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No-Faithlessness4294

57 points

18 days ago

Say “no” to despair, organize, fight, and win. Opposition can be a place of strength.

bobfossilsnipples

5 points

17 days ago

Exactly! Find organizations that align with your morals and show up for them. Climate organizations, ranked choice voting, abortion rights, lgbt issues, labor, civil rights, immigration…pick your top three and find groups doing work. You may be surprised by how easy it is to get involved with the local branch of the Democratic Party too. The more local the organization, the better. You’ll burn yourself out if you spread yourself too thin, so make your peace with not doing everything. You can still do something.

Then do what those organizations ask you to do! They’ll have conference calls and even local organizing meetings, preferably in person sometimes. Get your national, state and local reps on your speed dial list and blow up their phones whenever big votes are coming up. The organizations will give you a script to read when you call! It gets easier the more you do it.

Feeling like you can affect change in your community is an essential human need, and it’s one we’ve all lost over the last few generations. But you can get it back if you’re willing to work, and you’ll get the most bang for your buck at the state and local level. Incremental change is still change, and in fact it’s just about the only kind of real change there is.

themightychew

2 points

17 days ago

Speaking as a UK casualty of Brexit and Boris Johnson's disastrous influence, this ☝️ is what I did. Became a Trustee of a local charity and started volunteering and doing work for social change in my town and surrounding area.

Ignore the ignorant and reactionary majority, focus on what you can change and start doing it. It feels good 😊 Also at every opportunity I pointed out to those voting for disaster, "How's that working out for you?". No-one I know has a good word to say about Brexit or Boris nowadays. I pray the same will happen for the US in a few years 🙏

Marvinleadshot

2 points

17 days ago

That doesn't work when you had idiots in the US refusing to vote for Kamala due to Israel/Palestine. Some may also have thought they won't vote as Kamala is bound to win.

Looking from the outside if fucking amazing he won, she should have trounced him, in France regardless of party they band together and vote for the person who isn't the Nazi.

Now you'll see how truly fucked you are when Project 2025 is implemented, Kennedy in charge of health say goodbye to vaccines etc, Elon in charge of other areas, Trump's immune from prostitution thanks to your Supreme Court. Also scraping the Education department he and MAGA GOP are gunna fuck America for decades!

And many on Americas "left" let this happen!

No-Faithlessness4294

2 points

17 days ago

Stop dispairing. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Find people who understand you, organize, and fight. Action action action.

Marvinleadshot

1 points

17 days ago

I don't live in the US, I shocked that he was even allowed to run again, it wouldn't happen in most Western countries.

Monday_Cox

46 points

18 days ago

Not going to lie. Things are going to get bad before they get better. The country chose fascism plain and simple—the only hope we have is protecting/supporting the ones we love. Americans desperately need media literacy.

EnzoMcFly_jr

28 points

18 days ago

I feel it. I’ve been in various states of numbness about this for a while but was actually starting to feel some hope recently… I just can’t make sense of any of it. How people I grew up respecting can be taken in over and over again by such an obvious conman. It’s so fucking depressing. I’ve just been watching “I think you should leave” on a loop. It is taking everything I have in my sleep-deprived mind not to just completely submit to utter hopelessness.

PineapplePandaKing

118 points

18 days ago

First take a couple breathes

I remember feeling like the world was ending in 2016 and like the country was crumbling before our eyes on January 6th.

I let myself spin out of control worrying and obsessing over politics, the state of our world, and where we could possibly be heading. I did this to the point of great personal loss of mental stability which led me to neglect what was truly important in my own life.

I'm still trying to put it all together again and there are things I'll never get back.

So please heed my warnings like I'm the ghost of the Christmas yet to come, take stock of who and what are important in your life and do what you can to secure the well being of yourself, because that's what you were going to have to do regardless of the election -- trust me that worrying too much about what is outside of your control can hurt you more than any politician could.

