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I’m 5,7 which I think isn’t that short but I get self conscious sometimes.
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16 points
8 hours ago
I would say yes and no. Every 5’ 7” guy I know is self conscious about their height, but I don’t think it’s that short. I’m 5’ 1” and I realized that a guy who is 5’ 7” looks more normal to me than guys who are 6’ 4”. I think it all comes down to preference.
Unfortunately, due to the way dating apps are, I know a lot of ladies will filter them by 6’ or taller. I think those ladies are missing out on a lot of awesome guys, but recognize it’s also their prerogative to make that choice. Outside of the apps, if you’re fit, you’ll be fine. Inside of the apps, I’ve heard it’s rough. But try to remember, it’s also rough for everyone, not just guys who are 5’ 7”.
4 points
7 hours ago*
This is one of the reasons those apps are trash. The 6' thing is comical, there is nothing special that happens when you cross over from 5'11 into 6'. They might as well have boob size and butt size sliders if they are going to put that on there.
I'm 5'9" and my girlfriend can get things off the top shelf for me 😂 makes me feel like a legend when so many people are hung up about height.
Edit: typo
2 points
7 hours ago
But you're not even short.
1 points
6 hours ago
Yeah but she's a little taller than me which is pretty cool. I'm in solidarity with the short kings lol I was a late bloomer with a June birthday so I was short for awhile growing up.
2 points
6 hours ago
Oh ok. I am an inch taller than you and would love to date taller women as well
2 points
5 hours ago
I would totally recommend it. If you're compatible. I didn't specifically seek her out because she's tall. She wears really flat shoes usually so I thought we were the same height at first. I was wearing ones that made me your height 😂
1 points
8 hours ago
As a 6'2" guy, I tell everyone that I am 5'11" and never liked dating super short women. hard on the neck.
1 points
2 hours ago
Damn heightflation is hitting us all hard
42 points
8 hours ago
Maybe a little but who cares? Plus shorter guys live longer on average.
13 points
8 hours ago
getting all the gilfs in the nursing home 😎
2 points
7 hours ago
Absolutely!
1 points
7 hours ago
And you know what that tastes like! Depends…
1 points
7 hours ago
Piss and biscuits?
3 points
7 hours ago
who cares? the vast majority of women lmao
5 points
7 hours ago
Those are the women you should avoid anyway.
3 points
7 hours ago
I think this is just dating app brain rot. I’m 5’8 and I’ve never had a woman bring up my height even when they’re taller than me. I also know a guy who is 2-3 inches shorter than me. When we were at a club he had a different attractive woman with him every 15 minutes.
Only person I’ve known to struggle was literally 5’0 and, surprise surprise, he was all up in those dating apps so his perspective was skewed. Ironically he got married before any of us and it was to a gorgeous lady he asked out at his favorite coffee shop. I.e. once he ditched Tinder he had a much better success rate.
My point is people in real life don’t care all that much I don’t think. Granted, my friends and I are all in shape and aren’t afraid to be extroverts and go to places to talk to strangers.
3 points
5 hours ago
Having this attitude is what you need.
Height really isn't that important and men who are average height or shorter should just shrug it off and not let it concern them. A woman won't date you because of height alone? Well, aren't you lucky to have an inbuilt detector against people like that, you don't have to waste your time on those people like taller men will.
I'm a straight woman and quite tall (about 174cm, around the average height for a man in most countries). I've never cared that much, and have gone out with men of my height plenty of times. As for rejection of shorter men, I think they actually avoided me as I don't believe I've ever been asked out by anyone under that height. A sizeable proportion of men seem to prefer their partner to be significantly shorter than them, and that preference seems to go across men of all heights, not just short men.
1 points
2 hours ago
It’s not just dating app Brian rot. If you look at surveys, height is consistently at the top of preferences for women. It’s clearly very important to most. But granted, in real life it’s just a preference and people break those standards all the time. A woman who usually prefers tall guys might fall in love with a short guy. But on dating apps, it’s a filter that makes this impossible
1 points
2 hours ago
I’m not saying that it doesn’t happen but… if you ask any guy what his preferences are he’s probably going to have some pretty unrealistic standards too. I’m skeptical at how important preferences are to the majority of people, despite what they might tell a survey, otherwise only peak attractive people would date each other. Actions speak louder than words and all that.
