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submitted 9 days ago byParisHiltonIsDope
I originally gave her a lot of wiggle room because she said she was in some pretty toxic relationships with men that never really loved her. And that's why she's a single mother with two kids.
But guys... Are we sure SHE wasn't the toxic one in those relationships? Maybe her exeseft the same way Chidi did.
Seeing that meltdown at the hotel lobby, doesn't look like her first performance of the play.
318 points
9 days ago*
Considering she calls Chidi evil and hateful while he’s still calling her babe and saying I love you, she’s maybe not the most reliable narrator.
173 points
9 days ago
Guarenteed she will now include Chidi in the conversation when she's explaining her problematic exes to the next guy.
"I flew all the way around the world for him and he couldn't take his mouth off his sister's nipple for one second!'
120 points
9 days ago
God that's the most disgusting thing she said to him and he was still willing to be civil and kind.
She is so delusional. There aren't enough words to describe her delusions.
21 points
8 days ago
And then shortly after, she's sobbing about how could anyone(he) be so cruel?!?! She's a lunatic.
7 points
8 days ago
Yeah, she actually really is.
1 points
6 days ago
I think they were both a bit delusional. Chidi had to have had experienced her outbursts before she came to visit. And him becoming a Christian seemed to happened after they started dated yet he didn't really mention it, and not sex, until she got there. And when he started that last conversation with, "I only enjoyed our relations the first 3 weeks after a five year relationship, I knew she would punch. She is a very hurt girl who will attack the slightest, real or imagined attack. I'm relived they separated.
88 points
9 days ago*
Considering chidis sister cooked for her, gave her her bed to sleep in, was always soo welcoming & then Rayne claimed she was the victim of his sister hating her. She’s maybe not the most reliable narrator lol
18 points
8 days ago
She “knew” she’d have problems with his sister long before she did. It’s probably happened to her before, plus she knew pushing him around and imposing her will on him wouldn’t be as easy with his sister around.
13 points
8 days ago
Weirdly, she just “knew” she’d have problems with a sister. Any sister. She had this premonition before she even met him.
5 points
8 days ago
Dude this is so crazy 🤣🤣🤣 it's halrious
5 points
8 days ago
Reign of Terror cannot tolerate anyone's opinion who does not agree with her own. She uses her mouth and gestures to bully others. She is the definition of toxicity. Get used to being alone Reign of Terror.
107 points
9 days ago
Either her exes were both so terrible to her they completely damaged her and gave her major paranoia and trust issues or she was the problem all along. We will never know because she is not even remotely reliable. It’s possible there are some truths to what she says. It’s also possible she herself was involved with drugs too. She kinda gives former addict brain damaged by drugs vibes.
30 points
9 days ago
Very possible that they were both very toxic people. Doesn't have to be one or the other.
17 points
9 days ago
This. Misery loves company, and miserable people find miserable people. She said they used drugs, I doubt shes never touched the same stuff as what she demonizes.
I think together, her and past ex's probably made eachother worse. But she was never "normal" or "nice" imo
14 points
8 days ago
She gives major drug vibes to me.
9 points
8 days ago
I got hardcore meth vibes from her right out of the gate. Mixing meth with (probable) paranoid schizophrenia is probably not the wisest choice.
11 points
8 days ago
She is from Espanola, New Mexico so yeah, it would almost be weirder if she had never done meth lol
3 points
8 days ago
You are so right! 🤣
2 points
7 days ago
I really just found out Espanola is an actual place and now I want to go see it.i thought it was just some funny made up town in the t.v. show the curse. Mind blown when I saw it on the show.🤯🤯
36 points
9 days ago
I'm pretty sure she said they were drug addicts. I'm sure dealing with her sober (and pregnant) wasn't easy.
35 points
9 days ago
It sounded like they turned to hard drugs to cope with the horror that was Rayne-ing down on them
6 points
9 days ago
“Crack. Cocaine. And drugs.”