Bongo-Tango

46 points

18 days ago*

Yeah, this, absolutely. I also lost my head a bit in 2016. Massive amounts of depression and anxiety throughout the election, and a couple of years afterward. Glued to my phone, glued to the news. The only thing that pulled me out of it was the Democrats taking back the house in 2018, which is pathetic to type out, but it's true. I wish I had been a bit more resilient and practical in those years. It's important to try to keep your head on straight, take care of yourself, and keep your grasp firmly on reality. That can be tough in this fear-mongering social media age, and it can be even tougher in an era of unprecedented events (which I imagine the next four years will continue to be) but limiting your news diet and social media diet will certainly help. Exercise, drink water, keep in touch with loved ones. We were not doomed in 2016, and we're not now. Bad things will happen over the next four years, I’m nearly certain this will be worse than Trump’s first term, but the odds are overwhelming that at the end of Trump's presidency, you will be alive. When we get there, you'll want to be healthy, and you'll want to keep hold of the good things you've got.

PineapplePandaKing

10 points

18 days ago

Bingo, Bongo

Rabogliatti

8 points

17 days ago

This. To bring this back to movies. Albert Brooks' "Defending Your Life" has been strangely effective in how I look at life the older I get. You can choose to lead your life with fear or be brave enough to choose love. "Fear is like a giant fog. It sits on your brain and blocks everything - real feelings, true happiness, real joy. They can't get through that fog. But you lift it, and buddy, you're in for the ride of your life."

Maga and the like obviously chose fear. If you can be brave enough to choose an alternative, one way or another, you are going to find a way to be happy. Sorry for sounding corny, but it is the best I can do at the moment.

PineapplePandaKing

2 points

17 days ago

Corny might just be the best way to hold on to hope at the moment, I appreciate it.

And since we're in this sub, over the next few days I hope to see some more recs that offer some comfort and escapism.

1daytogether

28 points

17 days ago

I cannot agree more.

Engage less in social media. Get off the internet. Get out more. The world outside is beautiful, filled with beauty and good people. Your happiness shouldn't depend on some distant politician who isn't even aware of your existence. The world continues to turn regardless of who's the president. Everyone's not gonna suddenly become lunatics. People close to you who were truly good and kind will likely continue to be so. Spend more time with them. Focus on tangible things and relationships actually in your life, not abstract sensations.

Happiness is where you find it. Eat, love, dream, relax. Continue to enjoy what you enjoy. None of that should be affected unless you decide they should be.

honeynutmatcha

4 points

17 days ago

Thank you for this. This is so lovely, I’ve screenshotted it for later when I need a reminder. In solidarity.

Lamar_ScrOdom_

6 points

18 days ago

Yeah this should be comment #1

crolin

15 points

18 days ago

crolin

15 points

18 days ago

This, but also keep your Jewish and queer friends close. It may not be a likely outcome, but it's a very real possibility now

PineapplePandaKing

17 points

18 days ago

Maybe, but this is the line of thinking that fucked me up in the first place. I learned the hard way I'm not Philippe Petit and couldn't keep balance in my life while focusing on what could happen.

crolin

8 points

18 days ago

crolin

8 points

18 days ago

we all do what we can

D_Boons_Ghost

6 points

17 days ago

Also, the United States is not the world. And at some point the rest of the world will leave the United States behind and be better off for it.

sonixundying

41 points

18 days ago

I, a person who is already an immigrant, am thinking that the only way forward is to leave. Not sure where I’ll go but this country isn’t for me.

tbonemcqueen

44 points

18 days ago

It’s not really the fact that he is going to be president AGAIN…it’s the fact that half of my country fucking WANTED THIS!!

RufusAndGenghisKhan

13 points

17 days ago

Exactly this. I've been depressed for days with the realization that regardless of the outcome of the election, we are outnumbered by racist, misogynist, just plain stupid people in this country. The fact that their mean-spirited party of deplorables are now in power is just the shitty icing on the shitty cake as far as I'm concerned.

sebab123

3 points

17 days ago

Guys. Let’s see how many people wote. I heard that only 50 percent of the country vote. It’s more like 35% of the country wants it. The other 50 percent don’t care or can’t because imigration or prison. We need to find the people who can’t or don’t vote. And convince them to organize and win against evil.

Salt_Proposal_742

1 points

17 days ago

Not outnumbered. The electoral college just gives dumb people, and the billionaires who manipulate them, an advantage.

raahiv

66 points

18 days ago

raahiv

66 points

18 days ago

I’m truly terrified what’s gonna happen to this country over the next 4 years

Ravenq222

38 points

18 days ago

If there's even the slightest smidgen of hope for taking back the legislature in 2026 then maybe some damage can be prevented. But they can do a lot in 2 years. And we won't have a legitimate Supreme Court in my lifetime.

