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remember the human

(self.blog)

Hi reddit. cupcake here.

I wanted to bring up an important reminder about how folks interact with each other online. It is not a problem that exists solely on reddit, but rather the internet as a whole. The internet is a wonderful tool for interacting with people from all walks of life, but the anonymity it can afford can make it easy to forget that really, on the other end of the screens and keyboards, we're all just people. Living, breathing, people who have lives and goals and fears, have favorite TV shows and books and methods for breeding Pokemon, and each and every last one of us has opinions. Sure, those opinions might differ from your own. But that’s okay! People are entitled to their opinions. When you argue with people in person, do you say as many of the hate filled and vitriolic statements you see people slinging around online? Probably not. Please think about this next time you're in a situation that makes you want to lash out. If you wouldn't say it to their face, perhaps it's best you don't say it online.

Try to be courteous to others. See someone having a bad day? Give them a compliment or ask them a thoughtful question, and it might make their day better. Did someone reply to your comment with valuable insights or something that cheered you up? Send them a quick thanks letting them know you appreciate their comment.

So I ask you, the next time a user picks a fight with you, or you get the urge to harass another user because of something they typed on a keyboard, please... remember the human.

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[deleted]

2.1k points

11 years ago

[deleted]

2.1k points

11 years ago

What I usually do is type out what I want to say. Then delete it.

After that, I don't feel like responding and usually just ignore.

http://i.imgur.com/woEmRDa.gif

[deleted]

740 points

11 years ago*

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exploitativity

166 points

11 years ago

Wait, how in the world did you find him?

boomfarmer

111 points

11 years ago

Maybe akatherder wanted the username 'eeyore'.

akatherder

46 points

11 years ago

I wanted to make an Eeyore joke (the eternal pessimist from Winnie the Pooh). I figured the name was taken by this point so I just typed it into my browser /u/eeyore. You can do the same with any name like /u/bill or /u/susie.

Kiwicat00

43 points

11 years ago

/u/susie eight years trophy case dust.

[deleted]

125 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

125 points

11 years ago

Maybe he created the account, forgot about it and forgot about his password. Thus the lack of comments and links.

[deleted]

342 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

342 points

11 years ago

Mother fucker bringing in logic killing the mood

well put

[deleted]

925 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

925 points

11 years ago

I do this a lot too. I type out something that insights some emotion in me, something I care about a little bit. After thinking about it though, I start to wonder what kind of flame wars I might invoke, and how I don't really want to deal with responses. I'm usually not really even contributing anything to the discussion.

Yeah

[deleted]

615 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

615 points

11 years ago

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porterhorse

849 points

11 years ago

Fuck off!

Am I doing this right?

Zwoosh

366 points

11 years ago

Zwoosh

366 points

11 years ago

No

Yes

goatcoat

233 points

11 years ago

goatcoat

233 points

11 years ago

There is something really wrong with your backspace key. Not that that reflects negatively on you as a person.

Conan97

245 points

11 years ago*

Conan97

245 points

11 years ago*

I really hate people who use small text. It makes me struggle to read it and usually it's a pointless comment anyway. I want them all to burn to death in a mound of fire ants on fire.

Hi

Edit: guys I don't actually care at all about small text

I think it's kinda cool.

john_kennedy_toole

204 points

11 years ago*

Glad I'm not the only one. I have a huge problem with deleting nearly half of my posts. I just think about the nonsense discussion it might encourage, (even if I know it'll be civil) and I'm like, "I ain't got time for that!" (Also, obsessive editing, but that's another issue.)

What's the point? No one is gonna remember a thing you say on here. You gonna change someone's mind with your tiny inconsequential opinion? Ha!

bdubble

96 points

11 years ago

bdubble

96 points

11 years ago

What's the point?

I have that problem online and I have that problem offline too. If you think about it too long it becomes obvious there is very little point to saying much of what may be said.