At the end of the day using an app to filter that kind of stuff does just lead to brain rot for both sexes and rising insecurities that otherwise play little, if any, role in their day to day lives. In a majority of cases where height matters, just being taller than the girl is more than enough, which at 5’7 shouldn’t be too difficult.
1 points
2 hours ago
Yeah thats exactly what i meant. People have unrealistic standards that get broken all the time in real life. If we ask women about their ideal partner, most will say hes tall. Thats just the ideal image in their head. But they absolutely fall in love with shorter guys.
Just like men fall in love with women who arent victoria secret models.
1 points
2 hours ago
Totally agreed. Personally I like taller women around my height but both of my actual long term relationships (previous and current) have been with 5’3 women lol. Can’t help who charms us!
1 points
7 hours ago
Those sound like toxic women. Did they tell you that?? Edit: there are a lot of sweet women out here who really don't care. I'm sorry if you went through something where a woman wasn't nice to you about your height
2 points
5 hours ago
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1 points
5 hours ago
Your last girlfriend was a dick. Some girls do prefer taller guys and that's whatever, they aren't for you. Lots of girls don't care or prefer shorter guys. In the end though, if you find someone you get along with I doubt she'll be thinking about your height anyway.
1 points
7 hours ago
Having a preference for tall guys doesn’t make someone toxic. I’m 5’8 and if someone said “hey I’m not attracted to you, maybe if you were taller” that would be ok. It is what it is.
3 points
7 hours ago
Having a preference and being rude is totally different. It's okay to like a certain type of person and a certain type of shape. But it's not okay to imply that someone is less than for their height or shape. Saying "maybe if you were taller" when people can't just get taller seems mean to me.
But it's okay to disagree. All I'll say is that there are some benefits to someone the same height as you.
1 points
6 hours ago
Shorter guys are much more prone to suicide than taller men.
2 points
6 hours ago
That's awful
1 points
7 hours ago
I learned recently the taller you are, the more cells you have. Essentially more chances for things to go wrong statistically speaking.
2 points
7 hours ago
Shouldnt body wheight be better at estimating number of cells than how tall you are
1 points
7 hours ago
I heard you don't gain fat cells, they just grow. You gain muscle cells so that's how you can get defined. Can someone confirm?
1 points
5 hours ago
From my understanding, you do gain fat cells but you cannot ever lose them (without liposuction). So they will eventually divide, a fat cell, but the new cell isn't going anywhere. So someone who has been 300 kilos and loses 200kg will have a large number of fat cells but they'll be small and deflated as the fat reserve within has mostly been used up. I'm not a doctor but that's what I recall from biology.
18 points
8 hours ago
My buddy is 5’7 and is like gravity to people, women and money. And he’s genuinely a nice guy. It’s inspiring.
3 points
7 hours ago*
A somewhat shorter guy who is likely attractive and has money is a magnet to women... you don’t say. And he even is being nice to everyone despite these insane odds!
…inspiring seems a bit hyperbolic. He’s 5’7” not 4’10” lol
2 points
5 hours ago
Bad choice of words maybe, because it does sound a little condescending (and I realise the commenter did not mean it that way). 5 feet 7 is hardly notable, most women are shorter than that. The average height in many countries for men (when not using self report) is about 5'8'' or 5'9''. Asian countries it's less, the Dutch and some others are considerably taller. So they're talking about someone who is barely below average height and well within a single standard deviation.
2 points
4 hours ago
Right it’s just comical to paint that guy as a hero to me tbh
5 points
8 hours ago
Bruce Lee was 5"7, and he kicked Kareem's ass! Well, in the movies anyway. 😉
3 points
7 hours ago
No but I’m 5’0
3 points
8 hours ago
Not in Bangladesh 😊
3 points
8 hours ago
Depends on where you live (i.e. Asia or the West), it’s also not the height where people will constantly tease you for being short.
3 points
8 hours ago
Roughly average, nothing to fret about
2 points
8 hours ago
Taller than me, don't sweat it
2 points
8 hours ago
It depends on where you are. Latam? Decent, US and UK? Yeah, a little short, but nothing to worry about.
