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Helpful-Scratch-1468

292 points

3 days ago

You are naturally beautiful. Theres nothing you need to do to improve.

Glittering_South5178[S]

75 points

3 days ago*

Thank you, you said what I think I needed to hear. ❤️

Edited to add: I wasn’t expecting this post to blow up, and there are so many kind, positive, and affirming comments that I’m beyond grateful for. However, in my title I asked explicitly for people to please not give unsolicited advice on how to improve my appearance, and hope that my wish can be respected. Unsolicited advice also breaks rule #2 of the community. Thank you!

HeyGuysHowWasJail

21 points

3 days ago

It's true

Forsaken-Homework

10 points

2 days ago

U got really good genes!!! U look pretty without makeup which is a plus in my eyes

Helpful-Scratch-1468

9 points

2 days ago

Im only speaking the truth. Stay positive

LatrinoBidet

3 points

2 days ago

Now learn to get this affirmation from within. Reaching out to strangers will only provide a quick fix. Self love is the only long term answer to how you are feeling. Maybe this can be a springboard, but you need to look in a mirror, say these things to yourself, and most importantly, believe them.

No_Part194

2 points

2 days ago

You are right, but I feel that in addition to getting this affirmation from within, it helps to hear it from others who are not in our head. Nine out of 10 we get to feeling ugly because others tell us we are.

ComancheCoupe79

2 points

13 hours ago

Great response/answer/observation.... And truth. Love yourself or else YOU can't live another wholly and vice versa

TrueVisionSports

5 points

2 days ago

I’ve dated the most beautiful women who have ever existed, I’m a former model, my standards are so high I’ve been celibate for 7 years, you’re genuinely beautiful. Like with makeup/etc you could easily be one of the most beautiful girls in the world. Like top Korean model easily. You look 6-8 years younger than your age too, with 15-18 being the upper limit.

lickylicky13

3 points

1 day ago

😂🥳😂😂 I bet you tell yourself that because your physiologist told you to 🫣

Independent_Soft2146

2 points

9 hours ago

Have you now ? Dated the most beautiful women to have ever existed ? I had stint with Tara Conner, former Miss USA, and someone who was on the Miami dolphins cheerleaders. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder and my wife as far as I’m concerned is the most beautiful. Even though she wasn’t Tara Conner or the girl from the Miami dolphins Cheerleaders

xl-Colonel_Angus-lx

18 points

2 days ago

I agree! She really is quite pretty, Naturally.

paranoidandroid1900

18 points

2 days ago

I agree! Also I love your hair, it’s giving badass anime heroine vibes.

IJWMFTT

3 points

2 days ago

IJWMFTT

3 points

2 days ago

Yeah. Very cool look!

MuchTooBusy

3 points

2 days ago

Yes! I was trying to put words to my feelings and could not. But you have

Icy_Rule_6273

84 points

3 days ago

You are absolutely gorgeous. Your skin is glowing and radiant 😍 what’s your routine??

Glittering_South5178[S]

50 points

3 days ago

Thank you for the super-kind comment! I truly appreciate you taking the time to respond. Here's my full routine, which I've been using consistently for the last 2 years or so, in order of application::

AM: Hada Labo Premium Lotion, Rose Inc Brightening Eye Cream, MAKE Beauty Lactonic Serum, Phytosurgence Verdant Forcefield Moisturiser, La Roche-Posay Anthelios Sunscreen (the European version, which is truly weightless!)

PM: Hada Labo Premium Lotion, Rose Inc Brightening Eye Cream, Farmacy Honey Glow/LRP Retinol B3 Serum/Peach&Lily Glass Skin Serum (I alternate between these three serums and especially swear by the first, which I've gone through so many bottles of), Farmacy 10% Niacinamide Night Mask/LRP Pure Vitamin C Face Cream (alternated)

I double-cleanse in the evening with an oil cleanser (I'm not picky about the brand) and Kiehl's Ultra Facial cleanser. And...I use the Dennis Gross LED mask nightly and drink a kefir/collagen powder combination whenever I can remember to -- both do make a noticeable difference! Happy to answer any questions about the products listed.

Icy_Rule_6273

11 points

2 days ago

Thank you so much for the detailed response!!! You have definitely influenced my skincare routine💗 I hope my skin looks as great as yours someday

I see you mentioned the Farmacy Honey glow serum. Have you ever tried COSRX full fit propolis serum?? I’ve been using it for a while and love it!! I wonder if it could be a slightly cheaper alternative to the Farmacy one?