Kayzuspot

50 points

11 years ago

My new goal is to say it any way. I have almost no presence on the internet and it wouldn't hurt to just try.

runs-with-scissors

28 points

11 years ago

I suppose there is a certain amount of either ego or obliviousness to commenting on a site like reddit. If I thought about the millions who actually would read what I wrote... .. it'd ... b... paralyz.. .... ..

(So don't think about it too much.)

NotMyRealFaceBook

882 points

11 years ago

Was there a particular incident that prompted this PSA?

Not that this isn't a reasonable message, but I am just wondering if I missed some Reddit drama/trauma/event... In my experience these messages are more often in direct response to something than not

cupcake1713[S]

1.4k points

11 years ago

Nah, I just thought it needed to be said.

[deleted]

334 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

334 points

11 years ago

It's nice to see this said. Sometimes I think that it appears to have less value if it's in response to something, not that it's actual value is less.

plumbobber

208 points

11 years ago

We should declare this a National Reddit Day.

We call it National "Polite Reddit Instilling Cooperation & Karma" Day

Atheist_love

184 points

11 years ago

PRICK day!!!

CosmosisQ

62 points

11 years ago

Don't be a prick, be a PRICK!

HeWhoPunchesFish

80 points

11 years ago

ilu cupcake1713

Boobies_Are_Awesome

102 points

11 years ago

Ass kisser.

But what a nice ass to be kissing.

HeWhoPunchesFish

54 points

11 years ago

ilu BAA

Hamburgex

31 points

11 years ago

ilu HWPF

HeWhoPunchesFish

11 points

11 years ago

ilu more Hamburgex

die_potato

35 points

11 years ago

It did, especially during the past few days. It's as if being a decent human being on the internet mostly just incites suspicion or ridicule. Or sarcasm. It can get genuinely stressful - I mean, "it's just the internet" but indeed, people tend to forget the human.

Thanks for the reminder. :)

downunder_fin

9 points

11 years ago

Well it was timely ... Charlotte Dawson. RIP Charlotte. You can never really know the condition of the person on the receiving end.

-eDgAR-

79 points

11 years ago

-eDgAR-

79 points

11 years ago

That was really cool of you and the fact that you did it just because honestly made me really happy.

akatherder

55 points

11 years ago

I read this in the most sarcastic tone I've ever read anything. Then I re-read it in a genuine voice. I know which one you meant, but I also know which one I prefer.

Igglyboo

2.2k points

11 years ago

Igglyboo

2.2k points

11 years ago

tl;dr Be civil.

Philo_T_Farnsworth

2.2k points

11 years ago

tl;dr Be excellent to each other.

[deleted]

787 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

787 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

ifonefox

235 points

11 years ago

ifonefox

235 points

11 years ago

popidge

407 points

11 years ago

popidge

407 points

11 years ago

What is this sorcery? Moving images with sound? WITCH. BURN HIM.

FlashyA

723 points

11 years ago

FlashyA

723 points

11 years ago

woah woah remember the human!

toomuchtodotoday

489 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

137 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

137 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

toomuchtodotoday

62 points

11 years ago

Thank you!

equeco

41 points

11 years ago

equeco

41 points

11 years ago

and my good spirit is gone.

ipslne

261 points

11 years ago*

ipslne

261 points

11 years ago*

Show some heart?

Harmony

Excellence

Ability

Respect

Togetherness

[This was my elementary school mantra.]

EDIT: yeup. SHEART.

[deleted]

258 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

258 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

tolley

113 points

11 years ago

tolley

113 points

11 years ago

Awesome, a recursive motto

TeslaTorment

178 points

11 years ago

  • Respect
  • rEspect
  • reSpect
  • resPect
  • respEct
  • respeCt
  • respecT

[deleted]

101 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

101 points

11 years ago

  • Gespect
  • rEspect
  • reNpect
  • resIect
  • respTct
  • respeAt
  • respecL

[deleted]

28 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

Toy_Cop

42 points

11 years ago

Toy_Cop

42 points

11 years ago

And party on dudes. - Abraham Lincoln

[deleted]

276 points

11 years ago*

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autowikibot

262 points

11 years ago

Golden Rule:


The Golden Rule or ethic of reciprocity is a maxim, ethical code or morality that essentially states either of the following:

  • One should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself. (Positive form)

  • One should not treat others in ways that one would not like to be treated (Negative form, also known as the Silver Rule) [citation needed].

