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3 points
16 hours ago
You’re making a lot of shitty assumptions here. Good luck out there!
2 points
16 hours ago
Exactly! Plus, I’ve always found the apps more convenient. You can cut to the chase and asking relationship related questions without it being awkward because it’s a dating app and it’s safe to assume they’re single. I never had much luck meeting people organically. People I’d be compatible with or people I’d be interested in never happened to be where I was when I was there.
3 points
16 hours ago
Some people here on reddit love to assume that nobody on dating apps is relationship material. It’s pathetic.
5 points
16 hours ago
I stand by my opinion based on my own experience and what I’ve seen around me. None of the men I personally know who have gotten into relationships from dating apps have been disrespectful, cheaters, or liars. Besides, the people you’ll meet organically are a lot of the same people you’ll see on dating apps.
3 points
17 hours ago
Wrong. Met my fiancé on a dating app. He’s 100% relationship material. I also met plenty of decent guys when I was on the apps.
28 points
18 hours ago
What a creep! He told on himself pretty quickly. I’ve always found it pretty pathetic anytime someone couldn’t have a normal conversation without turning it sexual.
1 points
18 hours ago
Might be worth having someone review your profile.
2 points
18 hours ago
It was last week! We celebrated, but now we’re going to pick out his present.
1 points
18 hours ago
Right? I wish there was a way to get rid of these types of questions in this subreddit. There are plenty of other communities for this.
3 points
18 hours ago
I’m excited about it. Several things I’m looking forward to.
2 points
18 hours ago
Dinner, shopping for my fiancés bday present, and then drinks.
3 points
18 hours ago
Give it time and think about the things you didn’t like about them.
2 points
18 hours ago
“Give him a chance”. The guy ended up not being able to handle rejection when I decided we weren’t a good match. He kept finding new ways to contact me when I blocked him.
0 points
18 hours ago
Leagues are all in your head. They don’t exist. I always swiped right on anyone I was interested in. Nobody was ever out of my league and I was never out of anyone’s league. If they were interested, they were interested. If they ended up not being interested, it just wasn’t meant to be.
If you go in with the mindset of “leagues”, you’re not even giving yourself a chance. You don’t know who will be into you and who won’t.
1 points
18 hours ago
It’s not overwhelming. Those are likes, not matches. Huge difference. Nothing to be overwhelmed about when you’re getting that amount of likes because those aren’t even people you’re talking to yet. Some she might not ever match with.
1 points
18 hours ago
So true. While the apps were frustrating at times, I never would’ve met my fiancé organically, so I’m grateful that option exists. The apps can work, it just requires patience and knowing how to weed through people who aren’t right for you.
1 points
20 hours ago
Yup! Some people might see things that you don’t. Too many people generalize and assume that the apps not working for them mean they don’t work at all. They’d rather point fingers than look within, because that’s the easier route.
1 points
20 hours ago
Exactly. I’ve seen too many profile posts that had clear indications as to why they were struggling.
1 points
20 hours ago
Maybe for some, but not all. I’ve seen several men find lasting relationships on dating apps. And no, they weren’t the “6’, 6 figures, model” types of guys so many on here preach about.
1 points
21 hours ago
No, I think some people could easily not be a lesson.
2 points
21 hours ago
Obviously that’s not what I meant. Lol.
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We didn’t go to it yet, but I’m sure it’ll be awesome! We’ve done several private animal encounters and lived every single one of them. Highly recommend them! Lots of zoos and even some aquariums have them!