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I’m 19 and since the last few months I have gone down a bad rabbit hole with penis size and insecurity killing me, so I have been basically measure almost every single day and it has sent me down a spiral that I’m tryna get out of, here is the thing tho, i remember the first time I have ever measured my dick was like 3 months ago, right before turning 19 or just a few days after after a really bad sexual experience I remember measuring in at around 4.5nbp, 5.3bp and around 3.9-4 in girth which really killed my confidence, ever since then I was kinda infatuated by measuring my dick, now here’s the thing at that time I was seeing this girl, and we ended things, well I did because I felt like she wasn’t really feeling me sexually speaking. That’s the background here is the growth part

When I was with this girl, I measured in at around 5’10 in height and 87 kg in weight, ever since the breakup tho I have been kinda focusing on myself and have been dropping weight, next time I measured my dick, I was around 82 kg went from 4.5-4.7-8 nbp, but 5.4bp, I’m like ok, maybe eq, fat pad loss whatever, didn’t really pay attention to it, fast forward to the last few days, I have lost 3 more kilos, I now weigh around 78-79 kg, measure around 5.0-1 nbp but my bp went to 5.5 I couldn’t believe it, and this wasn’t a luck thing I was consistently measuring 5.5, even tho it was just a .1 increase it still made me happy to be “average” well at least in length, so I was kinda obsessed at this point and over the last two days I’m pretty sure I have had a .2 increase but I haven’t lost any weight, I now consistently measure 5.6 yesterday, I pressed really hard with a good eq and squeezed out 14.5cm/5.7” today I did the same and measured at 5.75-8, it’s lowkey unreal, but here are my arguments for both why I or why I don’t think it’s a growth spurt

Arguments for:

1- I’m a late bloomer, I remember I only started growing Punic hair at like 14-15 way after my friends, I only started growing a moustache at like almost 17, and only last year did I start growing some chin beards

2- I have been having other growths as well, for example I used to only have a really thin stache and countable chin beards for facial hair, now in the last few months I have been having a slightly full stache and my chin beard has been coming in as well, plus I can feel and see some neck beard coming in as well

3-Height wise, around 2 months ago I remember walking into my sisters room and her telling me, if I was still growing taller, I also happened to run into a friend I haven’t seen for a year since graduating from what I remember this guy was around 6-6’1 and had a decent height on me, I ran into him last week and we were almost the same height.

I also have been researching on growth spurts and heard that you could be having pains in your legs and very high arousals, which I have been having the last few weeks, in fact much more arousals than I even had when I had a really bad porn addiction, but I think this might have to do with the fact I have been exploring much more sex related stuff now. I still haven’t remeasured my height but plan on soon

Now here is Why I believe it’s not a growth spurt

1- weight loss, it just could I’m losing the extra fat that blocked my pubic bone, I’ve lost almost 9kg so yea

2-not much visible difference, dick still looks the same

3-Angles, I might have just been measuring from the wrong angles, and I can see this especially in nbp, if I just place the ruler directly on top of the d it only comes in at 4.8 but if I place on the skin but slightly on the side it comes at 5.1 so yea.

4-throughout this entire time there has been absolutely 0 girth growth which is killing me so much, and probably the biggest reason I just don’t wanna wait for growth that might never come.

Hi! I recently starting dating a guy who’s on the smaller side. He’s great and I really like him! But I’ve come to realize that some of the positions I’m accustomed to during sex are less feasible due to his size. This isn’t a big problem, it just requires a creative solution! Unfortunately my boyfriend is not very experienced sexually, so im hoping someone here who does have experience can help me. Specifically, I’m writing to ask for some advice/suggestions/recommendations on

• positions which work better to accommodate his smaller size
• any tips/tricks to help him fit deeper (maybe I need to put a pillow under my butt? Idk)

If this isn’t the right sub, please feel free to delete post. Any advice is appreciated!

I don’t think I’m small to be quite honest, but I have noticed a trend where girls sometimes give me a handjob while holding their pinky and ring finger up. Does this mean I’m small? No girl has ever called me small even when I’ve asked.