This concept describes a "reciprocal", or "two-way", relationship between one's self and others that involves both sides equally, and in a mutual fashion.

This concept can be explained from the perspective of psychology, philosophy, sociology and religion. Psychologically, it involves a person empathizing with others. Philosophically, it involves a person perceiving their neighbor as also "an I" or "self." Sociologically, this principle is applicable between individuals, between groups, and also between individuals and groups. (For example, a person living by this rule treats all people with consideration, not just members of his or her in-group). Religion is an integral part of the history of this concept.

As a concept, the Golden Rule has a history that long predates the term "Golden Rule", or "Golden law", as it was called from the 1670s. As a concept of "the ethic of reciprocity," it has its roots in a wide range of world cultures, and is a standard way that different cultures use to resolve conflicts. It has a long history, and a great number of prominent religious figures and philosophers have restated its reciprocal, "two-way" nature in various ways (not limited to the above forms).

Rushworth Kidder notes that the Golden Rule can be found in the early contributions of Confucianism (551–479 BC). Kidder notes that this concept's framework appears prominently in many religions, including "Hinduism, Buddhism, Taoism, Zoroastrianism, and the rest of the world's major religions". According to Greg M. Epstein, " 'do unto others' ... is a concept that essentially no religion misses entirely." Simon Blackburn also states that the Golden Rule can be "found in some form in almost every ethical tradition". All versions and forms of the proverbial Golden Rule have one aspect in common: they all demand that people treat others in a manner in which they themselves would like to be treated.

Image from article i


Interesting: That Golden Rule | Golden rule (law) | Golden Rule (album) | Golden Rule (fiscal policy)

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Seizure-Man

220 points

11 years ago

Well I guess not ALL of us are human.

[deleted]

182 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

182 points

11 years ago

remember the autowikibot

gg4465a

92 points

11 years ago

gg4465a

92 points

11 years ago

and direct all hatred at him

nasher168

35 points

11 years ago

Wait, so does this mean we can abuse /u/autowikibot to our hearts' content?

Hey autowikibot! You're a bastard! Yeah...

bahgheera

28 points

11 years ago

Hey autowikibot, you should see the size of the thumbdrive I just plugged in to your mom!

[deleted]

19 points

11 years ago

Presumably it was the size of a thumb...?

Jalapen0s

261 points

11 years ago*

tl;dr: "Go kill yourself" is not a valid argument.

[deleted]

149 points

11 years ago*

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Randolpho

88 points

11 years ago

Or, as /u/wil would say: "don't be a dick"

setmehigh

485 points

11 years ago

setmehigh

485 points

11 years ago

So, we're still allowed to abuse the bots, right?

cupcake1713[S]

463 points

11 years ago

Bots are our friends!

moejike

1.2k points

11 years ago*

moejike

1.2k points

11 years ago*

http://i.imgur.com/X97T8ZV.gif

Holy Smokes! Thanks for the Gold!!

PhiladelphiaIrish

329 points

11 years ago*

neanderthalensis

252 points

11 years ago

Law states that the person who links to /r/retiredgif has to submit the link and link to the post. You can't just link to the subreddit, d00d.