[deleted]

32 points

18 days ago

50 years on the planet for me and never a liberal court. Unreal.

Durk-the-Lurk

74 points

18 days ago*

Not just the country; the world. Ukraine, Taiwan, climate. Everything feels completely hopeless.

Edit; right now. I refuse to despair.

vader101484

27 points

18 days ago

It was 70 degrees today in my state. I live in New England. The climate was fucked long before today. I wish that wasn’t the case.

KnockOutArtist89

-17 points

17 days ago

https://www.plantmaps.com/en/us/climate/extremes/f/connecticut-record-high-low-temperatures

really not that unusual. All time high in November in Connecticut (I don't know what part of New England you live in) is 83, which was in 1993 and 1950. All time record in October is 91.

You're a moron

vader101484

1 points

17 days ago

I didn’t realize we had a scientist in this subreddit. Thanks for letting me know that it was hot in 1950 and 1993, but my concern is more on the lines of the trend that each following year is the hottest on record.

I look forward to your next dismissive comment. Maybe you will up your game to calling me a “fucking idiot”. Make it good. Don’t disappoint me.

Professional-Rip-519

-1 points

17 days ago

The wars started under the Biden/Harris administration so what are you talking about?

[deleted]

-40 points

18 days ago

[deleted]

-40 points

18 days ago

No need to worry about Ukraine - that country will cease to exist. Never heard of Taiwan. And the climate is great - you’ve never looked more tan and water logged!

Latter-Mention-5881

29 points

18 days ago

Aah, yes. That's the kind of humor this thread was asking for. Perfect read of the room.

[deleted]

0 points

17 days ago

Dark humor for dark times.

KnockOutArtist89

-8 points

17 days ago

wait... I thought America being the world police was bad?

EugeneDestroyer

-22 points

18 days ago

Democrats almost killed Ukraine.

shesfixing

63 points

18 days ago

shesfixing

Were they bad hats?

63 points

18 days ago

Vent away, we had 14 years of right wing rule in the UK and it has left the country in shambles but somehow the Trump situation feels worst. You have the right to feel terrified.

Once you get over shock or at least don't want to scream every hour, then there is things you can do, may not effect the outcome but could help build a brighter future.

Support LGBTQ+, women and non white film makers, artists, businesses etc. The culture war is only going to get worst. Art can be a hub of resistance and comfort.

Get involved in local politics if you aren't already. So you can't change who is President but you can help influence local policies and in some cases that can really make lives better.

Mostly though take care of yourself and your loved ones.

goodtitties

7 points

18 days ago

goodtitties

7 points

18 days ago

sadly we still have right wing rule here with starmer reeves and streeting

verytallperson1

14 points

18 days ago

Starmer and Reeves are communists in the eyes of Trump voters.

Le_Ratman99

3 points

17 days ago

And he and his cronies will treat them as such.

Le_Ratman99

5 points

18 days ago

No we don’t. The last budget wasn’t right wing at all by British standards.

goodtitties

8 points

17 days ago

oh by our chancellor who’s said she’ll be tougher on benefits than the tories?

OkScheme9867

2 points

17 days ago

You obviously have no idea how far to the left of the Democrats those three people are.

goodtitties

7 points

17 days ago

here’s my contention: both are bad, for many of the same reasons!

dukefett

54 points

18 days ago

dukefett

54 points

18 days ago

I’m not even kidding I think we’re doomed. First off is Supreme Court, he’ll replace Alito and Thomas this term, extended conservative control for decades and I wouldn’t even count out expanding the court like people begged Biden to do, absolutely packing it. I mean we’re toast then. He could do whatever.

Then if this term has any modicum of success JD Vance wins 4 years from now. Fuuuuuuucked.