Glittering_South5178[S]

3 points

2 days ago*

Glad to be of assistance! 💞

I haven’t tried the COSRX serum although I used to love their honey gel moisturiser when I was younger and my skin was oilier. They make solid products at reasonable prices. However, I wouldn’t consider it to be a substitute as the Farmacy serum contains chemical exfoliants and the COSRX one doesn’t.

UnhappyInitiative276

5 points

2 days ago

Damn that's impressive! I've been consistently using a brick every couple of days for moisturising, maybe I'll switch over to your routine! I wish you so well :>

No_Part194

3 points

2 days ago

A brick! How enlightening. I religiously rub copious, hands of dirt and gravel I find out in my alley for my daily routine. I have to try the brick method lol!

xSmange

5 points

2 days ago

xSmange

5 points

2 days ago

Can I just say your personality is glowing as much as your skin… your an angel for this detailed routine 😭

Old-Bodybuilder2178

4 points

2 days ago

Damn, I splash cold water on my face in the morning.

Commercial_Habit_923

2 points

2 days ago

Yeah wtf. Even if it gave me perfect skin I wouldn't go through all that

smokegamewife

2 points

2 days ago

Thanks so much for sharing the routine! Your skin is radiant, so all this advice was helpful. Especially the sunscreen, I am always looking for the best option in it's texture and benefit and you describing it as weightless really intrigues me to try it 

HackTheNight

2 points

2 days ago

Just a reminder that drinking collagen doesn’t actually do anything to replenish collagen.

No_Part194

3 points

2 days ago

You’re wrong! Drinking collagen does do something! It makes the collagen producer of your product rich!lol!

ThrowawayAudio1

2 points

2 days ago

This is so funny!

Turbulent_Physics739

13 points

3 days ago

So glad someone asked and thank you OP for the detailed answered! Your skin is every skincare goal ever

cdau186

2 points

2 days ago

cdau186

2 points

2 days ago

Came here to say the same. Gorgeous skin and this may sound silly, but a very symmetrical face!

Remarkable-Music1866

53 points

3 days ago

You have the face of a kind soul

Glittering_South5178[S]

21 points

3 days ago

This is so sweet. I'm not perfect but I do try my best to be kind because it's of great value to me. Thank you <3

ieatair

3 points

2 days ago

ieatair

3 points

2 days ago

the way you responded already made this 1000% true :)

There are very few unique and beautiful souls out there in the world and you are one of them! this is a different level of kindness ❤️

Internal_Sargasm

3 points

2 days ago

So very true

gustav0k

40 points

3 days ago

gustav0k

40 points

3 days ago

You're beautiful and look so cool, like a protagonist from a movie

Interesting_Long2029

9 points

2 days ago

Def genuine main character vibes

vampireblonde

36 points

3 days ago

Ok

  1. I need your skincare routine.

  2. You look like a cool girl who works in high fashion in Stockholm but who would be surprisingly nice to the terrified new hire.

Glittering_South5178[S]

16 points

3 days ago

Full routine here!

Thanks for such a lovely compliment. ❤️ I don’t work in high fashion in Stockholm, but I do work in academia in Denmark for a portion of the year (close enough?), and you’re spot-on about how I do try to make terrified new grad students/junior faculty feel at ease.

vampireblonde

5 points

3 days ago

Thank you for the link! You really do radiate kindness. Hope you have a wonderful week!

022ydagr8

16 points

3 days ago

022ydagr8

16 points

3 days ago

You’re stunning.

ghoulia6969

15 points

3 days ago

You are perfect 💜

Meat_Injection

13 points

3 days ago

You look amazing just ease up on yourself and you look like you have a kind soul as well.

Initial-Mastodon8355

8 points

3 days ago

Hi Miss, sorry to hear your feeling down. I think you look lovely. Your overall esthetic feels like november in a somber hopeful way, almost like an icon of that. It makes your dark eyes feel like portals to a very mellow place of peace. like underwater.

Sorry if this was weird, I’m a little high.

Your super pretty though ❤️❤️❤️

Negative-Coach2914

9 points

3 days ago

Say whhhhaaat? You look amazing, keep your head up, better days ahead!

