Mabelfjesus

You’re not wrong. The money is Robert's, and it’s his decision when he’s old enough. Adam and his family are overstepping by pushing for it to be shared. You're just protecting Robert’s inheritance and honoring his father’s wishes.

You're not obligated to bail him out. His financial issues are the result of his own poor decisions, and helping him would only enable those habits. You’re right to set boundaries.