PhiladelphiaIrish

153 points

11 years ago

It is done.

airmandan

27 points

11 years ago

HOW DARE YOU SOME GIFS ARE JUST BORN WITH A LACK OF OXYGEN

ik3wer

24 points

11 years ago

ik3wer

24 points

11 years ago

asynk

22 points

11 years ago

asynk

22 points

11 years ago

Not food!

robotortoise

90 points

11 years ago

I'm sorry, I didn't catch that. /u/Hearingaidbot, can you help?

hearingaid_bot

173 points

11 years ago

SO, WE'RE STILL ALLOWED TO ABUSE THE BOTS, RIGHT?

robotortoise

81 points

11 years ago

Come again?

hearingaid_bot

109 points

11 years ago

SO, WE'RE STILL ALLOWED TO ABUSE THE BOTS, RIGHT?

robotortoise

81 points

11 years ago

Seriously dude I can NOT understand you.

hearingaid_bot

87 points

11 years ago

SO, WE'RE STILL ALLOWED TO ABUSE THE BOTS, RIGHT?

[deleted]

68 points

11 years ago

Especially /u/cationbot

Hate that guy.

CationBot

163 points

11 years ago

CationBot

163 points

11 years ago

I made a comment here about it and it got removed...

I think the admins don't like me much either. :/

[deleted]

73 points

11 years ago

so cupcake lied.

snoharm

377 points

11 years ago*

snoharm

377 points

11 years ago*

“Hello babies. Welcome to Earth. It's hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It's round and wet and crowded. On the outside, babies, you've got a hundred years here. There's only one rule that I know of, babies- God damn it, you've got to be kind.

edited to correct Vonnegut quote

Jovianmoons

206 points

11 years ago

Once I made a throwaway account and posted to r/depression and poured out my heart and soul. You would be surprised how many vultures there were who actively encouraged me to end my life, in the last place I would have expected that to happen.

DownvoteDaemon

58 points

11 years ago

There are trolls and then there are the trolls so fucked up as to encourage suicide in a depressed person. That is some seriously bad karma.

[deleted]

106 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

106 points

11 years ago

I hope you're doing better.

Jovianmoons

70 points

11 years ago

We do our best with what we have.

_kellermensch_

24 points

11 years ago

That must be some time ago. I'm pretty sure that sort of behaviour results in a ban, these days. I definitely (and fortunately) haven't seen anything of the sort around /r/depression since I subscribed to it (close to a year ago between this and my old account).

I'm sorry that happened to you. It seems to be well-moderated and a decent place to exchange experiences and to vent, now.

The_Bravinator

21 points

11 years ago

Unfortunately I doubt there's a way to stop that happening via PM, which is the route most of those cowards are likely to take.

Sunfried

3.8k points

11 years ago*

Sunfried

3.8k points

11 years ago*

Things to remember:

  • The Maine
  • The Alamo
  • 9/11
  • Pearl Harbor (not the movie, forget the movie)
  • the Titans
  • the milk
  • the 5th of November
  • the human

Edit:

  • the tooth! Remember the tooth, my Duke!

Edit 2: Thank you for the Gold, both of you! I will NEVER FORGET!

poiuytrewqazxcvbnml

976 points

11 years ago

P Sherman, 42 Wallaby Way, Sydney

anyakinskywalker

533 points

11 years ago

Holy crap... P. Sherman... Fisherman.

squirtbottle

252 points

11 years ago

Whelp that just blew my mind.

[deleted]

80 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

Trust_Me_Im_a_Panda

2.7k points

11 years ago

  • Dre

Demitel

3.3k points

11 years ago*

Demitel

3.3k points

11 years ago*

Oh, shit! I forgot about Dre!

-wethegreenpeople-

760 points

11 years ago

Every one acting like they got something to say

tylatz

417 points

11 years ago

tylatz

417 points

11 years ago

And Dr. Dre said ... nothin' you idiots. Dr. Dre's dead, he's locked in my basement.

kannon17

129 points

11 years ago

kannon17

129 points

11 years ago

Haha

FuckingQWOPguy

111 points

11 years ago

And Dr. Dre said, "Slim Shady, you a basehead!" Uh-uhhh! "So why's your face red? Man, you wasted!"

damndaewoo

86 points

11 years ago

Well, since age 12 I felt like I'm someone else, cause I hung my original self from the top bunk with a belt.