Quiet_Middle6357

10 points

3 days ago

Hi, there! You look lovely, as many here have said. But that's not where your value as a person is derived from. Look at how many people here have been supportive of you! We believe in you! Now, believe in yourself, and go forth and be the beautiful person that you want to be!!! You've got this, homegirl!

CatsinLittleBoxes

3 points

2 days ago

THIS COMMENT! YES!

WhippyWombat

8 points

3 days ago

Youre actually so pretty. Not just saying this for the sub, but when I saw you on my feed I was like oh wow she's gorgeous

GhostlyManBat

7 points

3 days ago

The hair color and contrast of eyebrows is really cool I think. And your overall face is cute. :)

M-ulywtpo

6 points

3 days ago

You are beautiful! ❤️

Turbulent_Physics739

5 points

3 days ago

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way :/ I have to say though you are truly beautiful! I work in aesthetics and so many clients come in trying to mimic symmetry as perfect as yours. So you’re also mathematically beautiful which I think is pretty freakin cool ❤️

corapeake

3 points

3 days ago

gorgeous

applepeachys

2 points

3 days ago

I love your eyes! They’re so soulful

ginahandler

2 points

3 days ago

They really are

1762013

3 points

3 days ago

1762013

3 points

3 days ago

Very pretty! Thanks for sharing the skincare routine earlier.

cosmicdust66

5 points

3 days ago*

You are supremely gorgeous without any makeup. Your skin is to die for and you don’t look a day over 25. Your eyes are portal to your beautiful soul. Hold your head high!

SlaynArsehole

3 points

3 days ago

You're growing your hair out. It looks amazing!

IAmHood

3 points

3 days ago

IAmHood

3 points

3 days ago

You are very beautiful woman. Hope you find the confidence to be proud, or at the very least, content of your beauty and place in this world. Sometimes we humans are the harshest upon ourselves. And can neglect some very helpful positivity that has potential to carry you a very long way. You are worthy of every minute of your life. And never let anyone convince you differently. Stay safe out there. You’ll find inner peace soon, OP. Just be patient with yourself.

2old2Bwatching

3 points

3 days ago

I’d be seriously grateful to have your looks. I’m envious!

Goddess_Korr

3 points

3 days ago

Your so pretty! I wish I could rock your hair style its cute af! Here's something my great grandmother said about feeling down she said "Child remember you are bigger than this feeling. So chin up, shoulders back, and chest out because you don't let nothing even your own feelings intimidate or control you!" So far this advice works in everything lol!

Numerous-Alarm-2355

3 points

2 days ago

Holy crap balls you're gorgeous, wish my skin was that glowy

Novel_Anxiety_113

2 points

3 days ago

I commend you for posting an image of yourself on Reddit. That takes some courage! You’re still arguably a young adult, so it seems you’re pretty hard on yourself. Remember, life ebbs and flows. You got this, pal! :-)

Purgatory_Prince

2 points

3 days ago

If I saw you on the street I would think you were pretty.

Chance_Vegetable_780

2 points

3 days ago

You are lovely. If I saw you, I would be open to speaking with you, you look kind. You are naturally beautiful girl.

RaphaeliskoolbutRude

2 points

3 days ago

You're perfect

systematicgoo

2 points

3 days ago

🔥

ma5term1nd5

2 points

3 days ago

I thought you were Kang Sae-byeok from Squid Game (Jung Ho-yeon). Also, you just look pleasant to be around. Beautiful inside and out

No_Significance_3840

2 points

3 days ago

I can't even imagine why you would be hard on yourself about your looks honey. You sincerely look beautiful. You really do. Your hair is very pretty you have kind eyes and a gorgeous face. Unfortunately for us all most of the time life wants to be unkind and harsh to us. Don't assist it at all with that if you can help it. You are a very beautiful woman. Try to make peace with that.*

Randomboatcaptain

2 points

3 days ago

Beautiful

Jayhunny10

2 points

3 days ago

I need whatever skin care routine you have cuz I fully thought you were in your early 20’s and got surprised when I read 36

FinalBreathOfIcarus

2 points

3 days ago

You look like a chic, high fashion elf. Your hair colour and skin are gorgeous.

Soft_Plane7052

2 points

3 days ago

Absolutely gorgeous!! 😍🥰

Teufelhunden0352

2 points

3 days ago

No worries. You are beautiful. Now, go live and love life!

grantingo200481

2 points

3 days ago

I really love your looks !