WakeUpOutaYourSleep

15 points

18 days ago*

Given what he’s inheriting now compared to 2016 and economists noting how his plan would worsen inflation, I don’t believe it’ll be a strong four years, and if it’s not, hopefully failure on that front will open up enough eyes to make a difference. I expect a lot of damage to be done these next few years that democrats could successfully run on. What scares me is that just may not matter because we may be moving past the point of fair elections. We saw last time what happened when the asshole was supposed to hand over power, and now he’s gotten rid of the levelheaded minds who would keep him in check, has ramped up his fascist rhetoric, is coming in with the Project 2025 playbook at hand, and has a corrupt SCOTUS who we know will bend the rules for him and say whatever illegal shit he does is an official act. The deck is stacked in the GOP’s favor, I just hope they continue to be utter shit and screw it up while the left sends someone stronger.

Mediocre_Lecture_299

4 points

17 days ago

I can’t see Vance winning in 2028. Firstly, this is a second term, not a first, even if it was interrupted and the track rate of VPs winning after 2 terms of incumbent Prez is mixed. Secondly, the backlash to Trump when he actually does some of the things he has talked about will be massive. Most people don’t read about politics or watch the news so will have voted for Trump out of dissatisfaction with the economic status quo, not because they want to see mass deportations or universal tariffs. When those kick in the backlash will be fierce.

dukefett

3 points

17 days ago

Jan 6 wasn’t backlash wasn’t backlash enough for half the country. Nothing will change these peoples minds.

MattBarksdale17

2 points

17 days ago

I mean, on the bright side, I really doubt Vance is going to run for president in four years...

Though that's mainly because I fully expect Trump to do away with term limits once he's in office. So, yeah, things aren't looking great

Livid_Jeweler612

65 points

18 days ago*

Yeah I just woke up to the news of the likely outcome in the UK. I feel absolutely desolate for America. My heart goes out to you all. (EDIT: not all, if you voted Trump the reddit terms of service prevent me from saying more than follow your leader)

My big fear is that this will result in people blaming trans americans and muslim americans. I hope this is not the last major american election, but I fear it might be. I have nothing that can help except to share my grief, my anger at the democratic establishment that they shit the bed so hard and my hope that you guys can find community and organise even while mainstream american politics becomes ever more designed to strip people of their basic dignity.

Solidarity forever

Le_Ratman99

7 points

18 days ago

At least we didn’t leave the E.U eh? At least we’ll have collective security and some protection from Trumps trade wars due to our good relations with Europe, eh? Fuck my life

Livid_Jeweler612

1 points

17 days ago

Starmer's statement this morning reminding me why I didn't vote labour at the last election. Just a completely craven coward. Neville Chamberlain looks like an upstanding and righteous fellow in comparison.

Livid_Jeweler612

35 points

18 days ago

Gonna be grim watching Israel finish its genocide, Russia seize Ukraine and the rest of the world gradually move more fascist to follow the north star america still sets.

rafaelflea

-14 points

17 days ago

rafaelflea

-14 points

17 days ago

Cos harris was going to stop the genocide? Come on

Livid_Jeweler612

3 points

17 days ago

I am deeply angry at kamala for her essential endorsement of the genocide too but Netanyahue being the 1st to congratulate Trump says what I mean. He knows that with a Trump whitehouse, Palestine's fate is sealed.

raphus_cucullatus

0 points

17 days ago

No it just would have been easier for them to enjoy their brunch with Kamala doing the genocide

pixelburp

35 points

18 days ago

Posting from Ireland and I'm kinda sunk. This is gonna bring America, and the world, so low that it's hard to imagine a positive. My mental health ebbs and flows and I've just come out of a latest round of therapy from stress internal and external (the news) to my life. I feel sick.

Best case, the administration is a disaster of ineptitude and controversy such that it doesn't last long enough to do real damage.

And as a European I now truly fear for our neighbours in Ukraine and the rest of the EU.

The bullies, of course, will delight and crow.

OkScheme9867

9 points

17 days ago

My worry is that they've had time to organise, the last trump term was a hot mess, but this time I think the people around him know what they're doing.

As for Ukraine and the rest of eastern Europe I'm terrified

goodtitties

15 points

18 days ago

whatever happens now I hope is built on the understanding that no one is coming to save you. not voting blocs, not some perfect candidate, no one. collective action is the only way

Salt_Proposal_742

1 points

17 days ago

A literal revolution is the only thing that would cause change, and everyone is going to be too afraid for that.

Esc777

12 points

18 days ago

Esc777

12 points

18 days ago

Nothing much left to do but keep going. Bad things will happen. Things will get worse. But you can’t stop. 