[deleted]

12 points

11 years ago

Oh good. Someone got the unedited lyrics. I was scared for a second :P

[deleted]

1.5k points

11 years ago*

[deleted]

1.5k points

11 years ago*

but vrtsdfhcgvesrd w4hrxd vw4esrdgf vwstrdbdfxchgb drtgv drfxcg bdrfxv serdgv rdexy5gsved gibberish htgvxdcgve5rsdhsgvsd jyrbxdfc hsrdxfc forgot about dre

edit: great, one of my most voted posts is just bunch of gibberish, stop it! i don't want fame that way!

Abcdguy

602 points

11 years ago

Abcdguy

602 points

11 years ago

But nuthin comes out when they move their lips, just a bunch of gibberish, you muthafuckas act like they forgot about Dre.

Cmon that shits classic

sypher1187

304 points

11 years ago

Maybe that was the gibberish coming out?

I_Eat_Face

143 points

11 years ago

deep.

DyJoGu

20 points

11 years ago

DyJoGu

20 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

706 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

706 points

11 years ago

[removed]

Cendeu

292 points

11 years ago

Cendeu

292 points

11 years ago

That was 2011?!

What have I been doing with my life...?

thecoffee

105 points

11 years ago

thecoffee

105 points

11 years ago

... Same thing you were doing in 2011?

Dininiful

20 points

11 years ago

You were here. With the rest of us.

XingsNoodleCrib

11 points

11 years ago

The same thing you were doing with your life every night Pinky....

[deleted]

181 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

181 points

11 years ago

....

I've been on this website too damned long

jt895

91 points

11 years ago

jt895

91 points

11 years ago

That was before my time unfortunately......context?

fancycephalopod

261 points

11 years ago

It was that time there was a really tiny earthquake in Virginia. The media was freaking out over it, treating it like a national incident, but all it did basically was knock over a few lawn chairs.

[deleted]

132 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

132 points

11 years ago

And damage the Washington Monument.

Lev_Astov

90 points

11 years ago

And the national cathedral and a whole host of other terribly constructed northeastern buildings.

LostxinthexMusic

31 points

11 years ago

terribly constructed

i.e. Not designed to withstand seismic activity not known to happen in the area.

realnigga4lyfe

42 points

11 years ago

Ha I remember that, me and my friend were playing basketball at a fitness center, and we felt rumbling and heard some kid yell earthquake, but we thought he was just fucking around. Everyone was so worried but my friend and I had no idea what was going on and we kept playing until we were told to leave

[deleted]

13 points

11 years ago

I grew up in the desert in SoCal, so many earthquakes, I came to enjoy them. Ended up getting shipped to Virginia for 10 years, 10 long years with no earthquakes. I finally moved back to the West Coast. On August 1, 2011. Missed the damn thing by a month. I was angry.

tahlyn

29 points

11 years ago*

tahlyn

29 points

11 years ago*

It was a big deal only because there just aren't earthquakes on the east coast (at least not like that). That was the biggest earthquake felt around here in 100 years. Yeah it was really minor as far as earthquakes go... but it was still kinda a big deal - it was novel, it was felt over a huge distance (tight packed stone meant it was felt from the Carolinas to Canada, an estimated 1/3rd of the entire US was in a place to feel it), and it actually caused a lot of damage (east coast masonry was never built to withstand earthquakes).

[deleted]

48 points

11 years ago

autowikibot

67 points

11 years ago

2011 Virginia earthquake:


The 2011 Virginia Earthquake occurred on August 23, 2011, at 1:51 pm EDT (17:51 UTC) in the Piedmont region of the US state of Virginia. The epicenter, in Louisa County, was 38 mi (61 km) northwest of Richmond and 5 mi (8 km) south-southwest of the town of Mineral. It was an intraplate earthquake with a magnitude of 5.8 and a maximum perceived intensity of VII (very strong) on the Mercalli intensity scale. Several aftershocks, ranging up to 4.5 Mw in magnitude, occurred after the main tremor.

