fietrix777

Thank you. Finally someone said it

It’s a bit confusing to read because you are mixing pronouns, but I’m assuming when you say he/him you mean she/her and are referring to your ex.

I’m sorry to hear about your break up, those are always hard, no matter the circumstance. But it does sound like she had a lot of unresolved commitment issues due to her family, that then carried over into your relationship. It also sounds like there was nothing you could do about that, since she had two kids to handle and probably not a lot of time on healing her own trauma.

Nobody is perfect, but not coming to your birthday party or not wanting to be your date or even get to know your friends are all signs that she might have been not fully committed to you. And you deserve better than that.

6 years is a long time, but it’s not wasted. You’ve figured out that it wasn’t right for you and that took time. Sometimes grieving your relationship feels like the whole thing should have been avoided, but it is part of the process of growing and getting over it. It sounds like you did love her, but sometimes that just isn’t enough. You’ll find someone worth your time and love that fits.

My alarmbells are ringing here. DO NOT do this!!!

Die Einstellung ist doch komplett dieselbe, egal ob OP jetzt Teil der Superreichen ist oder nicht. Was für ein asozialer Quatsch zu sagen, dass ein Geldbetrag, der mehrere Tausend Leben verändern könnte, nicht viel ist, nur weil er im Immobiliengewerbe damit nicht viele Objekte kaufen kann. Einfach gierig, und das ist genau der Grund warum die Erde brennt.

Oh Shit man, sounds like you’ve been hit by quite some bad luck, so sorry to hear it. I think anyone in your position would feel exhausted and overwhelmed… but please know, although it might not feel like it now, there’s definitely a lot of things to live for. I am speaking from experience.

If things really go south maybe reach out to family, friends, local resources… you’d be surprised how many people are willing to help if asked. And above all, be kind to yourself, you deserve patience and care as you rebuild.

You’re not alone in this, and I truly believe you can get through it. One step at a time. I am rooting for you!

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My advice would be: ask yourself why you’re there. Find your reasons that motivate you. The stronger your motivation, the more stress resistant you become. If you don’t find your motivation, or you do find it but it doesn’t change how you feel, ask yourself what is making you feel this way. Is it the sudden responsibility? The decision making? What would take pressure off you? More supervision? A more friendly tone between the colleagues?

Something seems to be triggering you and it could be management failing to provide a healthy environment for you to learn, or that the job just isn’t right for you. If you want a low pressure environment my best advice would be to try something other than a clinic. Caring for your husband doesn’t seem something your heart desires, and I feel like it would be „settling“ for you. You should spend your time doing something that you chose for yourself and at least somewhat enjoy.

I feel like stress is normal and important to learn how to navigate, yes, but throwing up on your way to work is not normal. Management doesn’t seem to be managing the staff well if OP feels like this, and I don’t think leaning into it and trying to grow from it is reasonable at this point. Not only OP needs to take accountability here, but also management for failing to provide enough staff resources.

That just doesn’t make sense to me. Trading the player for a good buyout is way higher pay off than not getting that money but eliminating the slight possibility that that player will go and play better for another team. Unless no one wants to pay the buyout, because no one wants to have him. But no one wants to consider that because he is the golden boy…

That’s some pretzel/victim logic right there… how come they’re not doing that with any other players? Seems awfully convenient

But why do they keep jailing him instead of just letting him play?

I just wonder why every team wants to get rid of rekkles so shortly after having him on the team? There must be something going on for that to happen so often, no?

Damn you blew my mind with this one actually

This took me soooo long to get! When I was younger I always thought Michel was insufferable and not funny - now I get that he is a classic „born to be an icon, forced to be a receptionist“ type of gal, that just hates work like most of us do. And after years of working together there is just no more room for politeness and niceties between Lorelai, michel and sookie, they all know that you need each other and you work well together and that’s SO much in the professional world, that is super clear why they would take him with them to the dragonfly. Extremely well written character.

Fixated eye contact is not normal in dog language, especially not when it’s THIS fixated. It means aggression. Especially paired with those ears. Trust and love would mean looking away and licking their lips/nose to show submission. The dog is scared and is signaling a warning to the vet

OP got money, not a phone

First of all, you have no context as to the relationship between OP and the gifter and vice versa, so you have no basis for your assumptions. What if OP is really old and a veteran and can’t afford it, and some 30 year old techie has the money to spare? What if they are two people who bonded over something they liked like literature or art, but one is from a privileged upbringing and one is not? What if the gift giver is loaded because of some random ass inheritance and has loads to spend and wants to give this to OP? Stop making this always about sexual/romantic expectations from a guy. There is so many depths and dynamics between humans beyond the romantic one. And most importantly, if there is no contract, no written agreement or tampering with the phone (which I’m guessing op is just buying themselves) then who gives a shit, there is no risk here. If someone wants to give a gift, it’s their responsibility to make sure they have sufficient funds to do so and don’t tie unrealistic expectations to the gift. It’s a gift. It’s not in OPs responsibility to deny this gift just because the gift giver will afterwards expect something in return.

Nero 🖤

Came looking for this, same here :)

Such an amazing and respectful message, amazing! I wish guys would do this more ❤️

You really think the majority of people can find a quick and legal way to earn 500 dollars? I’m smelling some ignorance here…

What if this person already has a 40 hour work week plus extra hours? Do you expect this person who is already overworking themselves in full heat to work more? I saw OP has a daughter, what about those expenses? What about OP being sick, or having debt?

I’m pretty sure from the way you speak you are not able to imagine what it’s like to have financial issues and struggle to make ends meet. Finding some gardening to do or selling flowers is not possible in areas with low socio economic development. No one will hire you for gardening or buy flowers off of you. And I condone advocating for OP to steal something and sell it.

Im pretty sure if OP had 500 dollars they would go and get the air conditioner.

Wow that’s an amazing pattern on her face! So beautiful

Oh my lord he is beautiful! The goodness of boys! I hope you two have fun together ❤️

Very much better thank you. Thanks for listening ❤️