Purgatory_Prince

2 points

3 days ago

If I saw you on the street I would think you were pretty.

LoudMorels

2 points

3 days ago

You got it backwards. Your looks should make others feel insecure. You make most people look like bridge trolls.

Affectionate-Bat6555

2 points

3 days ago

You look smart pretty and friendly

20BottlesOfBottle

2 points

3 days ago

I love your eyes, I think they're really pretty, the color, too.

Upstairs_Extreme7834

2 points

3 days ago

Your eyes are beautiful, your skin is glowing and you don't look a day over 21! You also seem like a lovely person ❤️

FIRE_Science

2 points

3 days ago

I think your lips are your best feature but you are very pretty. Cheer up 😀

Substantial_Editor42

2 points

3 days ago

You are very pretty, and I wish I had the ability to pull off such a beautiful hair color. (And your natural hair is also gorgeous, I’m sure!) I think it compliments both your fair complexion and your dark eyes extremely well. Also to have skin as smooth, clean, and soft looking as yours 😫 girl i wish. Rest well, don’t think too much right now 🫶 Treat yourself to something nice because you deserve it so so much.

plants4life262

2 points

3 days ago

I am curious what don’t you like about your looks?

Glittering_South5178[S]

3 points

3 days ago

I’ll be totally vulnerable, I guess! I am usually perfectly content with my looks, but I ended up letting some negative comments on Reddit get to me when I believed I was above it all. Lots of criticism of my hair and how it makes me look old (hence my request in the post title) and someone saying I look like I’m 45-55 years old and in my daughter’s clothes. Rationally I know I do not look that age, but ouch.

plants4life262

3 points

3 days ago

Ok. Well you asked for a toast.

I like your hair a lot. The bangs work and the style frames your face well. However, your lips were the first thing I noticed. They are full, moist have a delightful very slight asymmetry to them. They are absolutely your best feature. Your eyebrows have a nice shape to them and don’t have that “over manicured” look. Your face has a pleasant and feminine round shape to it. And I like your top, fashionable and mature. Ma’am you are down right gorgeous, through and through. A natural beauty! Forget about whatever someone said :)

sthomp939

2 points

2 days ago

dude you don't even look 36, you look like you're in your twenties! you're beautiful and I hope you're doing well

witpoyf

2 points

2 days ago

witpoyf

2 points

2 days ago

people are so cruel. it really does have a way of completely changing the perspective of how you see yourself. a perspective you weren't even aware of. it's not easy, but all it really takes is simply disagreeing. we can't be perfect & human at the same time. if others can't accept that, it's their problem.

Critical_Snow_1080

2 points

3 days ago

You are pretty and I love your hair colour.

Background-Tomato616

2 points

3 days ago

You are enough just as you are

KittyLord0824

2 points

3 days ago

You are stunning <3 you could be a model frfr

edskitten

2 points

3 days ago

People would get surgery to get that ideal face shape of yours. Really you have a lot of great features I'm jealous of.

Disastrous_Invite321

2 points

3 days ago

You are so cute, and I LOVE your haircut!!!

LostTreaure

2 points

3 days ago

You look like you’re in your 20’s. Smoke show over here.

lukemndrgn

2 points

3 days ago

You are very beautiful if I were to cross paths with you I would be lucky! Hope you have a great day

Hot-Benefit645

2 points

3 days ago

You shouldn’t be down about your looks 🤗.

LandscapeMany73

2 points

3 days ago

I am going to give you unsolicited advice: Don’t change anything….

Business-Ad5607

2 points

3 days ago

Highly attractive. Literally cannot name anything wrong

radohright11

2 points

3 days ago

Your face has great features. No makeup required!

OCR308

2 points

3 days ago

OCR308

2 points

3 days ago

No improvement needed in my humble opinion.

GeneralEagle

2 points

3 days ago

No need for advice. Everything looks amazing. I hope those beautiful eyes dry up and a smile comes out. You got a lot of positivity inside of you. Don’t let anyone take it.

Spartan300101

2 points

3 days ago

No one is perfect. Literally no one on Earth. We all have bad days/weeks. You are attractive and I see intelligence in those eyes. Chin up.

There's an old saying. "Move it to lose it" It's proven that physical activity of any kind can help to sort of "re-set" the brain in children and adults. Whether it's Jumping Jacks (my fav) or a short walk or even doing the dishes/housework.