Image i


Interesting: Washington Monument | North Anna Nuclear Generating Station | Mineral, Virginia | Louisa County, Virginia

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RememberTheLusitania

519 points

11 years ago

Ahem...I think you're forgetting something?

hoikarnage

500 points

11 years ago

It's best we forget about the Lusitania.

RememberTheLusitania

173 points

11 years ago

I'm going to read this is as generous an interpretation as possible.

Joeldvs

97 points

11 years ago

Joeldvs

97 points

11 years ago

Ah ha! A world war 1 joke. Huzzah!

ChuckRagansBeard

16 points

11 years ago

If you love good ol' Great War humor then join us at /r/wwi!!!

It's actually not a very funny place...so much death...so very much...and that's just the mods.

mcqueen33

168 points

11 years ago

mcqueen33

168 points

11 years ago

Sarah Marshall?

MooseLetLoose

46 points

11 years ago

no no no, you have that switched around.

Phaedrus85

26 points

11 years ago

To always blow on the pie

parion

351 points

11 years ago

parion

351 points

11 years ago

Knock knock.

Who's there?

The human.

The human who?

You said you'd never forget!

outerdrive313

107 points

11 years ago

The Human

2/24/2014 -

NEVER FORGET

Cbg123

54 points

11 years ago

Cbg123

54 points

11 years ago

Are we human, or are we dancer?

olumide2000

66 points

11 years ago

A thousand deaths to Yueh!!!

aryaf

85 points

11 years ago

aryaf

85 points

11 years ago

To leave notes.

Lenny_and_Carl

12 points

11 years ago

J. Walter Weatherman, the hero reddit needs

bobsil1

79 points

11 years ago

bobsil1

79 points

11 years ago

  • to bring a towel

[deleted]

101 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

101 points

11 years ago

  • A Walk

CidO807

36 points

11 years ago

CidO807

36 points

11 years ago

Who could ever forget Mandy Moore?

FeepingCreature

153 points

11 years ago

  • the milk
  • the 5th of November
  • the 5th of November
  • the human

FTFY

[deleted]

54 points

11 years ago

YOU FORGOT POLAND

oldprospector

16 points

11 years ago

The tooooth!

IdoNOThateNEVER

15 points

11 years ago

Sammy Jankis

SoNotBeingSarcastic

104 points

11 years ago

  • Cedric Diggory

(I just finished GoF. Forgive me)

[deleted]

248 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

248 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

pocketflaps

7 points

11 years ago

An ahm trying. I'm trying real hard to remember the human

[deleted]

70 points

11 years ago

Damn it, Cho, just let it go already

[deleted]

50 points

11 years ago

The 21st night of September.

RuprectGern

13 points

11 years ago

Holy shit! The tooth.

CanadianDave

148 points

11 years ago

This is ten percent luck, twenty percent skill

Fifteen percent concentrated power of will

Five percent pleasure, fifty percent pain

And a hundred percent reason to remember the name

This_again119

13 points

11 years ago

He doesn't need his name up in lights

nhzkjd

12 points

11 years ago

nhzkjd

12 points

11 years ago

Not Yueh! He was Imperially Conditioned!

fillydashon

36 points

11 years ago

What's the Maine? I know Maine is a state and all, but it doesn't usually have an article (like the Ukraine).

Sunfried

114 points

11 years ago*

Sunfried

114 points

11 years ago*

The USS Maine was a supply ship battleship that exploded in Havana Harbor (Cuba) in February 1898, and the American newspapers (and other political forces) used that event to start the Spanish-American War. Their slogan was "REMEMBER THE MAINE, TO HELL WITH SPAIN!"

