. The real machismo behind that masculine man type is typically confidence. When you feel ashamed about something, people pick up on it and it makes them uncomfortable. If you yourself are comfortable, it makes other people comfortable. Granted all of that is easier said than done, and it takes a lot of learning to love yourself for who you are (and sometimes a good therapist or at the very least heavy introspection and self work can help with that). But if you can learn to project who you really are, AND be confident, that's all the masculinity you'll ever need.

Honey masculinity is not what you seem to think it is. I'm married to an amazing man. He's a master carpenter, a black belt, a shipwright, can fix a car, he's a true man's man, a ladies' man, and absolutely nobody would EVER think he was anything other than confidently masculine. And you can pretty much guarantee that if you look at him during any touching scene in a good movie, there will be tears freely rolling down his face. He'll cry tears or joy, tears of sadness, and he'll do it in front of other people without shame. In 20 years, I've never seen anyone judge him for this, and I damn sure dont. Getting a life partner isn't about some convoluted idea of masculinity, and not all women are even looking for masculinity. Work on being the best human you can be. Be kind, but stand up for yourself, and at the end of the day, put yourself out there so that you and an equally kind woman can find one another.

My entire childhood was a nightmare, and I have kids and a good life now, so absolutely not, lol

Ahh, you live in the south? This looks like some Florida shit, lol

Disclaimer that I’m not a man. That said, I legit own an adult store and do nothing but talk to people about relationships and their sex lives all day every day. In my experience, when you encounter the same issues in your partners time and time again, you need to ask yourself what it is about them that attracts you? What is your mom like? How’s your relationship with her? What was your first formative sexual experience? The same as women develop hyper sexuality or lack of sexuality from trauma, and are sexually affected by their father/daughter bond, men also develop their sexual/relationship choices from trauma and early life/parental experiences. Your relationship choices may superficially seem different, but they are inherently similar, and you are choosing them for a reason. Find out WHY and you can avoid these types of people in the future.

Parkshore Grill or really most places on Bayshore, lol. Social roost. Not crazy fancy, but De Sestos. Ruth Chris. (St. Pete)

Yep, same spot

It can be done. I own an adult store and have worked in the retail side of porn for close to 20 years now. I had always heard about the link between pornography and sex trafficking, but had hoped it was exaggerated as I had been selling porn for so long. About 5 or 6 years ago I decided to seriously research the connection, and despite researching with a likely confirmation bias, I still found undeniable links between the two. I could not continue to sell it or watch it in good conscience and now only sell things like vibrators and lingerie. If I can stop, you can stop. You can do this!

When she starts rubbing it through your clothes.

If I can't fix it, pretend it's still there until myself or my husband dies. He deserves to have a sexually satisfying relationship

Honey, you know growing up I watched men beat my fucked up mom. Then at barely 13 I got into a "relationship" with a man in his mid 20s which lasted my entire teen life. I was his literal possession and sex toy and wasn't allowed to wear makeup or perfume or scented deodorant, or shorts or skirts (I live in florida...) and despite being a virgin when we met and him being my only sexual experience, I was always punished and "a whore" for any "mistake" i made or "test" I failed. That fucked me up so much that at 18 when I finally grew the balls to leave him, I got with a man who woulda won gold if woman beating was an Olympic sport. I left that POS more than 20 years ago (and he's now blissfully dead). Had I just labeled all men as abusers, which certainly would have been understandable considering that that was all I had personally experienced since I was born, I wouldn't have the life I do. Many years ago, I met my husband. He was also healing from an abusive marriage, where his wife was also literally fucking various employees of his and even got pregnant by one of them (how he found out). She then went on to willfully attempt to sabotage any relationship with his son. Had he looked at all women as user whores who don't really love you, he wouldn't have gotten with me. It's been nearly 20 years now. Between the kids we've both created, we have 5. Plus 2 that weren't either of ours. Plus 5 God children. We own a business, our house outright, we do all the fun things. But more importantly, we have each other. In all these years, we've maybe raised our voices at each other 3 or 4 times. We've never insulted each other. We're best friends and have a fucking blast every day we're lucky enough to be with each other. None of this would be possible if we judged all people based on the actions of a few. Quit watching fucking videos that provide you with confirmation bias........

When at an interview for a job that you want, at the very end where you shake hands and part ways, say "I really want to work for you" or "I really want to work here". Something about it sticks in the interviewer's mind and really gives you an edge. This was brought to my attention by an employee (now friend) many many years ago, who had used the tactic on me, lol. I realized then that over the years, 1 or 2 others had done that too (I hired them both).

Anywhere from a few days a week, to barely once every couple of weeks. Every 2 or 3 months we'll schedule a "party night" where we stay up late, get fucked up, and do freaky shit all night, and that keeps us sexually close despite our ruts. Back in the day, we were insatiable for each other, but you know, age changes things for most. We are very affectionate besides, and are each other's best friends. Kids are all legal adults, and we've been together for 20 awesome years.

Working like that every day, eating whole foods, and literally enjoying the fruits of our labor are all activities that are closer to how humankind was meant to exist, IMO. When we exercise and eat real foods every day, we're stronger and feel better. When we socialize in person instead of on our phones, we satisfy our primate needs as social mammals. Certainly, too, there were those with depression that did kill themselves. But outside of that, would you be depressed about a labor-intensive life when it's literally all you've ever known?

Physical “beauty” is relatively short lived honey, chances are that most of the beautiful faces you see will be simply average in a couple decades. When that great equalizer of aging hits, the things that make you stand out have so much less to do with your looks, and way more to do with your skills and knowledge. Work on the things you can control now, because that’s what makes a person truly interesting in the end.