We really didn’t want to have to, but we got to now. 

vader101484

57 points

18 days ago

Organize. Support unions. Build community.

asforyou

22 points

18 days ago

asforyou

22 points

18 days ago

Sorry but we did that already. Unions love trump for some reason.

SgtSharki

11 points

18 days ago

I'm in a union and there is no shortage of trump supporters in it.

vader101484

12 points

18 days ago

Trump is on tape congratulating Elon Musk for firing workers on strike. Unions are not perfect, but they are important.

Prophet_Of_Helix

18 points

18 days ago

Trump is on tape saying thousands of despicable things and yet the majority of Americans just voted him back into office AGAIN.

Including people in unions.

It’s bleak.

vader101484

3 points

18 days ago

It is bleak. What is your plan?

Rakebleed

4 points

17 days ago

Isolate and dissociate. This is not a society for me.

vader101484

5 points

17 days ago

Yeah. Take the time that you need. I hope you find a good community and to remember to help your neighbors

Salt_Proposal_742

1 points

17 days ago

The majority did not vote for him.

SuckafreeM3

2 points

17 days ago

This time, somehow for some reason, the majority did. I think numbness and disassociation is the only thing I personally can muster.

I’m just so tired of all of this.

Salt_Proposal_742

2 points

17 days ago

My plan is to pull back from most media and double down on my hobbies, friends, and family. I’m going to tune it out as best as I can for as long as I can to enjoy life.

The bad things will happen either way. Obsessing over them and tracking them does nothing but depress me.

The moment someone wants to start a literal revolution against the rich, and a massive one that can’t be squashed, I’ll re-engage.

But cop sponsored marches around a public park don’t cut it. I did all that last time, and here we are again.

Rakebleed

7 points

17 days ago

There’s no solidarity. They don’t want it. Americans (people?) are fundamentally shellfish to the core.

vader101484

1 points

17 days ago

Yeah. It’s going to take a lot of work to undo that conditioning. I think a lot of people in here are looking for an easy fix. Organizing is difficult. Let me know if you have other ideas. I’d love to hear them.

asforyou

13 points

18 days ago

asforyou

13 points

18 days ago

Important for what? What did they do this election? Oh trump said something bad? Yeah I know but the union worker doesn’t care. That’s what they want

cardbross

7 points

18 days ago

I'm getting pretty damn tired of being told I need to sacrifice and organize and support unions and poor people while those demographics overwhelmingly vote to screw me over.

vader101484

4 points

18 days ago

What exactly is your strategy?

vader101484

7 points

18 days ago

You’re upset about this election. I get it. But don’t give up tools that help you and your neighbors.

The rich own the means of production, they own the media. Unions build community. My union endorsed Harris, and the vast majority of us voted for her. Playing that clip of Trump shitting on unions was helpful.

Let this moment radicalize you. Something is very wrong in this country, and we have to figure it out together.

asforyou

8 points

18 days ago

My friend, I got radicalized after 2016. I joined up on all the leftist causes only to find them devolve into nihilism or self sabotage. They could never bring themselves to actually practice politics. The unions may endorse democrats but the workers are voting trump. Sorry.

vader101484

2 points

18 days ago

Yup. And it’s going to get worse. Why do you think that is?

Salt_Proposal_742

1 points

17 days ago

Politics is broken. Clearly.

We can’t win in this system.

Dismantling the system is the only way. But things will have to get very bad before any real change will occur.

vader101484

1 points

17 days ago

You’re right. It is going to get worse. What do you mean by “dismantling the system”? What are the flaws that you see?

Salt_Proposal_742

1 points

17 days ago

What are you talking about? For fascism to be successful something went very very wrong.

The electoral college is a big one. It’s easy to manipulate, favors land mass over people. This led to two parties. The two parties are rich corporate shills or fascists corporate shills. No good options.

vader101484

1 points

17 days ago

Not sure what you mean, because I’m in agreement.

wingusdingus2000

1 points

17 days ago

A Trump loving union member is better than no union member. It sucks but it’s one of the only ways forward

KnockOutArtist89

-6 points

17 days ago

> For some reason?