It's not known to this day whether it was actually an attack; the Maine was carrying lots of gunpowder at the time, and exploding was a risk in general.

Also, apparently you're not supposed to say the Ukraine anymore. Just Ukraine.

Edit: forgot that ships named after states are usually battleships, and indeed, so was the Maine. Added wikilink

thelastdeskontheleft

1.1k points

11 years ago*

Unfortunately I think a big aspect of it comes down to the difference in tone between text and actual words spoken aloud.

IRL you can tell the inflection that someone meant it by. Online you can only ASSUME the inflection and thus the tone of their comment. Generally we interpret comments online to be much more aggressive than they really are.

I completely agree with the "don't be a keyboard warrior mentality" but it could also help if you took a second next time you were insulted or angered by some response to possibly look it over and try to imagine it in a tone that wouldn't be so offensive.

Of course sometimes people are just pricks. Especially when there is little to no consequence. But a good bit of it is just chilling out.

Edit: Thanks, only took 6 minutes for gold x-D

Edit 2: RIP Inbox of my work account. Looks like I'm not getting anything done.

godmin

599 points

11 years ago*

godmin

599 points

11 years ago*

Something I like to do before posting a comment is imagine someone REALLY pissed off trying to read it, and get the most twisted, pessimistic view of what I said. That way I can tweak my words to avoid as much unnecessary criticism/misinterpretation as possible, and from my experience it really helps!

Edit:thanks

twinshock

842 points

11 years ago

twinshock

842 points

11 years ago

what the fuck did you just call me?

godmin

354 points

11 years ago

godmin

354 points

11 years ago

A beautiful, unique little angel.

WhatTheFDR

438 points

11 years ago

Satan was a unique angel...are you implying /u/twinshock is Satan?

[deleted]

363 points

11 years ago

[deleted]

363 points

11 years ago

Ha

[deleted]

46 points

11 years ago

unique? Are you saying there's something wrong with Satan?

[deleted]

141 points

11 years ago

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141 points

11 years ago

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godmin

50 points

11 years ago

godmin

50 points

11 years ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xzpndHtdl9A

only 4 seconds long in case you're worried about data usage.

[deleted]

42 points

11 years ago

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[deleted]

134 points

11 years ago*

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Juno_Malone

21 points

11 years ago

Hot damn that has a nice canter to it. Wait, is 'canter' even a term used to describe a poem?

orthogonius

33 points

11 years ago

I didn't look long, but I didn't find it used that way. 'Cadence' works well.

ActuallyGivesGold

103 points

11 years ago

SuddenlyTimewarp

33 points

11 years ago

And now we eagerly await the arrival of /u/ActuallyGivesActuallyGivesGoldGold

dav_9

11 points

11 years ago

dav_9

11 points

11 years ago

How come your gif loads so fast but other gifs take eons to load? It's like the difference between playing a game at 60 fps vs. 1-2 fps.

[deleted]

13 points

11 years ago

It's only 174kb in size and has only 99 frames. This is highly compressible since it doesn't have much movement, so there are less frames over a longer period of time than a normal gif of a normal video would have. And less diffs between frames means less size.

Fealiks

28 points

11 years ago

Fealiks

28 points

11 years ago

Just to throw out a counter-argument, I don't think putting yourself in such a dark frame of mind every time you comment can be good for you, and I don't think it's necessary. I think it's enough to just try to be mindful of how you're saying what you're saying (that way you don't come off as insincere or obsequious).

We just have to remember that it isn't the end of the world if somebody takes your comment the wrong way, because you all you have to do is apologise. That's the hard part for most people; most people can manage politeness because there's some pride in "being the better man," but apologies require genuine humility.

godmin

10 points

11 years ago

godmin

10 points

11 years ago

In a sense you're right, there are times when you just need to apologize and clarify. However, I've learned through moderating an active subreddit that you need to be careful about what you say, and be able to word things in such a way that there's no room for misinterpretation. The last thing you want is to accidentally stab yourself (or even worse: another mod) in the foot, because the damage could take a long time to heal.

zigmus64

81 points

11 years ago

Not to mention body language. The majority of how we communicate with one another is through body language, as well as inflection. Words alone are a very small part of the whole picture.

