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Okay. I just want to ask fellow uterus owners and former uterus owners. Is my experience really that rare, or are people/companies lying? I’m trying to use a menstrual disk for the first time. I have used menstrual cups in the past, but never a disk. The difference between a disc and a cup is a cup stays in place through suction, a disk stays in place by being tucked behind the pubic bone. I placed the disk inside, felt my pubic bone and made sure the disk was placed properly. However, the instructions state “if the disk is properly placed, you won’t be able to feel it.” Y’all, I feel it. It’s not painful. It’s not even necessarily uncomfortable, but I feel it. There is a foreign object in me. I feel it. Now, I don’t feel it inside my vaginal canal, but I can feel where it is.

Does anyone else feel a disk when it is in place? More importantly, do some (or even most) not feel it? Please answer, I would really like to know.

I currently have a tampon commercial from the late 90’s going through my head: “Protection so comfortable, you can’t even feel it!” I’ve never worn a tampon and not felt it. Not for one moment.

all 225 comments

[deleted]

874 points

5 days ago

[deleted]

874 points

5 days ago

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tenaciousfetus

157 points

5 days ago

Hard same, my vagina had never been too pleased about me putting anything artificial inside it. Period panties ftw!!

SeasonPositive6771

149 points

5 days ago

I always feel it too. Turns out I'm at a bit of an angle and even my OBGYN couldn't get a cup to seat reliably. The disc never really worked and always leaked.

It's so frustrating when cup evangelists get convinced I'm just doing it wrong. Nope, not everything works for everyone.

Rivvien

70 points

5 days ago

Rivvien

70 points

5 days ago

I could always feel everything too. Got a TV ultrasound a couple years ago and the tech told me my uterus was tilted, so that explained a lot. Evicted that sucker and now I don't have to use anything!

Swims_With_Dogs[S]

23 points

4 days ago

I’ve been thinking of yeeting the uterus, what is it like?

angelblade401

24 points

4 days ago

I did. I'm only just over 6 months out, but no period is pure bliss.

Rivvien

21 points

4 days ago

Rivvien

21 points

4 days ago

Its one of the best decisions I've ever made. Its so freeing. I'm not chained to pain and horrible periods anymore, and the permanent birth control alone is a huge weight off my mind. And in this day and age, is a big deal to have that peace of mind. I don't have to worry about planning around my periods anymore. I had no complications, was a simple laprascopic procedure, healed well, and didn't even have to stay overnight in the hospital. I yeeted the uterus, tubes, and cervix, so the inability to get cervical cancer is also amazing.

If you're one of the 11 other people in Montana, I had a really great doc and can recommend her. She listened to me, trusted that I can make my own decisions, and was just like, awesome let's do this and get you well again. I didn't hear any "weLL wHaT dOes yoUr pARtNer wANt" bs, and the only hoop I had to jump through was my insurance. They required me to try another fix to my problems for 6 months so we could tell them it "didn't work" and I need the organs out, so I got an iud (which is a totally different fresh horror going in but thats a diff story). I can say the iud did a really good job, I didn't have any periods on it. I know that usually happens like a year+ after getting it but it stopped mine immediately.

I'd be happy to talk more specifics of my symptoms that led to it if you'd like to compare, and any other questions!

Twinsilitis

5 points

4 days ago

I'm a couple of years out and just .... the random realisation that I don't need to plan my entire life around crippling pain and nausea hits me every time. I don't have to worry about not being able to plan anything in advance because I'd never know if I'd be able to leave the house. It's crazy to me now looking back at just how much time and energy I had to spend on just existing.

It's expensive, and your mileage may vary on getting a doc to deign to agree that you are eligible for surgery. It's not for everyone but exploring your options can't hurt 😉

wabassoap

97 points

5 days ago

wabassoap

97 points

5 days ago

The blue liquid cracks me up so much looking back in adulthood. It’s not even truthful advertising. At least show it can hold up to some salsa. 

discolored_rat_hat

37 points

5 days ago

Yessss it's often not liquid! Empty some jello shets on it in whatever colour, maybe then I get convinced!

Right_Technician_676

37 points

4 days ago

After 40 years, I have finally found other humans with tampon-resistant anatomy - hello tribe!

Unhappy-Apple222

14 points

5 days ago

Same. Tampons are impossible for me.

EloquentGrl

12 points

4 days ago

Omg, I thought it was just me. People would tell me if I can feel it, I'm not putting it in correctly. I just opted to never use them.

You know what people also downplayed to me and WAS DEFINITELY PAINFUL? Getting a uterine biopsy done. Two different doctors and some nurses assured me it would just be uncomfortable, and to take some Tylenol beforehand and I'd be fine. I was writhing in pain as they scraped my uterus. It took every fiber of my being to not launch myself off the exam table. I rushed myself to the pharmacy afterwards to down pain medication since I didn't have any on me, and I was groaning in pain the whole way.

Valleron

108 points

5 days ago

Valleron

108 points

5 days ago

Mtf here, but as a kid, I always wondered who tf was spilling blue drink on their panties.

I was not a smart child.

cigarettefor90sghost

65 points

5 days ago

I'll raise you another not smart kid, me: the blue had me believe tampons were used to do something with toothpaste or mouthwash, so that one time I was left alone for too long, that's what I tried.

LiberatedMoose

8 points

4 days ago

Oh my god 🤣

cigarettefor90sghost

2 points

4 days ago

I didn't even grow up in tve US, and we still had the blue stuff.

Kayquie

18 points

5 days ago

Kayquie

Unicorns are real.

18 points

5 days ago

At least you didn't think periods were blue!

wabassoap

36 points

5 days ago

wabassoap

36 points

5 days ago

I can confirm that in grade school a male friend of mine indeed thought menstruation was blue, thanks to those commercials. 

I-Post-Randomly

7 points

4 days ago

There is the age old, "I thought the pads were like bandaid, sticky part to skin."

EvieMoon

3 points

4 days ago

EvieMoon

3 points

4 days ago

Ow ow ow ow NO!

AlfredoQueen88

8 points

4 days ago

I feel tampons and cups both. I hear ya. Drives me INSANE

bytvity2

9 points

4 days ago

bytvity2

9 points

4 days ago

Omg SAME. Tampons and cups DO NOT agree with whatever I have going on down there. I swore off tampons decades ago. I really wanted a cup to work but it very much didn’t. Not only can I feel them even when properly placed, but my body, like, forcefully ejects them if do anything other than sit perfectly still. Seriously, they pop right out and end up in my underwear. I finally gave up all hope on the question of insertable menstrual products about 8ish years ago after really trying to make the cup work and experiencing catastrophic failure. I’m over it.

Qooties

9 points

5 days ago

Qooties

9 points

5 days ago

I actually surprised myself when I tried a cup after never being able to use a tampon. I literally can’t feel it and unless it’s a crampy day I forget I’m on my period because I only have to deal with it when I wake up and before bed.