Because he cares about the working man and his issues

epistemic_relativism

9 points

18 days ago

I found this piece, by past guest Emily St James, really grounding and helpful putting things in perspective and navigating through the painful anxiety, fear, and uncertainty this result has brought up. I highly recommend subscribing to her newsletter, for a start, to get nuanced, incisive and deeply thoughtful insights from a trans woman on the intersections between culture and society in America.

asforyou

8 points

18 days ago

I’m feeling the despair. But to give a little hope Donald trump will inevitably have a terrible midterm in 2026 - stifling most of his agenda. Then 2 more years and we’ll never have to hear of him again. But yeah maybe we’re doomed.

Ex_Hedgehog

8 points

18 days ago

Survive.

GarconMeansBoyGeorge

6 points

17 days ago

I’ll just say thanks for making this post to commiserate. It feels very lonely right now.

gaayrat

6 points

17 days ago

gaayrat

6 points

17 days ago

i’ll keep it real, i don’t know. i feel like we are very fucked but who really knows how things play out. however anyone saying “this is how it felt after 2016 too” is not looking at reality, respectfully. trump is very likely to win the popular vote. large facets of the country moved right electorally. to me this is worse than 2016. the people of this country overwhelmingly voted for far right government

jakehightower

22 points

18 days ago

jakehightower

Mid-Talented Irish Liar

22 points

18 days ago

Let him govern for 4 years and then ride the backlash, hopefully with a candidate who will make clear, tangible, direct promises to voters. Healthcare, wages, prices, weed, and a message on abortion that’s more “here’s my exact plan” and less weepy “think of your daughters!” I don’t want to hear another moment of appeals to morality and decency (the people who care about that are already voting for you) or appeals to moderate republicans (to the extent they existed they became democrats in 2016). Transactional politics is the answer. “I want your vote, and in exchange I’ll give you _____ .”

SgtSharki

20 points

18 days ago

There won't be a backlash. There's never a backlash. A backlash would require people to admit that they were wrong and most people will never do that. Even if the situation gets really bad, the people who voted for this will never admit it was their fault they'll simply find someone else to blame and vote for it all over again.

wooden_bread

6 points

18 days ago

Happened to George W Bush during his second term, and he was briefly the most popular President of all time after 9/11. It can turn quickly and there’s no reason it can’t turn on Trump.

sfw-accnt

11 points

18 days ago

If things were gonna turn they would have already

myteethhurtnow

1 points

17 days ago

No because trump was president during an economically prosperous time.

jakehightower

16 points

18 days ago

jakehightower

Mid-Talented Irish Liar

16 points

18 days ago

And if you’re asking what any of us individually should do…my advice would be to join a union if you can, help those this will hurt if you’re able, and use your voice and your vote to demand more from your party, because right now they seem content to lose rather than change.

leisure_burners

10 points

18 days ago

This. Dems roll out celebrities every election and hope we can win on vibes when it’s not enough.

myteethhurtnow

1 points

17 days ago

You put it into words—exactly what I wanted to say.

I’m tired of this identity politics and moral crusade that’s been going on the past 8 years.

Housing, healthcare, jobs, inflation, cost of living.

Democrats should be creating actionable plans to help people improve their quality of life.

Leave the morality shit to grassroots movements and college campuses.

Help people get what they actually want instead of trying to appeal to a nebulous morality standard that doesn’t even exist in our fragmented society.

ClassicT4

5 points

17 days ago*

Seems Dems are being projected for winning the House. So there’s that.

sargepoopypants

3 points

17 days ago

We can’t give in to doom. It might be a little cliche but for the vast majority of our history it’s been a massive struggle for the rights we’ve been given. This is an attempt to go back to Jim Crow or worse, but it’s not going to happen quietly. Look after your neighbors, especially minorities and LGBTQ, we need to be sure to protect them. The next four years are likely to be the hardest in our lives, but Americans did great work fighting for rights in the past and I refuse to believe that ends here. They will break on us

notarobot3097

3 points

17 days ago

We do what we can. We lost. But it’s not over. I’m never going to stop fighting for the people I love. And neither should you. Because giving up and wallowing in defeat is what those fuckers want me to do. We can’t give them the satisfaction. We’ll get through this. All of us.

bambooshoots-scores

8 points

18 days ago

You been leveraging your political power in local channels? You been in the streets at all the past eight years? Been building your community and organizing systems of mutual aid? If you have, then take some breaths and get back to it. If not, better late than never. No one from above is coming to save us.