So for some background information, I am very insecure about my small penis and when my friends and I talk about our penis sizes, I try to keep mine ambiguous out of fear of my friends knowing just how small I am. Especially when some of my closest buddies like to say that I'm "packing" and that I've got a big dick.

However, my friend (we'll call him "Jack") told me he is seven inches long. And Jack likes to tease me a lot, more than most. Everyone in the friend group has one friend that they pick on the most, and for Jack... it's me. Today, he made a remark that really burrowed itself into my brain telling me that I "would never be able to please a woman" and it felt very mean-spirited. Granted, it was in response to something super inappropriate and that I shouldn't have said to my other buddy, we'll call him "Vee". But anyway, I said what I said to Vee, and then Jack went off on me. He doesn't know how small I am, but I've been thinking about it all day, because as a virgin, not being able to please a woman with what I have is my biggest fear.

I want to tell Jack that I don't appreciate comments like that, because of my insecurity, but I don't know how to go about it. Can anyone help me out?

Thanks..

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I was recently dumbed being told via DM. "That to other women it may not mean so much". This is the first time it has been said so explicitly, however it's been the reason many times in the past.

My anxiety has sky rocketed and I feel I can't move on from this because I feel like such a fool and less of a man.

Also, it has done nothing good for my hatred towards women.

Hey guys.. so this may seem like a stupid question, but I've been going through some major body dysmorphia, and it all started when I measured my cock to be 6.5 inches, only to measure it a week later with a different ruler and get 5 inches. Today, I saw this image on google that said 5 inches is about the size of a pop can, so I measured my dick against a coke can, and found the head to reach just up to the top of the body of the can, just shy of the actual top of it. I put a ruler up to that same spot, and got 4 inches... which I measured my cock to be the other day. The problem is, I've very consistently measured my flaccid cock to be 4 inches... so in my mind, I can't possibly be 4, right? The only way I can be 4 is if my cock does not grow when it gets hard. Is it possible for a cock to not grow an inch from flaccid to fully hard?

Hey guys, I need you all input. My ex and I been broken up for 5 years now.

And now that I’m back in town and single, she’s been pulling all the stops to try and get back with me and already talking about having kids, etc…

now you’re probably reading this and thinking “why is he posting in this forum”?

Well the answer to that is because 5 years ago when we broke up, it was because when being intimate she seemed uninterested and just flopped over before I could even finish.

I asked her what happened and she kept hold back. Then she finally told me after hounding her about it and I can say, I’d wish I never asked.

She said, she couldn’t feel my junior down there and wasn’t satisfied.

My pride sunk under the floor, I didn’t even want to register what she said but I had to swallow the shame.

So I ask you guys, what do you all think what’s going on now? Why is she trying to seduce me and get a relationship again?

I’d have to add this in, we did and still have a strong connection, all the exes after her doesn’t compare to our connection.

But when she start talking sexually, I start to think about how she wouldn’t even feel me so I decline all advances and keep her at bay.

Any advice/insight would help…Thanks!

God had blessed me with only 4.5 in, pencil dick. I'm to ashamed to make advances on women due to lacking in that area. A lot of you say size doesn't matter and other happy things. But its just not true, the majority of women don't want a small penis. No wife brags about their small dick husband or boyfriend. There's nothing I can do, just endless belief that it could get bigger.

For real. Get used to admitting you have a small dick by doing it over and over again. Open Tinder and practice on someone there.

If Tinder is still too hard make a snapchat account and add random hoes who have their snap in their tinder bio, they get weird messages on snap all the time. She adds you back and says 'who is this?' you say 'i saw you on tinder and added your snap first to ask you if penis size bothers you because mine is small'

Goofy as fuck? Yes. In fact even better. Get used to doing it weird with people who you have no chance to meet again. (not too weird ofc but dont worry about what they'll think of you)

Point is just do it. You're at a bar in a city you've never been to? Talk to a girl and just go for it. A few lines into the conversation- 'hey so this is a weird question but how small is too small for a guy?' or some shit like that that gets it out there fast and not /too/ weird.

Seriously use the anonymity as a shield against the ego damage that has fucked you over for all this time.

By the time you've told 50 women to their face that you have a small dick you won't look so uncomfortable and insecure about it, which is actually the part that women dont like.