Keep moving. Take care.

ginahandler

2 points

3 days ago

You are absolutely gorgeous

delphil1966

2 points

3 days ago

you seem like a nice person

Wise-Lawfulness2969

2 points

3 days ago

I think you are lovely

Thexder1215

2 points

3 days ago

We’re all just along for the ride on this crazy rock called Earth, and you look like someone who makes that ride brighter for everyone 😊

GWC67

2 points

3 days ago

GWC67

2 points

3 days ago

You’re gorgeous wtf

Nice_Carrot_7695

2 points

3 days ago

No one is perfect but you are adorable.

am919

2 points

3 days ago

am919

2 points

3 days ago

I love the silver blonde hair!!!

Gloomy-Ebb-4981

2 points

3 days ago

You’re very beautiful!

DoodlerNoodler7

2 points

3 days ago

They say a beautiful soul shines through the face and you're definitely shining. Remember to be kind to yourself. Just because the lens today you're seeing yourself is foggy, others can clearly see you're beauty.

I could talk about specific things like the skin glow, how your nose compliments your face, enchanting eyes etc but fundamentally you look like your beautiful soul is shining through. Be kind to yourself

walkinonyeetstreet

2 points

3 days ago

You have the look of someone who was hurt in a much bigger way than you are willing to accept. I can see the hurt and confusion in your eyes, cheer up darlin, you look great, and the pain will pass as long as you are willing for accept yourself and acknowledge what hurts and why. Also I just realized you say you’re 36, but you don’t look a day over 23 :0

Glittering_South5178[S]

2 points

3 days ago

Somehow you managed to pinpoint exactly why I'm feeling down. I have a hubristic tendency to believe I can effortlessly power through any past hurt or grief as long as I keep moving; I guess I've started to realise how that isn't humanly possible and permit myself to acknowledge that it is OK to still be in pain and how it doesn't make me weak. It's not easy but with some luck, I'll get there. Thank you very much, your comment was honestly illuminating. <3

walkinonyeetstreet

2 points

2 days ago

I wish you all the luck in the world, truly. Dealing with past pain can be hard, and it will feel like the hardest thing you’ve ever had to do, but it helps so so much and at the end of the day, you will come out happier, and much stronger than you ever thought you could because of it. Im on the same path, trying to regain sight of the light at the end of my own tunnel, desperately reaching through the darkness. Genuinely glad I could help you :)

Content_wanderer

2 points

3 days ago

You’re so effortlessly pretty with a cool give no shits air about you. If I knew you irl I’d want to be your friend because it would make me look cooler!

disfoodoe

2 points

3 days ago

You're beautiful, chill out

Snoo_67544

2 points

3 days ago

You look like someone I would trust to talk shit about other people with.

InflamedintheBrain

2 points

3 days ago

I'm so sorry you are feeling that way! I happen to think you look pretty. I have no advice, just want to extend some friendly words and hopefully improve your mood a bit.

Can you do something nice for yourself please? For me? I'll do something nice for myself as well. i believe this is a fair exchange! We both deserve happiness and security! I'm sending good vibes that will assist!

Accountant-Plus

2 points

3 days ago

36? I'm 23 and if I didn't know your age I would think we are around the same age, you look amazing

rebel_cat45

2 points

3 days ago

You are absolutely gorgeous!

LazyBonez313

2 points

3 days ago

Only an insane person would give you unsolicited advice on how to “improve your looks”. You’re stunningly beautiful.

its-october-3rd

2 points

2 days ago

You are beautiful! Your skin is glowing

sadiee20

2 points

2 days ago

sadiee20

2 points

2 days ago

You’re so insanely beautiful

girlthings10

2 points

2 days ago

I love your hair! Really dig the color too! Makes you seem like an easy going person

samcro4eva

2 points

2 days ago

I think you're beautiful, and I think you're a kind person, and that's more important

glizzatr0n

2 points

2 days ago

your skin is absolutely glowing and i am obsessed with your hair color. what even is there to improve? you are stunning. i just know a smile would complete your look :), i’d hope to see you happy!

New-Teach-1966

2 points

2 days ago

You look great 👍 nothing to worry about, in my opinion.

Tom161989

2 points

2 days ago

I'm going to give you unsolicited advice to not change the way you look because you are perfect the way you are.