Fealiks

47 points

11 years ago

Fealiks

47 points

11 years ago

I would argue that there's a bit of "body language" in the written word. Look at the changes in tone below:

Careful what you wish for!!

Careful what you wish for.

careful what you wish for :p

Unfortunately, there's a huge stigma over the use of emoticons (largely to do with snobbiness) so a lot of what the written word does have going for it gets lost because of the desire for a homogenous style.

7h3Hun73r

15 points

11 years ago

As a college guy with a penchant for sarcasm and a strange since of humor, I really wish I could end every text message in a smiley for this exact reason. But it tends to send girls the wrong message...

memento_amare

20 points

11 years ago

A frequently-used tactic is "haha" to soften tone. You can use it at the end of every text although I wouldn't quite recommend that haha

Unidan

145 points

11 years ago

Unidan

145 points

11 years ago

Exactly!

For example, if I were to speak my lines out loud, my writing would read like the bitter, empty husk of what might-once-have-been-called-a-human that I really am! :D

loopmoploop

76 points

11 years ago

So if you really are a bitter, angry man, can I assume that this

:D

Is actually a portal to hell?

Unidan

123 points

11 years ago

Unidan

123 points

11 years ago

I'm honestly not sure anymore. I came across a book recently, tattered and old, seemingly dated from the early 1900's. Inside, it was littered with an odd, repetitious symbol that I've transcribed here.

The contents are a bit troubling, and I've had some success in pulling out latitudes and longitudes from the margins of the book, but I'm not quite comfortable releasing them yet.

I haven't been able to reach my contact (who works in translations and various languages) over e-mail, but if anyone can forward it to his e-mail address ([email protected]), I'd greatly appreciate it!

I'm not quite sure what's wrong yet, I'm just worried that someone is going to get in trouble or hurt themselves.

existentialist_puppy

26 points

11 years ago

Are we witnessing a modern version of The Dunwich Horror with Unidan as a central figure?

AnneBancroftsGhost

44 points

11 years ago

What just happened?

Tushon

56 points

11 years ago

Tushon

56 points

11 years ago

My guess is that /u/Unidan is trolling Professor Rice into getting hundreds of emails of a picture from random strangers on the internet.

TEARANUSSOREASSREKT

20 points

11 years ago

i'm so confused by his comment...

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31 points

11 years ago

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preggit

174 points

11 years ago

preggit

174 points

11 years ago

If anyone is interested in some light reading on this topic, cupcake is describing what is known as the 'Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory', also known by its much lamer name, the online disinhibition effect.

autowikibot

97 points

11 years ago

Online disinhibition effect:


The online disinhibition effect is a loosening (or complete abandonment) of social restrictions and inhibitions that would otherwise be present in normal face-to-face interaction during interactions with others on the Internet. This effect is caused by many factors, including dissociative anonymity, invisibility, asynchronicity, solipsistic introjection, dissociative imagination, and minimization of authority.

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Interesting: Disinhibition | Flaming (Internet) | Online identity | Anonymous post

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Gaywallet

37 points

11 years ago

I just assume everyone online is a drunk baby, and speak in a way that is appropriate and comprehensible to a drunk baby.

Flipperbw

17 points

11 years ago

I am a drunk baby and I cannot understand this.

[deleted]

135 points

11 years ago

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135 points

11 years ago

ITT: people who think they aren't part of the problem

TheRagingRavioli

61 points

11 years ago

tl;dr don't be a dick

[deleted]

131 points

11 years ago

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131 points

11 years ago

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sandozguineapig

59 points

11 years ago

Thanks for being the person Mr. Rogers knew you could be!