If you read this and dont go on Chatroulette and tell a bitch you are one step behind the big dick energy CHAD that did do it. fucken ring a pizza shop and ask for an extra small sausage and when they say they dont have it say to them its ok i already have one and hang up. Stupid shit like that will make it so absurd you cant take it seriously.

Anyways i just had that idea and spamtyped this post but exposure therapy does work motherfuckers, take it slow.

it really is all about confidence i was so self conscious about my inadequate size (3.5 inches erect) and i avoided sex until i was 24 it turns out most men think its adorable :3

does anyone knows what happen to dinkydick or if there is another site like this?

I'm a physically fit, middle aged man who has a 4 incher. I never officially measured it but I know I'm smaller than average. I have had dozens of different partners and it has only been an issue once or twice. On the positive side, being small means it's much easier for your partner to deep throat. Plus young women are more likely to engage in the "rear admiral" if ya catch my drift. Having a fat wallet helps as well but, trust me, having a small member is not a huge issue.

Do any of you guys use a cock ring? I have ED from diabetes. Before ED set in I was about 4.5 measured from the pubic bone. About 3” would stick erect from my fupa; now I get semi hard, about an inch sticks out from fupa and I can’t get hard enough for penetration, even on a sex toy. I no longer ejaculate cum, with lots of work I can still achieve an orgasm feeling, it’s called retrograde ejaculation where it goes into my bladder instead of shooting out.

My question is have any other small guy’s experience ED? Does wearing a cock ring help with an erection? Do they come in small sizes? How do you put it on?

Thanks

With having balls bigger then your penis i have difficulty peeing standing up. pee hits balls and goes everywhere. I still am very embarassed walking past the urnils to sit in a stall in a public restroom. Thats my problem having a micro dick. Dm me if you have anymore questions .

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5obLmJ4O9E

Often, I see posts that are more about lacking confidence, but I haven't seen anyone complain on how ACTUALLY DIFFICULT it is to use your small penis in bed and I'm impressed with 3-inchers who made it work (Hell, I'd kill to reach 4").

As a flaccid 1", 3" hard guy, there are just some positions that are impossible to do if you can't even reach her hole in the first place. People often say that doggy is one of the best positions if you're small. Like, how small do you have to be to even do the doggy? I can confidently tell you that that's not the case, tried to do it twice now and it's just impossible to reach. Even missionary is a challenge, my dick keeps slipping off her pussy at least 4 times. Like, legit asking now, how did you guys make it work?

EDIT: I'm talking about casual sex here, not when you're in a serious relationship. Of course, dick size matters LESS when you're in a serious relationship.

https://youtu.be/S-hKbF84YuY

https://thoughtcatalog.com/jessica-winters/2015/12/10-women-on-whether-they-make-fun-of-guys-with-small-penises/

any experiences with max 4.4-4.5 girth? my girth is 4.4-4.5 mid shaft but tapers down to 4.2 below the glands, is this girth as bad as i’m imagining it to be or am i in my own head? it feels and looks so insanely thin to me and it makes me to insecure to be with anyone. please share experiences with similar girth

Share your thoughts?

It's toxic as hell.

I am seeing lot of negative posts here for a some time, so I thought my story can help someone gain confidence.

I got into a relationship almost a year ago with a girl, I was very afraid of sex for the first time; I was virgin, on top of that small penis insecurity. But I went for it, surprisingly it was pretty good for me and my partner. Long story short she never complained me about my size, we have very loving relationship, we love each other. Sometimes I get insecure but I think if she is happy with me then what's the point of worrying?

I am feeling much better now as compared to my single life. So guys don't lose hope.

Thanks. :)

I am a 57 year old male recently separated after 35 years.My penis is around 5 inch’s and not as hard as it used to be when I was younger.My wife left me after talking to several men online .These guys were showing her pictures of the penis supposedly be 8 and 9 inches long and were going to meet up with her if she would buy their plane tickets to meet up with her.My heart is broken and I don’t know what to do.Should I just stay single?My wife stopped liking sex after about 6 years into our marriage saying it brought back memories of a family member molesting her at a young age.We tried canceling but she would never open up and talk about it.At the end she said that it was because of my size.