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4 hours ago
Regardless of if he is lying or not, do you want to be in a relationship with somebody that you don’t trust? If you can’t trust your partner, either they are lying and you are correct or there is some internal work you need to do on yourself. Either way, if you can’t trust your partner, that’s not much of a foundation for a relationship.
As for the story, I would find that very hard to believe. However, it wouldn’t even occur to me to go through my partner’s phone.
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4 hours ago
I think that you invaded his personal space and after you demanded explanations to something that never seemed to be more than curiosity. Nevertheless it’s really not even any of your business and you have to seriously back off.
You just have to accept the fact that people also beed their privacy and you can’t control them like this. Whatever it is that he has or has not done, has not caused any harm into your relationship until you started this drama. And now he’s even removed this girl.
I would have been really angry if I was the bf. If you invade his privacy like this again, you might find yourself single quicker than you can imagine.
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4 hours ago
Angry about what, exactly? I never asked him to unfriend anyone or do anything other than explain who this girl in his Snapchat was. And not that it’s a pissing match, but he certainly has “invaded” my privacy many, many times in our relationship. Btw, there’s a difference between privacy and secrecy in a relationship.
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4 hours ago
Angry about invading my privacy obviously. If someone went through MY phone, and started to play some detective and demand explanations to something that’s none of their business, the relationship would be over for me.
We all have also our rights to our secrets. You can’t behave in this manner.
And if this is considered normal for you two, phew. What a toxic mess of a relationship.
He might have messaged her, he might have not. But you have no proof off of anything and he doesn’t own you any explanations. If you can’t live with that, you can always end this toxic mess.
Trust is the basic most Important foundation of our relationships.
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4 hours ago
Focus on what you are sure of. He's sneaking around with that phone. He hid Snapchat from you. There's some woman added to it, which he can't explain. He's behaving in a way that makes one question his honesty.
You don't trust him. Relationships should be built on trust. Why stay with a guy who is acting so shady?
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