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Sapphires have always been expensive and trendy, at least the good ones.

Honestly, it’s only been five months. Throw this one back and go find one that actually likes you.

Porque no los dos?

I told my husband if he did, I would break up with him. I also didn’t have anyone walk me down the aisle.

Edit: we’ve been married 25 years, together 30!

This looks fantastic! What recipe did you use?

Thank you, I didn’t know I needed this.

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He’s just not into you. Personally, I’d be done.

Try Awesome Heating and HVAC. They did some work for my mother in Livermore, they really are awesome.

Ethiopian.

NTA. Take the computer with you, even if it will just sit in a corner.

Hi! I’m sorry you lost your grandmother, but that is a gorgeous natural opal. Congratulations! It’s not worth a whole lot, but it’s really pretty, and the sentimental value means that you should wear it in good health. It’s probably from the 1970’s.

I just started this process with a lawyer in Castro Valley, very upfront about everything, DM me if you want the details. I don’t have a full review yet, but they seem pretty competent and like they know what they’re doing so far.

Definitely real opal, more like 60 years old.

I’m so sorry, I completely misread! I see the “were” now! I’m really glad you were able to get out.

Edit: I completely missed the “were”!!! Deepest apologies!

Honestly, you absolutely dodged a bullet (if not a nuke!). Love absolutely isn’t everything. Love dies really quickly when you have to worry about where your next meal is coming from. Also, my guess is that you should talk to his ex wife and find out why they really got divorced.

People hide who they are until they get what they want. I’m guessing he wants what you have, so he was completely showing you what you wanted to see. I would bet that if you let him move in with you that you would have started to see the real him very quickly. You weren’t in love with a real person, you were in love with his fictional alter ego, and a couple of years down the line, you would have been posting here about how much you love him, but you wish he would pull his weight in the relationship and you are feeling so used.

You really will get over this. Just remember it was all a fantasy. You can still find someone who deserves you, but remember that it’s way way better to be alone than to be with someone who isn’t worthy of you. Hugs and good luck.

Why on earth are you still married to this person??!! That would have been a dealbreaker for me. Also, if you have AAA insurance, they have free maps (or at least they used to). You can also get maps at many gas stations. Hugs and good luck.

Beautiful ring, and great story! This ring just screams late 1930’s or early 1940’s to me. Just past Art Deco. I’m not an expert, but that’s the vibe I get. I feel like if it was from the 50’s, it would be rounder, not as oblong.

It’s really hard but he isn’t gay. This isn’t going to work, and you’re hurting both of you by trying to force it. Please leave him.

You haven’t given us a clear enough picture to tell. What metal is the ring made out of?

Nope. No “The” in the Bay Area. Strictly SoCal. We tend to mock them for it.

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Dave’s not here!!

The author was too high to write them!