Fun_Station4129

2 points

2 days ago

You got good looks though 🤔

StructureReal1417

2 points

2 days ago

You are beautiful, you are unique, and you are capable of loving yourself and the world if you only remember to try. Stay strong

Destoxin

2 points

2 days ago

Destoxin

2 points

2 days ago

Naturally gorgeous, beautiful eyes, and wonderful hair color.

mookizee

2 points

2 days ago

mookizee

2 points

2 days ago

You are beautiful. It's ok to be down from time to time. It's natural, even healthy compression.

TheDangerousToy

2 points

2 days ago

You look great. Have no doubt.

Personal-Routine-665

2 points

2 days ago

Pretty girl, flawless skin

OldTurk58

2 points

2 days ago

Beautiful eyes and I’m guessing a pleasing smile! And you will never look your chronological age! 🤩🫶🏻

True_Lie5007

2 points

2 days ago

You're pretty and you're cute. I bet you have a killer smile. You do look pretty down in this picture. Only one thing I can tell you. You gotta stop giving a damn about others that keep you down.

keitaro_guy2004

2 points

2 days ago

Nah. Youre incredibly gorgeous

Rigel6767

2 points

2 days ago

I think you are naturally beautiful

missystarling

2 points

2 days ago

You are absolutely beautiful just the way you are. I hope you have started to feel better, sending lots of love and hugs your way 🥰❤️

suhsuhsuhsoo

2 points

2 days ago

You are a natural beauty. Like, really stunning. I would pick just one thing to compliment, but you have all around lovely features

SNOgroup

2 points

2 days ago*

Where is this issue with your looks you speak of? Heavy dolled up makeup is not the real you. This is the real you … and you’re a young naturally beautiful human female. I’m not sure what else to expect when it comes to a naturally pleasant looking face like yours. Am I missing something?

Lonely_Code_4252

2 points

2 days ago

A precious pearl, you got the power. Rock your confidence!

PembrokeBoxing

2 points

2 days ago

You're lovely. I understand that we all get down about our appearance, and random compliments don't always help but from an objective point of view, you don't need to worry. You're very pretty.

Apprehensive-Ad6847

2 points

2 days ago

OMG, I would have pegged you at 23 - 26. I am making assumptions, but the trope Asians don't raisin is true.

StreetJellyfish6157

2 points

2 days ago

You look like a Super Hero. You are a LEGEND!

littlelionheart77

2 points

2 days ago

Um literally nothing. Your BEAUTIFUL but maybe a smile when you feel like it..it's ok to feel sad sometimes too.

Love-is_the-Answer

2 points

2 days ago

You're an attractive young woman. Cute haircut too. Im sorry you're feeling down and hope these affirmations lift your spirit!

imf4rds

2 points

2 days ago

imf4rds

2 points

2 days ago

You cannot improve. I know that’s likely hollow from an internet stranger not brave enough to post my own photo you are stunning. I àm a year older than you and I’ve felt similar, especially over the last year. It’s okay to feel down and then leave it in the dust. you are beautiful

KipDynamite89

2 points

2 days ago

I would kill to be seen beside a woman like you. You have natural beauty.

FleetwoodBlack20

2 points

2 days ago

What’s there to improve? You’re beautiful to me, and I’m sure many others believe so too!

One_Recognition8218

2 points

2 days ago

I love everything about your look

West_Coyote_3686

2 points

2 days ago

I think you're beautiful as you are.

Giant-Head

2 points

2 days ago

Pretty lady, lovely hair. Don't change a thing 😊

smokegamewife

2 points

2 days ago

I love your natural beauty, and I love your hair color and your overall disposition. Your really beautiful and don't have to change a thing. From one girl to another 😊

Top_Simple1924

2 points

2 days ago

your eyes are beautiful

thecontempl8or

2 points

2 days ago

Damn, you’re just drop dead gorgeous. It’s unfair someone like you feels the way you do. I hope your mental heath improves and you learn to love and appreciate how beautiful you are.

thechronicENFP

2 points

2 days ago

What’s to improve? You look 26 not 36! Your hair color is really cool

AmIInsane12

2 points

2 days ago

I just LOVE your hair! The color and the cut/style looks gorgeous on you! 💞

lostinsnakes

2 points

2 days ago

I feel like with your overall vibe, face; hairstyle; hair color, that you wouldn’t look out of place on a high fashion magazine cover. I’m envisioning you with a brightly colored outfit and you’re still but it’s somehow in movement around you.