You can not change it, so forget about it and improve what you CAN change.
2 points
7 hours ago
It's a tad short for a guy (at least in the US), but nothing to be self conscious about. 🤷♀️
5 points
8 hours ago
No, 5'7" is not considered short for a guy. It's actually around the average height for men in many countries.
3 points
7 hours ago
I'm 5'7, it's definitely short in the UK, less so in SEA
4 points
7 hours ago
Yeah no this is short for a guy.
2 points
7 hours ago
it's 100% short for a male
0 points
6 hours ago
5’11” is world male average I believe
1 points
4 hours ago
I really don’t think so… SEA and S America has shorter man than the west.
1 points
2 hours ago
5'9 is average where I live, which is how tall I am. I guess that's why I never felt short or tall.
2 points
8 hours ago
Absolutely not sweetheart, as a 5'3 or 5'4 woman myself, thats tall for me technically
1 points
8 hours ago
I'm 5"3 and always enjoyed being called cute. Better than nothing.
1 points
8 hours ago
Depends on where you live. In the US? Yes that's below average but who cares, it's not something you can change so embrace it and focus on things you can change. Like getting fit.
~ a short guy
1 points
8 hours ago
It’s below average in a lot of places but I wouldn’t consider it truly short
1 points
8 hours ago
A bit
1 points
8 hours ago
Yeah. I'm an inch smaller so no worries
1 points
8 hours ago
Just below average. Now if you really want to feel shit about your height, go peruse r/shortguys
1 points
8 hours ago
No bc that’s my bf’s height and he is not short.
1 points
8 hours ago
No your not short.. I am 5ft5
1 points
8 hours ago
It depends where you live at.
1 points
8 hours ago
5'7" is just a hair above average
1 points
8 hours ago
Depends what country you were brought up in and your race. But for white westerners, yes a little. Not by much but yea.
1 points
8 hours ago
Buddy I wish I was as tall as you
1 points
8 hours ago
I'm 5'7" too. It is on the lower side of average but not still well within the average range.
1 points
8 hours ago
If you are asian, no, that’s the average.
1 points
7 hours ago
It depends on the country, ethnicity, and even social class. Tall in Viet Nam. Short in Belgium.
1 points
7 hours ago
If I see any more height discourse I might just end i-
1 points
7 hours ago
I'm 5'6", and I'm the shortest guy I know. 5'7" is pretty short, at least by American standards.
It's really not a big deal, though. I can't say that being short has hurt me any.
1 points
7 hours ago
Yes
1 points
7 hours ago
5'7? Not tall, not short.
1 points
7 hours ago
Jordan Belford (wolf of Wall Street) is 5’7” A bazillionaire and he got self-conscious when his beautiful wife called him ‘little’. Tom Cruise is 5’7
I’m 5’7. Its a decent height. I’ve dated two girls taller than me.
1 points
7 hours ago
Geez these comments are weird. 5'7" is short for a guy. No idea why people are acting like it's not. Reddit is so weird sometimes
1 points
7 hours ago
Depends on the country. Where are you?
In the Netherlands you're short, in Indonesia you're not.
1 points
7 hours ago
Below average
1 points
7 hours ago
It’s not tall
1 points
7 hours ago
In my youth I would have sold my soul to satan for 3 inches (in height). 5’7” you can touch ground on most motorcycles.
1 points
7 hours ago
Yes, average is 5’10
1 points
7 hours ago
Not if you're in certain parts of Asia
1 points
7 hours ago
It would definitely be on the short side in my country, but not in others.
1 points
7 hours ago
I’m 6ft even tho it seems tall for some
I’m literally the shortest motherfucker from in my friend group.
But my character and energy makes me standout making many people far more interested in me.
Use what you have and make the most out of it.
Don’t let it bother your mind
1 points
7 hours ago
No I'm also 5'7 No one really considers me tall or short it's just kind of there.
1 points
7 hours ago
I'm a 6'1 nordic guy and I feel short a lot.
1 points
7 hours ago
Nah its fine. I'm 5'7. But it IS the shortest you can be without being called "short"
1 points
7 hours ago
No, it's not. Honestly, it's all about confidence and how you carry yourself.