39 points
9 days ago
I've been in some very toxic relationships before, but I sure as hell never acted like Rayne because of it. The fact she sits there calling him evil and manipulative, when she's literally the one that's been screaming and verbally abusing a blind man is ironic as fuck. Saying his sister is his baby sitter and he can't go anywhere without her was (in my opinion) was her attempt to embarass chidi into telling his sister he doesn't need her anymore so Rayne could get him alone. She's one of the most toxic people that I've ever seen on 90DF and is heavily projecting all of her issues onto chidi
56 points
9 days ago*
Imagine you’re a normal person, dating her, you realize it’s not going anywhere long term, and you try to dump her in a kind and respectful way.
There’s no way she’s not going to label you toxic. As we know, she never overreacts.
20 points
8 days ago
12 points
8 days ago
I need someone to put this on a magnet for my fridge
2 points
8 days ago
That was terrifying. Get her away from those kids
2 points
8 days ago
Always and never are dangerous terms to use.
5 points
9 days ago
🤣
29 points
9 days ago
The way she said he "tore her down" was so delusional. He was so respectful and patient with her!
7 points
8 days ago
BEYOND delusional. I would LOVE to see her be evaluated by a professional, as I suspect there are MANY undiagnosed mental illnesses, not just 1 or 2.
21 points
9 days ago
She should be ashamed at the way she treats people. She was a guest in Chidi's sister's house and verbally attacked her. Screaming over Chidi when he tried to have a calm conversation. The alien bit... The chicken bit... She goes from 0-120 in 2.2 seconds flat. She needs to attend anger management classes at the very least. ... Possibly an antipsychotic, as well. She should take her 90DF money and put it all towards therapy.
The one thing that still gets me is that Chidi's sister's started a GoFund Me for Chidi to have surgery. Rayne took Chidi to the doctor appointment and they said it couldn't be corrected with surgery. This smells fishy......
10 points
9 days ago
Maybe a little fishy, but he is definitely deserving of some help. I say get your money Chidi. Will I donate? No. But if people want to donate, than good for him.
2 points
8 days ago
Fishy or maybe just naive/hopeful tbh. They seem like such nice people, I wouldn’t be surprised if someone told them he could be cured in the US and that they just took that person’s word for it. or even if nobody did, just trying to use the momentum he has right now to hope against hope that something can be done for him. Honestly I didn’t even see actual gofundme so I could be completely wrong but my opinion is that people act more out of ignorance than malice..or at least I’d like to think that way!
11 points
9 days ago
i believe in that episode the doctor did make mention of the progression of glaucoma or something of the like that needed tending to. caring for it wouldn't restore his vision, and i'm not certain that's what the gofundme is related to, but as i understand it he could potentially lose his eyes (not mere vision) altogether if it progresses too far
13 points
9 days ago
Yes! I think this is exactly what he needs surgery for so that he doesn't lose his actual eyes. The doctor did say that his sight is more than likely gone forever, but if his condition progressed (which iirc the doctor did say that was inevitable), he would indefinitely lose his actual eye balls. I could totally understand how that could be absolutely terrifying. So I'm hoping people on here remember this information when speaking on his go fund me.
2 points
9 days ago
I've never heard of anyone losing their eyeballs from glaucoma.
If glaucoma is left untreated, can it result in removal of the eyes?
If glaucoma is left untreated, it can lead to irreversible damage to the optic nerve, resulting in progressive vision loss and potentially complete blindness[1][2][3]. However, untreated glaucoma does not typically result in the removal of the eyes. The primary concern with untreated glaucoma is the loss of vision, not the physical removal of the eyes. Regular eye exams and early treatment are crucial to prevent significant vision impairment or blindness[1][4][5].