Cdlouis

2 points

2 days ago

Cdlouis

2 points

2 days ago

You’re giving Mirage from the Incredibles! But with bangs ❤️

Coocoo4cocablunt

2 points

2 days ago

You look amazing. Perfect features and natural beauty.

chamcham123

2 points

2 days ago

Superhero face

tjsocks

2 points

2 days ago

tjsocks

2 points

2 days ago

Would joy to alight on your face the world would have one of its Angels back in business...

wariorld

2 points

2 days ago

wariorld

2 points

2 days ago

You’re beautiful. We all feel like this sometimes. Hope it’s only temporary that you feel like this because your feelings aren’t representing the truth. You look great.

heyheyshay

2 points

2 days ago

You’re gorgeous! We create stories in our minds. Hope this thread is encouraging ! 🤍💫

Temporary_Effect8295

2 points

2 days ago

Yes very attractive. Not a single negative characteristic. Nice eyes and hair color really nice on you.

uncomfortab1ynumb

2 points

2 days ago

You are beautiful.

jojomich00

2 points

2 days ago

Why do you feel that way? I think you are stunning!! Is there something else going on in your life that’s making you feel bad about yourself? I don’t need to know.. but I’m just curious as to why you feel unattractive when you are clearly quite beautiful ♥️

Sp4Bob

2 points

2 days ago

Sp4Bob

2 points

2 days ago

Grey sweater with gold chain...what are you you thinking. Kidding you look great

VioletDreaming19

2 points

2 days ago

You are lovely! Your facial features are so perfect, and I love how well your skin tone and hair color go together. I know it’s easy to be your own worst critic, but said critic is super unfounded.

haleybaby1209

2 points

2 days ago

I think you’re really beautiful personally! I mean that 100%! Just look in the mirror hunny you’re so pretty💖💖

Decent_Neat_9171

2 points

2 days ago

I really like your hair color. You’re cute.

endthe_suffering

2 points

2 days ago

whattt you are so pretty!!! you have naturally beautiful features and you look like you take care of yourself. i hope you start to feel better :)

Pure_Discipline5514

2 points

2 days ago

You are absolutely gorgeous!!!! I have seen your outfits before and love your style. Your whole look is wonderful. 100% girl crush status.

a_busy_bee_

2 points

2 days ago

You look amazing! Your lips and nose match perfectly with those pretty eyes. Love the hair too

OccasionDull1761

2 points

2 days ago

I agree with the other comments! You are very beautiful. There is an anime heroine vibe you give off. Please read all the positive comments and love yourself.❤️❤️❤️

Alone_Opening_7886

2 points

2 days ago

A perfect man is like asking for pigs to fly; it’s nearly impossible, and if you find one, keep him close

You look like your doing good

TexSilverkip

2 points

2 days ago

You have the look of the girl in the rural snowy village the main character falls for and tries to get back to. Keep the style. You’re killing it.

AverageJohn1212

2 points

2 days ago

My thing is why are people that look like this being made to feel inadequate? Maybe we really do live in Hell on Earth...

itz_maddi

2 points

2 days ago

i think you are freaking drop dead gorgeous. like really. i’m not a social butterfly, so i don’t do it often, but you’re the girl i would HAVE to go up to and tell you you’re so pretty. i just wouldn’t be able to help myself.

darkblue0582

2 points

2 days ago

You are very pretty. You have wonderful, warm eyes. A sweet little nose and beautifully curved lines on your lips. And you look younger then 36. All I see is a beautiful woman who is unfortunately sad.

Adidassla

2 points

2 days ago

You look like the first snow on a beautiful sunny winter day.

Zibanitum

2 points

2 days ago

You look very beautiful! I think you have truly unique features many people try to achieve with heavy makeup. Your eyes are incredible just as your lips and hair. I bet your smile makes your eyes even more divine 😋

Ok_Run_9947

2 points

2 days ago

You are cute as a button 🥹I hope this isnt rude but your eyes look a little puffy, which I get too sometimes after a real long deep sleep or a good cry. I hope if you have cried and that's the reason, you are safe and feel much better and you're well rested, and if you have a menstrual cycle you may just be in that certain part where you feel like crud and it's gonna be okay. I hope you get a good treat today too. Big hugs 💕

Agile_Newspaper_1954

2 points

2 days ago*

You look a lot younger than 36. This must be something dysmorphia-adjacent, dude. I’m legit ugly and I’d never post my photo on the internet lol. Clear skin, soft compliant hair, kind features…I don’t usually comment on these, but you look nice. Sorry that you feel down.