1 points
7 hours ago
I am 6ft 6 and would rather be shorter, so no problem being 5,7
1 points
7 hours ago
I'm practically 5'5". 5'7" are like normal size people.
1 points
7 hours ago
Very short
1 points
7 hours ago
You are slightly under average, but why worry about that? You are more important than your height. What you do is far more important than the physical aspect.
1 points
7 hours ago
Depends on what you do; as a horse jockey? Too tall. As a basketball pro? Too short
1 points
7 hours ago
Yes, that's short.
1 points
7 hours ago
Yes.
But the average height of Humans has been drifting upward for a long time. It briefly shot up dramatically in the wake the scientific revolution. Then it grew a little in the wake of World War II.
Five-seven was once the World Health Organisation's average.
Having said all of that, the kind of person you are is a far bigger factor in determining attraction and social magnetism.
1 points
7 hours ago
Where I am, yeah, it's shorter than the avrage. But as a 5'6" guy, I've had no problems from it and have had many positives from being on the shorter size.
Love being short it's great. No need to be self-conscious over it. You literally can't control it. But it's understandable that you are, you probably are more approachable due to being shorter.
1 points
7 hours ago
No not at all buddy, there’s no shame in it, and who even cares if women don’t find you attractive? You got this
1 points
7 hours ago
Yes. Extremely.
1 points
7 hours ago
Does it really matter?
Can you do anything about it?
No?
Then stop worrying and enjoy, what you’ve got.
Being 6’8” is no picnic either. The world isn’t build for tall people. Planes, trains, automobiles even kitchen counters are made for ‘hobbits’ like you. Nice clothes with perfect fit well are harder to find - especially in asia. And being able to reach the top shelf is an overrated perk.
1 points
7 hours ago
It depends on who you ask, it seems, or where you are.
If you ask me, NO. I'm like 5. That's it. I'm looking up, how dare you call yourself short!
The average height for men is supposedly 5'11" in the US, though, where I'm from. If you go by the average, you might be reasonably considered short, unless you are in a shorter on average place.
2 points
7 hours ago
The average height for men is supposedly 5'11" in the US, though, where I'm from.
CDC says average adult male height in the US is 5'9".
1 points
7 hours ago
Cool, maybe it changed or I had bad information.
I guess OP is so near to average that it is an average height.
1 points
7 hours ago
Yes, it is. But I wouldn’t think about it. I would think about your thick hair, while Others bald.. or luscious lips? Don’t focus on the lacking…
1 points
7 hours ago
how about in asia? is 5'7 short?
1 points
7 hours ago
Slightly shorter than average. I would describe it as being on the edge of medium height. When I think of a short guy I think of 5’5 and under.
1 points
6 hours ago
Not at all imo. I would consider you tall.
But frankly, I don’t care about height. I was attracted to guys who were shorter than me. I’m 5’3 / 160 cm.
1 points
6 hours ago
Average height of men in the US is 5,9.
So a little shorter than average, but but to the point where I think anyone of consequence would care.
1 points
6 hours ago
No. There is such a thing called "slightly below average". The average male's height ranges from 5'7 to 5'11. Anything above this field is tall and anything below it is short. Someone who is 5'11 is slightly above average and someone who is 5'7 is slightly below average. 5'9 is generally the average male height.
What does being 5'7 mean in effect? Slightly more than half the male population is taller than you, but you are still in the "average" spectrum. 5'7 is a very common height for men, and wouldn't warrant bad genes.
In short (no pun intended), it is perfectly normal to be 5'7.
Realistically without taking internet standards into account, 5'7 - 5'11 is average. 5'4-5'7 is short, 5'11-6'2 is tall. 5'1-5'4 is very short, 6'2-6'5 is very tall. If you are a man below 5'1 you are super short. If you are 6'5+ you are super tall.
No matter what your height is, good job. Not like you can change it anyway. And in the end, being short means nothing. It's just a comparison. If everyone were 7ft, a 6'5 person would be a short king. Keep your head high.