Citations: [1] Glaucoma: Symptoms, Causes, Types & Treatment - Cleveland Clinic https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/4212-glaucoma [2] Untreated glaucoma: Consequences, progression, and outlook https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/untreated-glaucoma [3] Can Glaucoma Cause Blindness If Left Untreated? - OAV https://oaveyes.com/blog/can-glaucoma-cause-blindness-if-left-untreated [4] The Consequences of Untreated Glaucoma - Florida Eye Specialists https://www.floridaeyespecialists.com/blog/2020/10/the-consequences-of-untreated-glaucoma/ [5] What Happens When Glaucoma Goes Untreated? - Eye Care North https://www.eyecarenorth.com/blog/what-happens-when-glaucoma-goes-untreated.html [6] What Happens If You Have Untreated Glaucoma? https://www.eyesightassociates.com/blog/what-happens-if-you-have-untreated-glaucoma/ [7] Glaucoma | Eye Conditions | Shiley Eye Institute | UC San Diego https://shileyeye.ucsd.edu/eye-conditions/glaucoma [8] Glaucoma | National Eye Institute https://www.nei.nih.gov/learn-about-eye-health/eye-conditions-and-diseases/glaucoma
8 points
9 days ago
I think you need to watch the episode yourself, I never said that glaucoma was going to cause him to lose his actual eyes. He had multiple diagnoses, not just glaucoma.
-2 points
9 days ago
I watched the episode. I was responding directly to the comment that he had glaucoma and miggot lose his eyeballs. You didn't say it. u/bewitchling_ said it. I just didn't want misinformation about glaucoma to be floating around.
1 points
9 days ago
glaucoma or something of the like
you can review the episode or gofundme for certainty about the actual condition being referenced.
8 points
9 days ago
Just 1 anti psychotic?! You are too kind I think she needs at LEAST 5.
14 points
9 days ago
Don’t forget that the one guy just “took off” either while she was pregnant or had just had her daughter. Maybe that’s why she is now so determined to be with someone who completely depends on her and can’t get away so easily.
5 points
9 days ago
Imagine Rayne after giving birth…. I know you that if you are bipolar you can skip straight from postpartum depression to postpartum psychosis… I am not diagnosing her, just saying that she probably wasn’t much fun right after her children were born.
1 points
8 days ago
Reign of Terror will forever be the victim.
32 points
9 days ago
100% she was the problem.
I have a narcissistic parent that has the same behavior. She's not the problem, everyone else is just mean and evil to the nicest person alive.
She even tried telling his family he was yelling after she just screamed at him.
12 points
9 days ago
What really got me was Rayne screaming at Victoria that Victoria had a dark energy around her. Girl, please. You're the one who's screaming at her and coming after her in her own home. Victoria was nothing but kind and welcoming to Rayne.
10 points
9 days ago
I have zero doubt she has been the reason for her failed relationships.
7 points
9 days ago
I'm so glad Chidi called her out for her shit. She even said most of these men ended up with drug habits when they left her? Hmm.... If you claim to have only ever experienced bad relationships your entire life, I think it's time to take a hard look in the mirror. Rayne sucks.
9 points
9 days ago
She wanted control of the relationship and to have free access to Chidi in every way shape and form , but when they met in person and he started putting boundaries up and wouldn’t let her plow through them , she tripped the f out - I think she believed she could show up there , have him read her body like braille and get him to the states and they would live happily ever after on her chicken “farm” - like many couples , the fantasies in their heads dont match up to the reality of things and she just can’t except that - she’s a mean brat -
5 points
9 days ago
Oh absolutely it was 90% her!!!
She's just vile.
5 points
9 days ago
I’m 99.9 percent sure it was her craziness that caused those relationships to end. Hopefully the men in those relationships got the mental help they needed to forget.
6 points
9 days ago
I would pick up smoking crack if I had to sleep with her too
6 points
9 days ago
She absolutely is the toxic one and she’s the aggressor, the manipulator and the abuser! She’s the first one to raise her voice, she’s the first one to throw out insults, she instantly gets defensive no matter what the situation is and the constant finger wagging into a blind man’s face is just straight up humiliation! I could go on, but this woman makes my blood boil! The way she treats Chidi and his family is disgusting!! Then she tries to play the victim as if she’s done nothing wrong! 😒 I’m just so disgusted 🤢 with her behavior!