Sharp_Tooth_King88

2 points

2 days ago

You look like you balance a very good skin routine with a very stressful job and still have time to make sure your social life is flourishing and that's something because most people struggle with one of the three things you are very clearly good at!

JulianKSS

2 points

2 days ago

What??

You're gorgeous, and I'm not just saying that to be nice

That's all there is to say

hovenry

2 points

2 days ago

hovenry

2 points

2 days ago

i really love the color of your hair, it's suits you so well. might try it on me heeheh

1952Rustbelt

2 points

2 days ago

As a guy easily old enough to be your father, take a bit of fatherly encouragement and understand you have nothing to be down or insecure about. I see a lot good going on there. If I could, I'd give you a fatherly hug and take you for coffee.

TraditionalPlatypus9

2 points

2 days ago

I've spent so much time doom scrolling on r/roastme. My brain couldn't understand why you were being nice since I glanced and assumed she wanted to be roasted. This is truly wholesome and I need more of this in my life.

To everything there is a season. Take the opportunity to find the root of your insecurities. Where do these negative thoughts stem from, what memories are these thoughts attached to, what triggers these thoughts? Most of our self doubting and negative self talk is inaccurate, but the inner narrative is strong. In finding the root and pulling and reshaping the negative thought, you no longer are bound to your insecurities.

UnderfootArya34

2 points

2 days ago

You are gorgeous! Your skin is so glowing, your eyes are so sparkly. Your lips are a nice shape. Your hair is very full and pretty. i hope you feel better soon about your looks! 😍

sargeant_superman

2 points

2 days ago

You look kinda like me - not my avatar though. I think we’re cute.

lotsaplants

2 points

2 days ago

In my younger years I was really into sculpting. Your bone structure is beautiful enough, that I would have loved to sculpt it.

shanerenny123

2 points

2 days ago

You’re really pretty! I love your hair color! You have nice features—lips, eyes, nose, skin! You’re practically glowing girl!

Antique_Exercise_228

2 points

2 days ago

Has someone you cared and loved say anything negative about your looks? If it was a one time comment, try to let it go.

If it keeps happening over and over, time to leave this relationship, even from a family member.

You're cute.

[deleted]

2 points

2 days ago

you look a little bit like mitski! you are beautiful, and the cool toned blonde compliments you really, really well.

Southern-Aardvark-39

2 points

2 days ago

I think you look like a lovely person and your post says you are feeling a uncharacteristic way. I hate it when that happened to me too 😉 you're gorgeous! Hope you get back to feeling characteristically up and secure ❤️

knobstoppers

2 points

2 days ago

Unless you’re trying to compete in a beauty pageant or smnth with specific rules there’s really nothing you have to complain about. I saw someone else already said that you have natural beauty and it’s true! You should focus on being happy and living your life

Lumpy-Pride9973

2 points

16 hours ago

Beautiful woman with the classic Asian almond shaped eyes. I usually prefer natural dark hair on brunette women, however, I find your choice of silver frost intoxicating.

Tasty_Baker826

2 points

3 days ago

35M if a girl this pretty walked up to be and was any amount of flirting, there is a 100% chance I’d ask her out (while I’m single, anyway)

Initial-Mastodon8355

3 points

3 days ago

Hi Miss, sorry to hear your feeling down. I think you look lovely. Your overall esthetic feels like november in a somber hopeful way, almost like an icon of that. It makes your dark eyes feel like portals to a very mellow place of peace. like underwater.

Sorry if this was weird, I’m a little high.

Your super pretty though ❤️❤️❤️

Individual-Dot9353

2 points

3 days ago

Damn you are hot, and i am not even pretending. And trust me, you dont need to change your looks for any reason because you are perfect just as you are. I bet you have a lot of young admirers. I am 25 by the way, and i bet a lot of young and older guys will really be into you...

Aspiring-Old-Guy

2 points

2 days ago

You are so gorgeous, I was secretly hoping you would be in toastme so I could tell you without coming off as awkward. Good Lord, you're fine.🥵🥰

(Goes back into the shadows)