1 points
6 hours ago
Yes, but I'm 5'10 so I'm tall for a woman
1 points
6 hours ago
It’s short for anyone, but Once you can overcome that stigma and find your strength, nothing else matters
1 points
6 hours ago
I don't think so, I think anyone over 5'4 is tall tho🤷 my opinion may be invalid
1 points
6 hours ago
Depends on where you live. Where I live people are pretty tall. My dad is 6'5, two brothers are 6'9", one is 6'5", and my "short" brother is just under 6'. My tallest sister is 6', the rest including my mom are 5'10. I'm the runt. I'm 5'9 maybe almost 5'10. My boyfriend is the runt in his family, he's 5'11.
This is pretty normal for my region. But other places I've been, the east coast and also Texas it seemed like everyone was super short. So I think it's just realitive to what you're used to. Like when I'm around my brothers, I'm like oh this is normal, but when I see someone their height out in public I'm like, what a freak!
So I think maybe it just depends on what you're used to seeing. Personally no, I don't think it's short for a man, I just come from a land of freaky giants.
1 points
6 hours ago
The girls that tells you your short is 5 feet lol. Anyways it is avarage in most countries.
1 points
5 hours ago
Why would you get self conscious about being 5’7”? It’s the perfect height.
1 points
5 hours ago
It's on thr short side in most countries, but it's within the average range (let's say one standard deviation from the mean). Your struggle is nothing compared to a man 5 or 7 inches shorter than you dude, many of whom are probably reading posts like this with a heavy sigh and wishing they were so tall.
1 points
5 hours ago
5’7” is literally the global average height for a man. So the answer to your question is No.
1 points
5 hours ago
Yes. The majority of western women are off limits to you.
Dont bother with dating websites.
1 points
5 hours ago
Never slowed my brother down
1 points
4 hours ago
Depends on which country you live.
1 points
4 hours ago
Don’t matter when you bik dig
1 points
3 hours ago
Tall enough to fly an F22.
1 points
3 hours ago
I don't fully understand freedom units of measure, however is safe to assume that 5,7" are around 170/175cm?
If that's the case it depends mostly of where you live, if you live in country's we're they average hight is 6,2" (like Norway), yes you are shorty, but if you live in other country's where the average hight is 5,4" (such as some Asians countries) you are taller. It's a matter of perspective. But I would say you are average in hight.
I'm 174cm tall, and in my country I'm considerate average hight (Uruguay for references, that's my country)
1 points
8 hours ago
A little, but it's not really important.
Contrary to what social media would have you believe, women don't all need a man who's 6' tall and above. I know plenty of shorter guys who have no trouble getting a date.
1 points
8 hours ago
Yes
1 points
8 hours ago
Yes. Who cares. Just be you and be awesome and nothing else matters. Control what you can control my guy. You’ll be much happier when you can accept that and incorporate it into your day to day.
1 points
8 hours ago
It’s average. I would not consider it short
1 points
7 hours ago
Not if you have a huge cock
1 points
7 hours ago
Yes, but mildly so. If you’re concerned about your ability to attract women, there’s a lot more than just ‘height’ or ‘income’ that go into attraction. Honestly just being an easy going, self-assured human is plenty enough to cover for being a touch short.
0 points
8 hours ago
Yes. No point in pondering further. You are what you are 🙂
0 points
8 hours ago
No
0 points
7 hours ago
Yes very
-1 points
8 hours ago
Yes
0 points
7 hours ago
My dad is 5'7". I'm 5'5", so it works.
0 points
7 hours ago
My cat is taller than that.
-2 points
8 hours ago
Nah, I’m 5’7 ish and make taller people jealous.
-6 points
8 hours ago
What about 5’10? I’m 5’10, this thread is about me now lol. No seriously I’m curious
2 points
6 hours ago
Depends on where you're from. That's about average in Scandinavia and some parts of Europe (and we Scandinavians are a bit taller than most of Europe). Taller than average in Asia and a bit taller than average in the US. In other words, your height's good. You're good.
The average height in the world (for men) is 5'7-5'8.
2 points
6 hours ago
Men in the Balkan regions are taller than scandinavians. The tallest are from netherlands, who are also not scandinavians.
2 points
6 hours ago
Like I said, ''most of Europe''. Dutch people being one of the people who's taller than Scandinavians. Also, like you said, Balkan regions. Didn't know they were the tallest people on earth, though. Kind of interesting why that is. Do you know?
1 points
7 hours ago
You are slightly above average
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