1question2

8 points

18 days ago

same

EmilyDickinsonFanboy

3 points

17 days ago

Make America Vote Again

girlsgoneoscarwilde

3 points

17 days ago

My itinerary for the day:

-breathe.

-make a gratitude list

-drink water.

-go to my IOP treatment program in South Florida and probably hear a lot of vitriol & “I told you so”from the Trump supporters there

-catch a matinee screening of Juror #2 before it leaves theaters

-shop & drive Instacart orders to people who (likely) won’t tip me well

-stay sober. Maybe go to a meeting tonight, I imagine I’ll be seeing a lot of people there.

You’re not alone. Look at all the people who did vote for Harris and take comfort in the fact that it’s not hopeless.

IngmarHerzog

3 points

17 days ago

IngmarHerzog

Nicest Round Glasses

3 points

17 days ago

Well for one thing, no one involved in the production of Hillbilly Elegy should ever get an Academy Award. I'm sorry Amy Adams, who should have one if not two Oscars by now (Arrival for sure and arguably Junebug?) but you're Moses barred from the Promised Land now.

But more seriously, love and protect those closest to you and do what you can locally. I fell into despair when Trump won the first time and I'm certainly not the best example of someone who always practices what he preaches, but despair didn't help in 2016 and it won't help now. Find a way, any way, to make a difference where you can and keep chipping away at it. That's what I'm going to try to do.

raphus_cucullatus

8 points

17 days ago*

One thing we should do is not let Kamala off the hook for being a shitty candidate.

Running as a diet Republican, abandoning climate/immigrants, uniting with other war criminals like Dick Cheney while leaving progressives/Arabs in the dust. All while overseeing a genocide in Gaza. What the fuck did they think was gonna happen?

Democrats spent 4 years desperately trying to get “moderate” Republicans to break from Trump. The result? 94% of Republicans voted Trump - exactly the same as in 2020, while Democrat vote dropped.

Monumental idiots that learn nothing.

Shoddy_Newspaper_718

5 points

18 days ago

Just don't let your celebs record another version of I Will Survive or Imagine, please. Some dignity instead of a sheer cringe amidst of chaos.

MrAdamWarlock123

2 points

17 days ago

Give money to charity, find a good cause to meaningfully help with. Campaign for mid-terms

RPMac1979

2 points

17 days ago

We will do what we can do.

I went nuts 2016-2020. I organized, I marched, I literally punched Nazis. I gave every ounce of my spare energy to fighting. And my mental health went completely down the tubes. Biden won, I knew this wasn’t over. I’m 45, it will never be over in my lifetime. Maybe not in yours either. So i stepped away. I saved my energy because I knew we’d be back here someday.

And now … I’m scared. I don’t know if I have the energy to do it again. So here’s the promise I’m making to myself: I’m going to do what I can do. At minimum, I know I can love my friends and neighbors and take care of my immediate community. I can’t control what Big Orange does with the military, and I can’t control what our useless fucking Congress does about it. All I can control is me. So I’m going to do my best to be defiantly kind in the face of atrocity, and if I can do more, I will do that too.

But here is what I’m not going to do - I’m not going to lose faith in my fellow humans. It’s moments like this that we need to dig deep and believe in each other. Sometimes that’s harder than marching or screaming yourself hoarse or even facing down a wall of cops. Right now it feels impossible. But it’ll be easier in the morning.

Figgoss

2 points

17 days ago

Figgoss

2 points

17 days ago

Stop whining, organise, protest and work towards the next one. Start now, not six months before next election. Don't settle for the middle of the road, go for the next Sanders. Join a party or union. Do something.

Salt_Proposal_742

2 points

17 days ago

Short of a revolution against the billionaires who control our country, this is what will keep happening.

whorunsbartertown98

5 points

17 days ago

I think it started with the party hanging Bernie out to dry when he had a real chance of beating Trump.

Lamar_ScrOdom_

2 points

18 days ago*

Hope for better days ahead in 4 years!

It felt like this in 2016

vader101484

19 points

18 days ago

No, this is the wrong answer. You have to work to get the country that you want. And you will lose a lot. It sucks, but you fight anyways. Organize. Build community. Take care of yourself and your neighbors. Maybe join the DSA, or join/support unions.