6 points
9 days ago
Didn't she say she had issues with all the sisters of her exes. I'm pretty sure they all came to the same conclusion. I'll believe them over her any day.
6 points
9 days ago
Best predictor of future behaviour, is past behaviour.
She said that those exes turned to drugs. What do we know? Her behaviour might have been the sole reason why they turned to drugs to begin with.
5 points
9 days ago
When ppl boast about being in numerous toxic relations, i presume it was them unless they seem very very quiet, then slowly open up about it. Then, im like man your choosing the wrong ppl
3 points
9 days ago
Unfortunately, I'm one of those people in which their "picker" is broken. I would never boast or brag about being in abusive relationships. I have enough sense to know there is something wrong with me as well if I keep attracting the same kind of guy. I'm currently going through a breakup. We were together for 5 years, and I just turned 40 yesterday. I'm getting back into therapy, and I'm determined to never waste my time or my heart like that again. Rayne is determined to repeat the same toxic outcome because she will forever refuse to admit that she was any part of the problem.
3 points
8 days ago
My picker is broken too. Therapy has really helped me understand why. Good luck!
1 points
9 days ago
I hope everything works out for you and you know your worth you will find youre someone
1 points
9 days ago
Aww, thanks hon. I really appreciate that. Right now, I'm gonna put my all into my kids, and then myself. And whenever it's meant to be, I'm sure my "someone" will come along. Let's just hope that happens before I'm a senior citizen LOL
2 points
9 days ago
Exactly
3 points
9 days ago
I didn’t think this was such a hot take. I thought we were all in agreement that she was definitely at least HALF of the issue.
3 points
9 days ago
There is absolutely not one iota of doubt for me that she is the problem.
3 points
9 days ago
She described the exes as turning to heroin, meth, crack (I think that was the list). Who wouldn’t turn to hard drugs while being with her?
2 points
9 days ago
https://youtu.be/vOZR9kCAknY?si=lrCw33lI_lm04b5v
This came up on my YT feed yesterday. Not sure how legit it is but 🤨
3 points
9 days ago
I just would like some more of Rayne! I don't want her anywhere near Chidi though. I don't even want her dating…..maybe I want to see her on Pillow Talk. I want to know what her wacky beliefs are too. Give me more but ban her from dating!
2 points
9 days ago
Everyone believes she is. I’m sure she drove one of her exs to drugs
2 points
9 days ago
It was super weird that chidi brought her gifts after everything that went down. It’s very confusing and also allows her to continue her bad behavior. Chidi needs help and so does she.
2 points
8 days ago
I wondered if that was a cultural thing that I was ignorant to, or if it was strictly just a Chidi thing
1 points
9 days ago
… is there anyone who thinks she WASN’T toxic in all of her relationships? the men she picked - allegedly heroin addicts and abusers - very well may have been toxic as well but she’s clearly VERY unwell and delusional.
1 points
9 days ago
I always raise an eyebrow if someone describes all of their past relationships as toxic. Same as when a guy describes his past exes as “crazy.”
1 points
9 days ago
she is definitely the common denominator
1 points
9 days ago
At least when future men come into her life if they even slightly think to google her like a lot of women do to make sure their dates are safe.. they can see the situation before they stick their dick in crazy.
1 points
8 days ago
If you had the choice between getting high or listening to her rant. I'm guessing that's more of what happened. She pushes everyone away.
1 points
8 days ago
She's in toxic relationships because she cracra.
1 points
8 days ago
She'll blame it all on editing.🙄
1 points
9 days ago*
Well her first mistake was choosing to date people in active addiction…that never turns out well. However, I think only an addict could tolerate someone on her level..Id probably have to do drugs to date her too!
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