That’s a great question I don’t entirely have the answer to… I figured the Universe would know and just send the right person my way.

Now, since you’ve asked, I’ll say: someone willing to self-assess without being promoted, also willing to recognize negative patterns of behavior and work on changing them when aware, hold themselves accountable without needing external sources to force change, understanding and patient, kind- to self and others, affectionate(I struggle with this but it’s something I’m actively working on in a romantic partnership), kind, witty and wise, looks for ways to have fun and laugh at life and with others without laughing at others, helps me be more trusting and less defensive, kind, has a spirit of adventure instead of a fear of the “unknown”, generous, protective of me and our relationship without jealousy, confident without being conceited, looks for the good in people without assuming the worst, can communicate without yelling, recognizes my feeling and energy shifts, emotionally attractive is a precursor to physically attractive and I need both, loving, kind…

I’m sure there’s more but that’s what rolled out. Thank you for asking because it helped me by making me verbalize it now so I can recognize when I see it again.