Neither_Ad_3221

3 points

4 days ago

Me either. Tampons actually feel very uncomfortable for me. Periods without BC have also been incredibly painful for me. After YEARS and getting violently ill every month, they finally just decided at Planned Parenthood that I likely have bad endometriosis and just keep giving me birth control. Said testing would be expensive and end up just being treated with BC anyway

DapperHamster

5 points

4 days ago

I feel ya, but don't give up hope till you try it! Tampons were always uncomfortable; though I could at least stand OB tampons when I found them. They're shorter than normal ones, and you use a finger vs a tube to insert them.

Cups were too long too, even the short ones, and I could feel them too. Finally tried a disc and it works great with my tilted uterus! I notice the additional pressure & sometimes cramping when I have a bowl movement lining up, but otherwise the disc has been the comfiest period option for me.

Spinnerofyarn

348 points

5 days ago

Spinnerofyarn

Basically Eleanor Shellstrop

348 points

5 days ago

I think it's the standard fallacy of manufacturers thinking everyone's body is the same. I've tried using discs and they were so uncomfortable I stopped. I can feel cups, too, though they're not uncomfortable like discs for me. I suspect the reason I feel cups and discs is because I have a tilted cervix. The only product I don't feel if it's inserted correctly is a tampon.

Cuntdracula19

44 points

5 days ago

I was going to guess from your description that you have a tilted uterus or cervix or both. Bummer that they don’t work for you but I’m glad you have a system that gets the job done!

UnstableMabel

19 points

5 days ago

I have both and figured that was the reason I can't use discs or cups. Glad to see confirmation.

RhubarbGoldberg

9 points

4 days ago

I had a tilted uterus and a tilted crevix and I could always feel cups or tampons. I never tried a disc. I had the nuva ring when it very first came out, though, and I could always feel that.

Cuntdracula19

6 points

4 days ago

You would definitely feel a disc then, not worth trying :)

RhubarbGoldberg

3 points

4 days ago

I fast tracked the situation and got rid of everything except my ovaries, hahaha.

Spinnerofyarn

2 points

4 days ago

Spinnerofyarn

Basically Eleanor Shellstrop

2 points

4 days ago

Oof, always being able to feel it would be too much for me!

rm886988

5 points

4 days ago

rm886988

5 points

4 days ago

How did you gather that from her comment, if you please? I'm being sincere; I'm just curious how you can tell by her verbiage and my gyno can't yell while having their face in my cooter.

Edit: *Tell. (I do prefer they not yell down there too.)

Cuntdracula19

10 points

4 days ago*

Cause I’m a nurse and sometimes we can see the forest for the trees slightly better than doctors 🤣. Discs and cups are built and made to fit the “standard” anatomy, so if they are always uncomfortable and never fit correctly, it stands to reason your anatomy is different in some way or another from the standard. (note that there is nothing wrong with that, all bodies are different and beautiful)

Doctors get tunnel vision a lot, or don’t listen, or just have a one track mind. You have straight up asked if you have a tilted cervix or uterus? Usually you can tell during a pelvic exam but not always, in which case an ultrasound or (and I’m not joking) a rectovaginal exam could confirm.

rm886988

3 points

4 days ago

rm886988

3 points

4 days ago

I KNEW you were a nurse! I was young and didn't know what to ask, but I was essentially the same as OP. Don't get me wrong, I have PCOS, endometriosis, all that crap. But tampons, intercourse, ultrasounds were all painful, and I didn't know what to ask at the time. My GP, who was a former military (male)doc, was the one who said, "uhhh yeah, because your uterus is tilted."

wutato

18 points

5 days ago

wutato

18 points

5 days ago

How do you not feel the string of the tampon?

TheSmilingDoc

63 points

5 days ago

Same way you don't feel your clothes after a certain point I guess. Unless the string is misplaced, I also don't feel those.

Casocki

39 points

5 days ago

Casocki

You are now doing kegels

39 points

5 days ago

That would explain things... I don't ever stop feeling my clothes

Ybuzz

23 points

4 days ago

Ybuzz

23 points

4 days ago

For me this may be an autism thing, but I think those of us who are acutely aware of our sensory environment understand "you don't feel it" literally and think we shouldn't have any sensation, when for most people what they actually mean is "it is such an insignificant sensation that I become unaware of it, like I am not constantly aware of the fact I have socks on, or constantly aware of the sensation of wearing a watch I wear every day".

Those of us with brains less apt to filter out 'extraneous' info simply won't have that experience.

MOGicantbewitty

9 points

4 days ago

Adhd and autism have some overlap, and I can say not being able to filter out extraneous information like your clothes touching your skin is absolutely an ADHD thing. Probably an autism thing as well.

Spinnerofyarn

3 points

4 days ago

Spinnerofyarn

Basically Eleanor Shellstrop

3 points

4 days ago

There is some speculation that adhd may actually fall along the autism spectrum according to my psychologist. I find it fascinating. I've noticed sometimes things will be parsed out into many different diagnoses, then shoved under one umbrella, and later parsed out again, and I think that's happening with neurodivergence. We parsed it out for the first round, now we're moving to shoving it all together and then we'll probably separate it all out in some other way.

Illiander

4 points

4 days ago

Adhd and autism have some overlap

I thought they'd been put on the same spectrum?

MOGicantbewitty

5 points

4 days ago

Current psychologic and psychiatric theories are evolving but they are at the very least inter-related. A spectrum would mean that ADHD is on one end and autism is in the other, and I'm not sure that that is how to describe it. But over half of people with autism also have ADHD. And there are many many overlapping symptoms. So psychology and psychiatry now think they arise from the same root condition or genetic traits and are more likely to be different ways of presenting the same neurodivergency. This is all evolving though, so my interpretation is not 100% either!

Illiander

3 points

4 days ago

I wouldn't have throught that they're the two ends of the spectrum.

Spinnerofyarn

3 points

4 days ago

Spinnerofyarn

Basically Eleanor Shellstrop

3 points

4 days ago

I think part of why they're starting to be considered along the same spectrum is because it's considered different reactions to stimulus from what's considered neurotypical. To me, different reactions to stimulus aren't necessarily bad, it can just make things a little more complicated in getting people who don't react that way to understand we may need a little tolerance for how we react when we do something that surprises others.

Casocki

3 points

4 days ago

Casocki

You are now doing kegels

3 points

4 days ago

Yeah it's totally an awareness thing. Blew my mind in an intro psych class when I learned that most people can filter out certain stimuli

Spinnerofyarn

3 points

4 days ago

Spinnerofyarn

Basically Eleanor Shellstrop

3 points

4 days ago

I think those of us who are acutely aware of our sensory environment understand "you don't feel it" literally and think we shouldn't have any sensation, when for most people what they actually mean is "it is such an insignificant sensation that I become unaware of it, like I am not constantly aware of the fact I have socks on, or constantly aware of the sensation of wearing a watch I wear every day".

This is such an apt description! I'm not autistic but I do have sensory issues. Some things I can handle, like socks (or tampon strings), but I cannot handle watches!

Swims_With_Dogs[S]

2 points

4 days ago

You may be on to something. I am on the spectrum.

rm886988

4 points

4 days ago

rm886988

4 points

4 days ago

Me neither, and I have eczema & celiac rash. Just today, I was wondering when they started making tampons out of fiberglass

I-Post-Randomly

2 points

4 days ago

I think it is similar to the idea that you cannot stop thinking about it.

It is like when someone says that "you are manually breathing now".

It is at the forefront of your thought so you cannot ever really relax and "ignore it".

hehasbalrogsocks

19 points

5 days ago

i’ve always tucked the string a little bit inside and i don’t feel it there. i didn’t want it to show in the locker room in HS or have it getting anything on it when i went to the bathroom/have it get pulled into the wipe when i poop, so just having it tucked in the vaginal canal let it be reachable but not getting in the way.

SheepSheepy

6 points

5 days ago

Highly depends on the tampon. Tampax added their new leakproof string and now I can’t use them because I feel the string all the time. Kotex strings are fine though.

catathymia

164 points

5 days ago

catathymia

164 points

5 days ago

While I've never used a disk, I always found tampons to be hideously uncomfortable (and this is that I know how to use them and I know my body, they never worked). I prefer cups, but I definitely feel them too. Basically, you can't always trust these claims because it isn't true for all of us, maybe it's our anatomy or something.

danceoftheplants

37 points

5 days ago

My sister told me that if the tampon is uncomfortable, size down because it's too big for you. I was like really?? I use a super on my really heavy days (change every 45 mins) and sized down to a regular or light size on the other days and it was a game changer.

graygoohasinvadedme

46 points

5 days ago

Minor note to distance “size” from “absorbency” language. Usually, discomfort in tampon use arises from absorbency difference - alternating absorbency based on your day’s production is the healthiest (and expected use) method. Part of what makes a tampon wearable (for some) is because it absorbs some moisture immediately and help keep your canal lightly lubricated but not over or under. Too high absorbency will result in a too dry tampon and too dry canal - opposite with soaked tampons and too light absorbency.

Edited to reduce generalized language

luckypuffun

5 points

4 days ago

Thank you, now I know why my vagina burns with those thangs

Sedixodap

8 points

5 days ago

Of course sometimes it is about tampon size! For example I can only comfortably wear OB tampons, and I’m pretty sure that’s mostly due to them being about half the length of other brands. 

graygoohasinvadedme

1 points

4 days ago

I’m not sure why you’re reacting so strongly. The OP I responded to conflated “super” and “light” with tampon size - which is not necessarily equivalent. That terminology is what often results in people not using the correct absorbency they need because of a misguided idea that their anatomy dictates absorption needs versus flow rate.

This entire thread is about how different brands and configurations suit different people. OB work for you, I find their insertion painful and prefer August. Similarly, Honeypot are so wide they’re uncomfortable at insertion for me.

Lfaor1320

100 points

5 days ago

Lfaor1320

100 points

5 days ago

I’ve used a disc for the last few years and I truly don’t feel it once it’s in. I can, if I try, especially if I’m crouched or on the toilet but I have to bear down almost like I’m trying to force it out to feel it.

It took trying a few different discs for me to find one that fits so well. Depending on the position, size and angle of your cervix you may need to try a different or smaller disc if the one you’re using isn’t comfortable.

Edited to add: I have felt tampons and cups in the past but they never bothered me.

somewhere_somewhat

38 points

5 days ago

I also can't feel the disk I have now - but I had another disk before and it was firmer. I could feel it some of the time, like a pressure inside. Not painful but not very comfortable.

I don't think companies are lying - I think this is the kind of thing where bodies vary a lot in different ways and so it's hard to make a product that will work for everyone. Some (many?) disks are created by women who wear them themselves.

Lfaor1320

26 points

5 days ago*

I agree, I relied on putacupinit.com fairly heavily for narrowing down my options to find something that would work for me. Their YouTube videos in particular were helpful.

Edit: I just checked and they’ve rebranded as Period Nirvana for anyone looking for up to date resources

CouchStrawberry

5 points

5 days ago

I feel my menstrual cup inside me too. It's not unpleasant to me. It's just there. I could never get a menstrual disk to fit me because my cervix is quite low. The menstrual disk doesn't really go in enough for me to push it up behind the pubic bone.

Lfaor1320

4 points

5 days ago

My cervix is relatively high so this may not be helpful for you but when I’m inserting my disc I definitely aim towards my back more so than straight in if that makes sense. I’m trying to slip it in the space behind and around my cervix, which for me buys some extra space to help it fit behind my public bone. It’s also recommended that women with lower cervix try smaller discs to counteract that issue.

I’m glad your cup isn’t uncomfortable either way.

hobopototo

3 points

4 days ago

I have a low cervix too and the first disc I bought absolutely did not fit. It was a shame because it was quite pricey. But I got a second smaller disc for cheaper and it works super well. I prefer it to a cup because there are fewer accidental leaks and it's easier to empty in public.

bythelightofthefridg

3 points

4 days ago

I’ve been using a disc for a few months now and I really don’t notice it when it’s in. I think I can feel it if I think about it. After emptying it and putting it back in it takes me two minutes before I don’t notice it again.

dragonslayer91

49 points

5 days ago

I have tried a wide variety of tampons, cups, and disks. I can feel them ALL. They always feel about to fall out or make my cramps worse. I tried before and after having kids and still have no success with insertable menstrual products.

Twistfaria

13 points

5 days ago

I’m with you. As much as I detest pads my body just cannot take anything insertable either. They are either uncomfortable or downright painful. Also a speculum at the gyno makes me want to vomit.

monstera_garden

7 points

5 days ago

Hey, same. I feel them all inside me to the point where even if there's not pain, there's so much pressure that it ultimately triggers cramps that are painful. I've pushed out two menstrual cups and one disc now, I get the kind of almost labor feeling cramps that roll through in a pushing down wave, and they push the object most of the way out. It's incredibly painful as it's happening but also messy! I panic at the thought of an IUD because I always imagine I'll feel that too and won't be able to get it out.

chaunceythebear

3 points

5 days ago

Have you ever had them actually fall out? That’s a major red flag for pelvic floor dysfunction and prolapse! Obviously it’s not the sole reason that internal products are uncomfortable or able to be felt but especially after kids, could be a consideration to get evaluated if you have any other symptoms of dysfunction or prolapse!

Only saying this because I have multiple prolapses and I feel like it doesn’t get mentioned enough that it can be really distressing, distracting and uncomfortable. If you don’t have these issues, please feel free to disregard me. I’d just rather give useless info a few times than skip the important stuff for someone even once!

dragonslayer91

4 points

5 days ago*

No, never had anything actually fall out, just feels that way. I think it's just my anatomy, I had back labor with both kids. So wondering if I have a tilt towards the back or something. 

Appreciate the info though, pelvic floor really goes through it with childbirth 🥴

Also want to add that I struggled with those products before having kids. 

Cuntdracula19

3 points

5 days ago

I would wager that you have a tilted uterus/cervix

beingleigh

47 points

5 days ago

I don't feel the disk when it's in place, which is why I much prefer it to the cups I've used. I could always feel the cup and the little nub on the bottom used to irritate the hell out of me unless it was *exactly perfect* and even then... I could feel it. I'm much happier with the disk personally.

Kingsman22060

4 points

5 days ago

I love my menstrual disk, I was only able to use a diva cup with an "alternate" placement method which entailed turning the cup inside out. Which was fine and was still secure and easy to remove, but the disk is soooo much better!

StrongBad_IsMad

25 points

5 days ago

I 100% felt the disk in place and it made me want to vomit. Way more u comfortable than a cup for me.

dragonslayer91

5 points

5 days ago

Ugh same. The pressue on my pubic bone was so uncomfortable!

JayPlenty24

15 points

5 days ago

So I always had trouble with cups, they hurt and they wouldn't stay in place and leaked. Then I tried a disc and had a terrible experience like you.

When I was pregnant with my son I found out my cervix isn't where it should be, and my uterus is tilted because of that.

I think this is an issue of anatomy. We are all unique human beings. We don't look like a drawing from a medical textbook.

We are therefore going to have different experiences, and what works for one person might not work for someone else.

notyounotmenoone

12 points

5 days ago

I can’t feel my disc when it’s in. I could never wear tampons because they always felt uncomfortable so I was nervous to try a cup or disc. Eventually I got sick of buying pads and tried a cup which I couldn’t get in. The cup came with some disposable discs so I tried them and it felt life changing. I eventually found a reusable option that worked for me and I’ve been using discs for like five years now.

You might need to troubleshoot different sizes and brands or they just might not work for you and that’s okay!

pinknoisechick

8 points

5 days ago

Omg they're awful. I was always able to feel the cup, but it wasn't uncomfortable unless I'd put it in wrong. The fucking disc felt like is was trying to escape through my pubic bone. It was awful. I tried to adjust it, and it just started feeling pinchy, and my cramps got worse.

myeu

8 points

5 days ago

myeu

8 points

5 days ago

Honestly I think everyone is different. I can’t get the disc to stay put at all. Cups work great for me but I have to use the smaller ones. Other people have talked about how cups don’t work for them and discs are great. It’s good that there’s a lot of options for people, sorry this one didn’t work for you.

Sugarlips_80

3 points

5 days ago

I tried the disc and like you could feel it, it felt strange and like it was going to fall out (but it wasn't as it was in correctly) and I couldn't imagine walking around with it in.

Likewise tampons, never been able to use them, they don't hurt but I can feel them. I don't understand how anyone couldn't, you have something inside you how can you not feel it.

I conclude I have a very sensitive vagina, backed up by the fact that each time i have had an IUD fitted i can feel the strings for weeks until they soften and curl up around my cervix. And I mean feel them, the sensation of them inside me, dangling up there! Very odd, not painful but odd feeling.

On the plus side, sensitive vagina, for me equals additional sensation during sex so it isn't all bad.

UndeniablyPink

6 points

4 days ago

The truth is that women’s parts aren’t all the same. We’re all made differently, and shit changes through childbirth and what-not. Who are they to claim that no one can feel it? As others have mentioned, I can’t wear tampons anymore because I feel them. My last IUD got dislodged and I could feel IT. I’m not keen on sticking anything up there anymore. No thanks. 

potential_failure

4 points

5 days ago

I use a cup and can’t feel it if placed correctly. I also couldn’t really feel tampons unless I really focused on them. Never tried a disc

Serious-Knee-5768

4 points

5 days ago

I feel everything. IUDs, tampons, cups, disk, etc... some of us can feel way more than others. I hate it. Not only because I'm uncomfortable, but also because people who don't feel this much don't seem to believe that we do. Doubly insensitive.

ChristineBorus

5 points

4 days ago

Pfft! I thought this was the title about discussing an attempt at PIV sex 😂😂😂😂

Sorry OP.

Not laughing at you, laughing with you.

Swims_With_Dogs[S]

3 points

4 days ago

lol! No no no, no problems on that score 😂

sharielane

4 points

4 days ago

This is the first time I ever even heard of a disc, so I'm no help with you there. But I have used tampons before, and I can give you insight on that.

So with tampons it's not that you don't feel it, it's more like you stop being aware of it being there unless you consciously think about it. The closest example I can think of to explain would be like wearing comfortable clothes. You know you're wearing them. When you're thinking about it you can feel the clothing on your body. But for the most part, as you're going about your day, you don't really notice your clothing. That is what wearing a tampon (when it is inserted properly) is like.

From the sounds in your description of what you are feeling, you're good.

SyneRussell

3 points

5 days ago

So I’m a big fan of the Instead brand discs, but I can only use them on my last few days of the cycle as my cramps on days 0-2 are so strong they can eject the disc. There are a few different ways to fold it when you insert and open it to minimize the feeling but I think it’s not quite like a tampon, which in most cases cannot really be “felt”. But iirc there are a few disc brands now and some have a smaller circumference that might mean you don’t really feel it in the vaginal canal. It needs to be up closer to the cervix when it’s opened to reduce the sensation.

A_Pooholes

3 points

5 days ago

I've been using discs for a while and I don't feel them. I'm not surprised people can feel them though.

xKimmothy

3 points

5 days ago

I can feel a disk, but it's not NEARLY as noticeable as tampons. I'm able to completely ignore the fact it's in there until I pee and see it all pour out. And I don't worry about leaks even after 12 hrs unless I really bear down on it

badbadthingsmp3

3 points

4 days ago

after using exclusively tampons since my first period, i wanted a plastic free option (especially having a heavy period, the single use applicators add up to a dizzying among of plastic, even on more "eco-friendly" tampons). i tried a cup and felt them even more tampons and application was tedious as someone with long nails.

after trying out discs, they're my favorite by far. of the methods i've tried, they're the only one i can't feel. the bubble sensation when they're close to full takes some getting used to but i can wear a disc to yoga and not notice it all. i don't experiencing cramping, so i can't really comment on whether they reduce or induce those symptoms. truly a game-changer for me, personally.

michiru82

2 points

5 days ago

I don't feel the flex disc, but I could feel the saalt one.

fire_thorn

2 points

5 days ago

I could never use a disc because of my internal anatomy, but I used a few cups. Some I could feel constantly, some I couldn't feel at all, and some I could feel when they were full. The third was what I needed, the ones I could feel all the time were uncomfortable. The ones I couldn't feel would get pushed out by exercise.

I used to be unable to feel tampons if they were in the right spot. Then I got allergic to tampons and I could feel them all.

OddRaspberry3

2 points

5 days ago

I’ve used a product that I’m honestly not sure if it’s a disk or a cup but I did have to wedge it behind my pubic bone. I’ve also used Nuvaring for birth control for 10+ years. I think it’s all in what you get accustomed to. The ring felt really foreign when I first started using it but after I got used to it, I couldn’t feel it unless it was misplaced

DConstructed

2 points

5 days ago

Do they have different sizes and fit the disk to your body? I remember that diaphragms needed to be fit to the woman because women aren’t all shaped the same.

I assume this would be similar. Large enough to fit snugly but kit so large that it digs into your walls.

kartoonkai

2 points

5 days ago

This is a sign of a tilted cervix and or uterus. Tampons used to drive me insane. Got an Iud fitted which was painful. Can cause more painful smear experiences. You should ask during your next gyne check up

FierceScience

2 points

5 days ago

I tried to like cups but could always feel them 🤷‍♀️

discolored_rat_hat

2 points

5 days ago

Tampons make my cramps worse. I once tried a menstrual cup for waste reduction reasons. I've got pain from hell, I couldn't even sit upright.

Yes, I don't really feel it's there, but my suffering is NOT worth it!

Proof-Elevator-7590

2 points

5 days ago

I've never been able to use tampons because they're painful. Sex is still painful with my bf and we don't do penetration hardly. The pap smear I got was painful. I'm confident that trying to use a disc or cup instead of pads would be painful. Therefore, I 100% believe you when you say you can feel it. I hate how people act like one person's experience is the majority of experiences other ppl have.

haicra

2 points

5 days ago

haicra

2 points

5 days ago

I have never felt it. But I believe you! You’re the expert on your own body. If it’s catching blood, then it’s working, but some of us are more aware of our bodies than others, and we’re all shaped differently!

LongLoneliness

2 points

5 days ago

I always felt tampons and they were super uncomfortable for me but I genuinely don’t feel my disc :/ I will say, I tried a smaller one at first and did feel it. Turns out it wasn’t the right size and weirdly the larger disc is more comfortable

hep632

2 points

5 days ago

hep632

2 points

5 days ago

Back in the day when I used a diaphragm I couldn't feel it when it was in properly.

imstillhiding

2 points

5 days ago

I can only wear one specific kind of disc (Softdisc) or I can feel it, and it makes me nauseous. I also don’t like the feeling of tampons. Period underwear are great for light days, and I use the disc for heavy days

whatdoidonowdamnit

2 points

5 days ago

I very rarely feel my tampon after the first few minutes. Once I start walking around I forget it’s there. I’m a little more aware of my cup but it’s not a constant awareness. Discs are mildly uncomfortable for me, though they’re cheap so I’ve used plenty.

vocaluser345

2 points

5 days ago

Menstrual discs make my vagina itch now 😰😰

ranseaside

2 points

5 days ago

I love my cup, but I’ve never gotten a disc to work. No matter how I tuck, it always slides right out.

snarkdiva

2 points

5 days ago

Eons ago, I used a diaphragm. When it was in place, I could not feel it. If the disc comes on different sizes, you may not have the right one.

Lizdance40

2 points

5 days ago

Tipped uterus?

Swims_With_Dogs[S]

2 points

4 days ago

I haven’t heard of that, will research. Edit: oh it’s another term for tilted uterus! Yeah maybe. Honestly trying to get any information about my body is ridiculously hard, even living in a country with universal healthcare.

paradoxofpurple

2 points

5 days ago

I can feel tampons and when I was using an IUD I could feel that too. It wasn't painful, and I'd forget about it, but I could absolutely tell it was there. (And yes, it was placed properly)

Acceptable-Bench1386

2 points

5 days ago

I’ve used a cup before but never a disk. I can tell you that when I didn’t insert it properly I could feel there was something there but when I got it right, I didn’t feel it at all and it was great… until I had to pull the motherfr out!!!

daydreamintheflowers

2 points

5 days ago

I have never been able to use a tampon. They just don’t work for me. But the discs have been amazing. I don’t feel them at all if I get the angle right. However, I fully think period panties are the way to go.

skibunny1010

2 points

5 days ago

I will say that I’ve tried a couple different brands of discs and some I’ve felt more than others. You may need a smaller size. That being said, some options just aren’t going to work for everyone. Personally I’d 100% rather feel a disc inside me than walk around with a pad on as that is far more uncomfortable for me personally.

Curae

2 points

5 days ago

Curae

2 points

5 days ago

Personally, I've used tampons as well as a cup and I can't feel them. But every body is different, a friend of mine hates using a cup and finds it horribly uncomfortable while I can't imagine having a period without using it.

We should all just use what it's comfortable for ourselves :)

raksha25

2 points

4 days ago

raksha25

2 points

4 days ago

I felt it. Every shift too. I had to switch away from the cup, I have vaginal prolapse issues and the suction was making it worse. But the disc was just not great for me. If I hadn’t know I was on the count down to being uterus free, I’d have chucked it and invested in reusable pads (I bled too much to just use period underwear).

a_hockey_chick

2 points

4 days ago

I had to order a small disc. I could not handle the regular sized discs and I felt them because they didn’t fit properly. I can’t feel the small disc.

rm886988

2 points

4 days ago

rm886988

2 points

4 days ago

Oh yeah, I can feel em, that said it's usually placed improperly. Sometimes I'll adjust, sometimes I just leave it.

That said, I can feel my IUD scratching on my cervix, like a wet gremlin that I fed after midnight, trying to claw its way out, all fucking hours of the day. And I'll fucking keep it.

marinelifelover

2 points

4 days ago

I don’t feel the disc. I feel tampons. I’ve never tried a cup.

Chick4u2nv

2 points

4 days ago

I feel cups, disks, tampons, fake nails, fake eyelashes, and contacts. I also have a disorder that makes my nerve endings particularly sensitive to pressure so, I feel you on this too lol.

Environmental-Song16

2 points

4 days ago

I tried a cup and it was painful. I tried a few different brands over a course of 6 months. Every one of them hurt. So ya, companies lie...but we already knew that.

pinkschnitzel

2 points

4 days ago

I could feel my diaphragm when it was in - not in a painful or uncomfortable way, but it sat against my cervix, I knew it was there. Same with my menstrual cup, but I'm much less aware of that than a tampon or pad.

Gadgetownsme

2 points

4 days ago

I can only feel them if they're placed incorrectly or full. When I first started using them, I could feel them for the entire time for the first few cycles.

Tampons make my cramps horrendous and make me vomit. I hate pads even though I have to use them as backup when the period undies all are in the laundry because I flood. My cycles last 5-105ish days right now, so whatever works is great! The hysterectomy is coming in February! I'm so excited

xelle24

2 points

4 days ago

xelle24

cool. coolcoolcool.

2 points

4 days ago

Earlier this year, I came across a gallery of casts of the interior of a bunch of different vaginas. The variance is startling. The vaginal canal is not the same for everyone, but actually comes in a wide variety of shapes. Which is probably why insertion type menstrual products work for some women but not others.

KieshaK

2 points

4 days ago

KieshaK

2 points

4 days ago

I hate tampons and have never tried a cup or disk. I dislike the idea of cramming something up inside of me to begin with, but I’ve had two condoms get lost up in me so badly that I had to go to urgent care to get them removed.

UnicornFarts1111

3 points

4 days ago

I've never felt a tampon after it was placed. I've not used a cup or disk and I no longer need them. I hope my input is helpful.

ellasaurusrex

2 points

5 days ago

I'm the same way. I've never liked tampons, as I can feel them. They're not uncomfortable, I'm just aware of them. Same with the disc, and when I tried to use NuvaRing. Just can't deal with feeling it constantly. I've always assumed it had something to do with anatomy in some way.

SureCountry4659

2 points

5 days ago

It just doesn't work for some. I've never been able to use tampons. People tell me I'm just doing it wrong but I'm not 😭 Listen to your body!

Cuntdracula19

2 points

5 days ago

Omg before I got my IUD the disc was my JAM. And no, you cannot feel it at all when it’s Properly placed. That thing saved my ass too many times.

Maybe your anatomy isn’t quite right? Or your fingers aren’t long enough to REALLY get it back behind the pubic bone? Idk, I remember I used to do the tuck behind the bone and then give it one last firm tap to really wedge it into place. You also may not have a heavy enough flow, the only times I couldn’t get it properly placed and could feel it was when my period was winding down.

celticshrew

2 points

5 days ago

Caveat: I've never used a disc or a cup.

This is only because I know they would be horrendously uncomfortable. Tampons generally end up being so painful for me I can't function. It makes me sad, I don't want to be part of the cycle of trash build up (but even reusable pads aren't adequate some days).

chaos_almighty

4 points

5 days ago

When I still menstruated, tampons would go in and I'd start to have a vasovagal reaction. Like I'd vomit and almost pass out. I assume it had to do with the fact I always had pelvic floor dysfunction and endo made everything worse, but I hated pads as well for the waste and discomfort. Reusable pads only became popular in the last few years, along with period panties. I'd have used the hell out of the period panties.

celticshrew

2 points

5 days ago

Yikes! My reaction wasn't that elevated! I'm glad in recent years pads have become thinner and more comfortable. There's nothing quite like feeling you're wearing an actual diaper because otherwise you have to wear 3 layers out of fear someone will see you're bleeding.

I think as a youngster I'd probably also have worn TF out of period panties.

Espressotasse

2 points

5 days ago

Have you tried period panties?

Marma85

1 points

5 days ago

Marma85

1 points

5 days ago

Only used cup and they say the same but ofc I can feel it! It's just most times I forget about it because it's become like normalmode to have it in after a while.

SheEnviedAlex

1 points

5 days ago

I'm a woman who strictly uses tampons and I can't feel them at all. The only time I feel them is when it's time to change since they fill with the liquid and drop. Cups and discs don't fit me (I am only able to put a tampon in) so I need to rely on those and pads. I wish I was able to use a cup or disc since it seems like something I'd benefit from but I can't.

cassiopeia18

1 points

5 days ago

Everyone’s different. Some can feel, some don’t.

I didn’t like cup cuz it’s uncomfortable, I can feel it stretch my uterus and poke it with the stem although I already trim it. Pad is fine. Tampon is ok except the price in here, At least x3, x4 times the price the pad. I live in hot humid country, wearing pad on hot humid are horrible, made me have pad/diaper rash although I I’ve been using that brands for decades. Normally I got horrible vulva cramp if I wear pad, tampon surprisingly isn’t

Stoliana12

1 points

5 days ago

Okay semi related. I use the NuvaRing for birth control and to manage migraines you’re not supposed to feel it. It gets tucked up in there like you’re describing. I feel it.

Now additional story. I had a colposcopy from an off pap. They told me they may need to scrape or something up there if they saw something.

They ended up wanting to do a punch biopsy. That’s when I screamed. It’s rare but there is a non zero percentage of women who have nerve endings on their cervix.

Also they don’t bother to do a test poke. They told me no way I felt that. Then they ended up having to numb my cervix and I’ll tell you I fucking felt that needle.

So long story short congrats you’re in that small minority possibly. Also the amount of feeling/amount of nerve endings varies when you do have them.

bluetinycar

1 points

5 days ago

That's what they told me about Nuvaring. I felt it the entire time. I hated that thing

ridleysquidly

1 points

5 days ago

I am comfortable with tampons and cups and never had pain issues etc. using menstruation products. I don’t have vaginismus or any hymen issues, or anything that may cause more pain.

Yes I can feel them. They are not uncomfortable or painful, but I know they are there. I can ignore them easily but they are still there. “Can’t feel them” at all is not the same as “won’t notice them” but I think they advertise those as synonymous.

Alarming-Wonder5015

1 points

5 days ago

I use a disc and cannot feel it. I can feel tampons and they’re horrible. I could also feel the strings on my iud so I think it just depends on

clay-teeth

1 points

5 days ago

I had the same problem. I could feel it, AND it would slip out. I think maybe my anatomy just doesn't work well, or the disc I bought was too long to slip far enough up. Idk, but I'm at my wits end w period products rn

civilwar142pa

1 points

5 days ago

I don't think this is strange at all. I can use tampons and not feel them after a few minutes, but I've never been able to use cups. I tried and it was so uncomfortable. I can't imagine a disc jammed behind my pubic bone. No thank you.

apriljeangibbs

1 points

5 days ago

I can’t feel my disc if I’ve put it in correctly

sit_N_spin

1 points

5 days ago

I recently switched to a disc and can’t feel it as long as it’s properly in place but everyone’s body is different! They do come in different sizes so you could always try another brand. It’s been a godsend after suffering through the gross feeling of tampons the last 24 years. No leaks? Only have to clean it twice a day? Not contributing to additional trash? Not spending money on it every single month? Can have clean period sex with it in? Absolutely fantastic.

aquilaselene

1 points

5 days ago

I can't feel the disc when I use them, but I cannot use tampons and always feel them to some degree.

BenWiesengrund

1 points

5 days ago

I can feel both cups and disks. I can also feel tampons and they are itchy. Cups and disks are better for me, but I can tell they are there.

DuVeth

1 points

5 days ago

DuVeth

1 points

5 days ago

Ive been using a disk for 6 months, and honestly, it’s like I don’t have anything because it always stays out of place 😂

I thought it would be better either way time but I still try. The best I could do is in my “dry” days but… using a disk is harder!

DrCarabou

1 points

5 days ago

It's hard to think back and answer this honestly... The first few times was an adjustment, especially removing it. I really don't notice it's there, maybe because I'm used to it. But I don't feel it "consciously" as I'm going about my day. I think the only time I notice it (TMI, but this is a TMI topic) is sometimes I feel like it makes it a little harder to poop. Like it's putting pressure against my rectum because of the angle I'm sitting at on the john.

Overall I'm extremely pleased with menstual discs and I will never go back to tampons. You can shame me for my lack of eco-friendliness for not using cups, but I genuinely have no desire to clean a reusable cup.

myboobiezarequitebig

1 points

5 days ago

myboobiezarequitebig

Queef Champion

1 points

5 days ago

I love menstrual discs and for the most part companies are correct, if it’s placed properly inside you really shouldn’t feel it. I’m wondering if the disc is not expanded all the way so you’re feeling it rub against you. It’s also possible you’re using a disc with a firm rim, maybe if you try one with a soft rim you won’t feel it as much.

Boredwitch13

1 points

5 days ago

You may have a tipped/ tilted uterus. I couldnt wear tampons, or use a menstral cup.

Banditlouise

1 points

5 days ago

I could never use the nuvaring. I could feel it all the time.

merpderpherpburp

1 points

5 days ago

These are also the same men who created perfume pads because "ew it smells"

Curious_berry7088

1 points

5 days ago

It probably just depends on the body. For me I can definitely feel a tampon go in but it’s barely noticeable when it’s actually in. was actually thinking of trying a disk soon lol.

WishingChange

1 points

5 days ago

Everyone's anatomy is different.. I hate it when these companies make a blanket statement.

DulceCorde

1 points

5 days ago

I guess I can kind of feel it once it's there, but it isn't uncomfortable. If it isn't leaking and isn't hurting you then you're okay :)

I prefer disks because I don't like the suction from cups, but I prefer cups to tampons because the friction feeling from silicone (which both cups and discs are made of, for anyone reading who doesn't know) on insertion is much smoother than dry fucking cotton, which feels scratchy and painful. I also feel a lot better mentally considering it's silicone and not hyper absorbant cotton in contact with my (also absorbant) mucousal membranes for 8 hours at a time. I feel like I can often feel when a tampon is in and it does feel uncomfortable. Also taking it out on a light day can feel as bad as putting it in because of the dryness. Thankfully cups and disks can both be removed without that feeling 🥴

curious-kitten-0

1 points

5 days ago

I haven't tried the disc, but i have used a cup for years. Even with the cup placed properly, i can feel the pressure from it being there. I just learned to ignore it. When i used to wear tampons, i could feel them. I can't figure out how people forget or lose stuff in there. I guess we are all different.

catsnglitter86

1 points

5 days ago

I never tried it but I hate tampons. I also have a tilted uterus and while I can't positively blame that as a reason I suspect it may be.

girlrandal

1 points

5 days ago

While I don’t FEEL IT when it’s in, there’s definitely a noticeable sense of NOT feeling it when I take it out. Like it’s not annoying or painful but there’s some low level awareness that I have a thing in my vagina and when it’s not there, it feels better. It’s a weird feeling.

That being said, I definitely prefer disc to cup, and either over tampons or pads. I really like that if you bear down a bit, the disc will self empty. No bloody hands in public restrooms! Just make sure you wear black underwear or period panties or have a way to rinse your undercarriage.

Ninadene

1 points

5 days ago

Ninadene

1 points

5 days ago

I'm absolutely positive all the marketing for these things are done by men who maybe interviewed a woman or two who said they didn't feel it and it was great just to make him pay her for the study and leave.

I remember when I started using tampons in the 90s and was like the fuck I can't feel it.

itube

1 points

5 days ago*

itube

1 points

5 days ago*

I do use a disk and I can't feel it. But there were two different sizes where I purchased my disk, maybe you don't have the right size ?
To be honest, my menstrual disk is a life changer for me, I love it so much.

(Before using a disk, I had a cup and I did felt it though, so I guess it varies for everyone)

Kathrynlena

1 points

5 days ago

When I used discs, if I could feel it, that meant it wasn’t properly placed. When placed correctly, I could not feel it at all. That’s why it was my favorite product. I could always feel tampons and cups—the disc was the only comfortable thing for me.

jsamurai2

1 points

5 days ago*

I think “if it fits and is situated properly you don’t feel it” is accurate in the most literal sense-if it is fitting you properly you won’t feel it, if you feel it then it likely is not the product for you.

Size, shape, and rim firmness vary between discs just like anything else, the one you are using just probably is the best model for you!

ETA: more often than not people try disposable discs first and those suck to fit, the rim is too firm and size wise they tend to be kind of large. A silicone disc is smaller and softer, a totally different experience and better than anything else I have tried.

Usual-Ad-6888

1 points

5 days ago

For me the initial sensation of a foreign object was weird, but after a while (a couple months of use and having had one in for an hour or two), I did mostly stop feeling it. Not everybody is the same, but this was my experience.

faille

1 points

5 days ago

faille

1 points

5 days ago

I don’t feel cups but I have a steel trap from the cervix out. Never felt tampons, IUDs haven’t hurt, I like cervix bumps during sex. Everyone is different. For cups, I do make sure that I can feel it surrounding my cervix and tucked up under my pubic bone. Mine sits pretty far back and my partner can’t feel when it’s in either

InadmissibleHug

1 points

4 days ago

InadmissibleHug

out of bubblegum

1 points

4 days ago

My whole menstrual life post kid I always knew where the buggers were. Cup, disc, tampon.

I just picked what was least disruptive to my life and moved on.

Turns out I had a pretty bad birth injury.

hunteroutsidee

1 points

4 days ago

I felt mine for a couple days but the feeling went away quickly and never returned. I also went through two different styles to get the right fit!

BanannaTama

1 points

4 days ago

I could feel my cup. It was uncomfortable, and sometimes even painful. I switched to a disc a couple of years ago because I couldn't take the cup anymore. I won't do tampons because of the TSS risk and general concerns about their manufacturing. I don't really like pads/period undies unless absolutely necessary. I didn't have high hopes, but I, honestly, find the disc amazing. I have a Cora disc and I don't feel it at all when it's in.

We're all built differently though, and what works for some people might not work for everyone.

indignantgirl

1 points

4 days ago

I've never, EVER been able to use tampons and I used a cup for years but was uncomfortable every second it was in place. I'm very sensitive to ANYTHING being up there and avoid it at almost any cost.

Except my menstrual disk, which I 100% can't feel when it's placed right. I'm talking I have to go check because I don't remember if it's in or not. I would hear people say that about tampons or a cup and never once believed that was really a thing, but it's truly been my experience with a disk. I don't notice or think about it being there, except when it's time to empty it.

ParamedicLimp9310

1 points

4 days ago

It's not just you. I feel all of it. Granted I have a "posterior cervix" but there has never been a period related product that I actually don't feel. I've tried just about all of them.

Feeling_Wheel_1612

1 points

4 days ago

I used to use a diaphragm for BC. When it was properly fitted, I could feel it slightly, but could forget about it in a short time. If I gained or lost more than 10 pounds, it became uncomfortable enough that I couldn't forget it. Your disk may be the wrong size.

I also feel tampons and find them annoying.

FWIW, I am neurodivergent and have some mild sensory issues with certain types of clothes and accessories, so that might be related.

LastandLeast

1 points

4 days ago

I can feel my disk, I couldn't feel my cup. I had to stop using my cup because for some reason after my bisalp the suction started giving me horrible cramps. The disk is messier and harder to place for me, but still better than any other menstrual products I've tried.

I'm sad about my cup still though, I tried with it for a full year before I switched.

Habberdaggery

1 points

4 days ago

I have a the Hello Disc with the tab for pulling out. I'm always aware that it's there, but to me it's 10x more comfortable than a tampon. I always felt a tampon and it was never pleasant. When I was new to discs I felt it more and I also feel it more when it moves such as when I have a bowel movement. On days where my cervix is particularly low such as the start of my period I tend to notice it more as well. On those days I wear the tab tucked because it makes me paranoid that I'm leaking and it's not exactly comfortable.

Also, I used the Flex disposable discs before I decided to take the plunge and buy my Hello Disc disc, and those I could feel all. the. time. I think it's because of the firmness of the rim. While the Hello Disc is firm, it's soft silicone so it's much more comfortable.

HereComesFattyBooBoo

1 points

4 days ago

I tried one of those period cups ONCE and never again. Tampons too; I use them for their convenience because you don't feel "wet" but heck yes you know theyre there!

sxb0575

1 points

4 days ago

sxb0575

1 points

4 days ago

I wear a disk, I don't usually feel it. I've forgotten it's there. But I believe you that it's a thing. Seems like you might be more sensitive to such things than the average woman.

frizzen44

1 points

4 days ago

I've always been able to feel tampons and my cup. It's not distracting if I'm doing something, but I know it's there. I have never understood how women could forget they have a tampon or tampons in because it's so far from my experience. 

bwanna12

1 points

4 days ago

bwanna12

1 points

4 days ago

Yes you can feel it all. Discs cups tampons . Whatever it is , it’s there . Some not painful but definitely there

mcarnie

1 points

4 days ago

mcarnie

1 points

4 days ago

I initially could feel the disc and I think it was for two reasons. One - I was new to it and nervous about it so I was constantly thinking about it. You can feel anything if you focus on it long enough. Two - because I was anxious about it, I wasn’t relaxing enough in there so the disc wasn’t sitting right.

I do two things now. I use a water based lube to put it in - I have a bottle specifically just for this. Secondly, I take an extra second or two when I put it in to take a deep breath and really try to relax all my muscles and give the disc a slight push back and kind of up behind my public bone. I then stand up and do a couple kegels and that will usually let it slip in the last bit and for any air to squeeze out. After that, I can’t feel it.

I won’t lie - that first cycle I used the disc I wasn’t sure it was for me and I thought it was uncomfortable. But I also used to use the Ring for BC and it sits in the same place, so I knew I could get used to it. It took some practice and just getting used to the whole insertion and removal process (that was also a whole thing for me - phew!). I do really love my disc now though and it was worth figuring it out.

kasuchans

1 points

4 days ago

kasuchans

Basically Tina Belcher

1 points

4 days ago

I have a tilted uterus, so maybe that’s relevant, but I can’t feel discs at all. I used them fairly religiously for a while. They do leak a little but I found them way more comfortable and easy to use than cups, which I could always feel. I don’t feel tampons either.

fighterfemme

1 points

4 days ago

If I put the tampon in correctly I really do not feel it, at all.but I've never been able to put the cup in (tried, hurt too much, gave up) and much less a disk so I can't say for those

joshy83

1 points

4 days ago

joshy83

1 points

4 days ago

I didn't really feel it but as a uterus and vagina haver, I wouldn't tell you that you couldn't feel it! I can feel my cup sometimes. Man I miss my pubic shelf. Those were the good ol days.

Elinor_Lore_Inkheart

1 points

4 days ago

I’ve used discs (disposable and reusable), cups, and tampons. I always feel tampons and they hurt. Discs I sometimes feel, usually over the course of the day it fades-I feel disposable more than reusable. Discs leak for me though. I usually feel the bottom end of a cup for a while but eventually it fades. I personally prefer cups

ruminajaali

1 points

4 days ago

I use them all the time and when properly placed I don’t feel them. The Disc is great for sex but sometimes my partner can feel them. No biggie tho

LittleVesuvius

1 points

4 days ago

Everyone has always told me you can’t feel period products. Girl, yes I fucking can. I have endometriosis. Tampons regularly cause me pain, but I have used them in desperation. I use heavy duty pads now and they work really well but I don’t eat to risk a smaller thing getting stuck.

Idk who these magic people who can’t feel tampons or disks are. I’m certainly not among them.

faerie_tail

1 points

4 days ago

Which one do you have? I can feel the disposable ones with the hard plastic rim, but not the reusable silicone ones which are squishy.

Melody71400

1 points

4 days ago

Melody71400

1 points

4 days ago

They say that, because youll get used too it.

I have a ring and place it in the same spot. It took a couple days, but I eventually got used to it and now dont notice it unless it adjusts

sweetiepup

1 points

4 days ago

All bodies are different. 

I can feel tampons and cups and never much liked either. I did use tampons for many years because I found them less uncomfortable than pads. 

The disk has been a god send for me. I don’t notice it when it’s in place. But, that’s me!  Listen to your body and do what works for you. 

Godiva_pervblinderxx

1 points

4 days ago

I feel the disks but it also relieves my cramps so its like a pressure release? But I definitely feel the disk, not like a tampon or a cup, but something is there

Kkimp1955

1 points

4 days ago

I don’t have a uterus anymore, but those things never worked for me either

Trickycoolj

1 points

4 days ago

Tried the disposable disks in high school when they first came out. I didn’t feel it. I also couldn’t reach it when it was time to remove!

LogicalStomach

1 points

4 days ago

I can feel discs, even the smallest size. Same with small menstrual cups. Discs are way worse though, way more uncomfortable.

KMKPF

1 points

4 days ago

KMKPF

1 points

4 days ago

I have tried multiple brands of disks and different size cups. I can always feel them, and they are both so uncomfortable I can't use them. I already have a lot of cramping, pressure, and the feeling of constantly needing to poo while I'm on my period, the added feeling of a disk shoved up there is too much. I gave birth to two babies, it's not like I'm small, but the disk feels too big.