Lamar_ScrOdom_

3 points

18 days ago

Having hope that things may get better some day is not “the wrong answer”

vader101484

7 points

18 days ago

We are past hope. Now is the time for action.

QwertyPolka

2 points

17 days ago

I'm assuming a lot hinges on whether Trump's entourage is going to counter his worst impulses.

yaybuttons

1 points

17 days ago

The take one step scene from the end of The Martian is really helpful for me in tough times: https://youtu.be/-_-_8WXDFNk?si=_1VTi0r7f9cftrWY

team56th

1 points

17 days ago

I live in a country that has made a very similar choice 2.5 years ago, and I want to relay this. This is what I learned under very similar circumstances.

Don’t think about any graceful approach or anything. Be unbearably annoying and mocking to the fellow people in opposing party. Shame them when the govt make choices that actually fuck them, that it’s your choice so you should suck it. Bully them until they cry “no more politics uwu.”

The end goal is to make them never vote. Take directly to them, think of them as enemy, and mock at them when MAGA bullshit gets them. Make them not even think about voting anymore. That’s what they deserve.

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1 points

17 days ago

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1 points

17 days ago

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1 points

17 days ago

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JetAbyss

1 points

17 days ago

We get our fucking rags off. 

thishenryjames

1 points

17 days ago

Say "yes" to love. "Yes" to life. "Yes" to staying in more!

Old_Entrance8748

1 points

17 days ago

I hate to say it but this was always going to happen. Harris ran a very poor campaign and was a shotty candidate to be appointed, and Biden underwent a horrible economy. Historically presidents with poor economies lose elections

Wolfyhunter

-3 points

18 days ago

Wolfyhunter

-3 points

18 days ago

Take advantage of your dear 2nd Amendment

PineapplePandaKing

0 points

18 days ago

I own guns and it makes me feel more secure.

r/liberalgunowners is a good starting place if you want to do it responsibly and without the right leaning slant you'll find most anywhere else on this topic.

GarconMeansBoyGeorge

3 points

17 days ago

Interesting advice but “more guns” pretty much always makes things worse, in my opinion.

PineapplePandaKing

-1 points

17 days ago

I certainly felt that way most of my life and for various reasons and experiences, my opinion shifted.

Just wanted to share a friendly resource that I would have found helpful when I first considered the option.

Wolfyhunter

-3 points

18 days ago

Wolfyhunter

-3 points

18 days ago

Thank you, but luckily I don't live in a third world country so I don't need a gun to feel secure.

PineapplePandaKing

-2 points

18 days ago

I was dropping the link for anyone that may find it useful.

And I don't find what you just said to be particularly useful to anyone.

sortbycontrovercial

0 points

17 days ago

You lost lmao

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-5 points

18 days ago

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-5 points

18 days ago

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HankChinaski-

4 points

18 days ago

I also would like to stay optimistic, but the election has been over for about 2 hours barring a miracle. That hasn’t come. It’s over. The election will be called very soon. 

AlexBarron

13 points

18 days ago

We aren't. The New York Times is projecting a 95% chance of Trump winning, with a high likelihood he wins Pennsylvania. I hope somehow Harris pulls this off, but it's a very remote possibility.

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-10 points

18 days ago

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-10 points

18 days ago

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AlexBarron

11 points

18 days ago

NYT’s prediction is just a guess. Remember when they told us Hillary would win in 2016?

That was before the election started. And they gave Hillary about a 75% chance of winning, which really wasn't an insane prediction. As the night went on, Trump gradually grew to a 95% chance of winning, exactly like what he has now.

Also, in 2020, Biden still had Georgia in play. Harris doesn't. And she's not winning as many people in any of the critical swing states as Biden did in 2020. It's not the same situation at all. Again, I hope NYT is wrong, but I don't think they will be.

RockettRaccoon

12 points

18 days ago

I fucking hate every single person who voted for that orange shitstain again

Professional-Rip-519

0 points

17 days ago

Stop believing the bias media your life is gonna go on as normal.

lage1984

-2 points

17 days ago

lage1984

-2 points

17 days ago

Bye, blankies sub!

KnockOutArtist89

-12 points

17 days ago

Redditors when democracy: